Hello everyone, I'm Chris Cahill and welcome to Psychic Every Day. You're listening to skidrowstudios.com, real radio on the internet. And I'm coming to you tonight, which is what, June 12th, 2013, with another live show. And I'm doing a show, another show about being psychic. I am a professional psychic, a clairvoyant, and I come to you every Wednesday at 7 o'clock Pacific time for an hour-long weekly show about different kinds of things having to do with being psychic. And I'm really excited about tonight's theme. I've been working for the month of June, working the theme of bringing your self-image into present time. And tonight, I'm working one of my favorite aspects of that whole, the whole big concept of bringing your self-image into present time and what does that mean and, you know, all the different places that you might go with that. In fact, last week's show was all about bringing your own self-image into present time. And tonight's show is really going to be about loving yourself. And actually, the title of the show is Love Yourself and Start a Revolution. And really, it's that powerful. When you begin to really become conscious of the energy of self-love and of being able to have love for yourself, you change a lot of things. You change your world. So that's where we're working right now as, you know, in our evolution. And it's where each of us are working too. Now, a couple things I want to mention. During the show, we are doing a live stream. We're starting to, Skid Row Studios is doing live streaming. So we have video going right now. If you go to skidrowstudios.com, you can see me live. I'm right here right now talking at you. And I've got Mindy Jorgensen. Here in the booth running my sound. And she's running my video. And she's making it all look beautiful and sound great. Thank you, Mindy. And I am also going to be taking calls through the show. I will be giving readings on air. So if you want to call up sometime during the show about, you know, get a reading about your own self-love pictures. And I'm not going to look at it in a way just like that. But whatever questions you decide to ask, I'll be working it from the perspective of how does this look when you're in a relationship with someone who's not in a relationship with you. And I'm not going to look at it in a way just like that. And you are working from that picture of and that energy of self-love. So if you decide to call tonight, the number here is 1-800-893-9562. And I look forward to hearing from you. So let me just bring it. Here's what I got going on with this. Love yourself and start a revolution. You know that when you decide that no matter what else is happening in your world or how other people might feel about you or what they... you know, how they treat you or what they're doing in their own world, when you decide all of that for yourself, that, you know, despite all that, you're just going to not really worry about it all and kind of mind your own business and learn to love yourself, know who you are and love yourself, you actually change everything that you're able to have and that you're able to create. You change how energy works for you. You change what you attract. You change what you don't... You change what you don't attract. You change what you don't attract. Sometimes when we're going through things in our lives where we kind of don't love ourselves or feel a little, you know, nebulous about that, like, I don't know if I should love myself or not because I'm really screwing up. I don't know if that's worth loving. You know, you might not love the screw up, but you got to love you. But when you're going through times like that and you're not sure, you might really, you know, hit the wall a few times or bump into something a few times to remind yourself. So it's not that you're trying to do something negative or nasty or hurt yourself. It just might be that you're trying to remember, oh, yeah, it's up to you. It's up to you to do this. When you decide to love yourself just as you are, you heal yourself. And what happens as a result of that? You become healing to be around. It's really nice to be around people who like themselves or who have a lot of self-love or practice it or work on it. Just notice that. The people you know who might be your mentor, mentors or who have been in the past or who were really inspiring to you when you were a child, you know, the adults that it was safe to be around. Usually the adults that was really nice and safe to be around were the ones who really loved themselves or they knew about love. They knew how to forgive and they knew how to really love who they are. The ones who don't love themselves, you know, you don't have to go and make them wrong or try to blame them for anything. But if you're around people who do not practice this or who actually actively love themselves, or who actively practice self-hatred, then it's really tough to be around that energy. And you can't do anything for them. They have to figure it out. So why don't you just start with you and not worry about them? Do you and others are going to follow. I'm telling you, they're going to match. Now, I've already got a caller who may have been waiting for a little while. I noticed somebody called really early tonight and then called back. So I'd love to take my first reading, actually. Let's see, who's this? Hi. Live. Hello. Yes. Hi, it's Chris. Hi, Chris. Hi, what's your name? My name is Kaylee. Kaylee? Kaylee with an L. Oh, Kaylee. Thank you. Thanks for calling up. Was that you calling really early tonight? No, no. I just made one call tonight. Well, good for you. You're the first one who got on. So tell me, would you like a reading? And actually, first of all, where are you calling from? I'm calling from Montana. Oh, nice. Nice. Well, thank you for listening. I appreciate it. Thank you for your show. It's been great. I enjoy it. Oh, I'm glad. Thanks so much for telling me that. Well, what's your question? Well, I guess I'd just like to know what I need to do to kind of tap into all my psychic abilities. It's definitely an interest of mine and maybe a little help from you. You could tell me what I need to clean up or clear out or... Well, the first picture I see... And I'm just going to give you kind of like, as you know, a mini reading. So it's not like I'll get into the whole... Because there's a lot going on with you. But what I do... And I see that as good. But the first picture I see is that it would be... It looks like you're already playing with them or listening more and really trying to tap in. But the picture I see is that it's a picture of you being sort of like the detective. You know, kind of like a psychic detective. Not trying to actually be a detective with your psychic abilities. But the picture is... Using them to look for things or to look for energies or for answers. Or just like to look around the bend. Like what's coming or what do I need to do next or all this stuff. But the picture I see with this is not that it has to be so specific. But that it looks like you're trying to really listen to the intuition you are getting. And when I look at you just not needing it to be necessarily approved of or... Made sense. You know, like to make sense or have others make sense of it or approve of it. It looks like it really works for you. And it's just, you know, you've been... If you've been listening to my show, you know I talk about this stuff. I mean, intuition is that thing that's just right there. It doesn't necessarily make sense. But it's there. And what... Since my theme tonight is self-love, I'm going to kind of tie it into that for you too. Because that's part of the point of each theme every week. And when I look at you using your self-love. Mixing that with your intuition. Mixing it with other abilities that you already have. Like I see them kind of as a... There's a treasure room inside of you that you haven't discovered yet. You're trying to find. But you may have had the picture that the treasure room somehow that you need the abilities to get to it. And what I'm seeing is that actually, you know, they're in the treasure room. They are the treasure. But so is your own energy. And when I look at you taking a step with your own psychic ability. It looks like it's tied hand in hand with you healing yourself. You know, just that self-love energy. One of the things... I know you've heard me talk about this before. But meditation is a great way to get started. Meditation really helps with turning on abilities too. Because once you know where you're at. And you start to be grounded and feel safe and all the rest of it. It's easier to get that stuff moving. And not feel like it's out of control. For you, it looks like it's more about not having to make sense. You know? Like letting yourself have the intuition. Letting yourself play with it. That's the detective picture. It's like playful detective. Not all serious and I have to solve everything. And that's the thing. You're already a healer. But when you start to turn these abilities on to be the play. The art. The creative part of you that they are. And then bring that spirit along with them. Bring your self-love. And your determination to use your abilities to heal yourself. And really get to know yourself. It makes all the difference. It's they're not there to be used to go fix the world. Really. So when we start to do this for ourselves. And we inspire each other that way too. But then we really do change our world. It's already happening. So those abilities are there. They've been kind of hidden. Or almost forgotten. But they're there. You've always known they were there. And it looks like you just starting to play. And you don't have to be so serious with them. Okay. That sounds good. All right. Good. Well thank you so much for calling and for listening. I really appreciate that you called in tonight. No. Thank you, Chris. Enjoy it. Oh, thank you, Kayle. Good work. Oh, thank you so much. Have fun. Bye-bye. Take care. Bye-bye. You too. Bye. Hi, everyone. I'm Chris Cahill. And if you're just joining me, this is a live show. And I'm talking about loving yourself. And I'm talking about loving yourself. Love yourself and start a revolution. That's my theme tonight. So if you're just getting, if you just got here or you just turned this on, just letting you know, you're at skidrowstudios.com, Real Radio on the internet. And you can also see the show being live streamed at Skid Row Studios, which is also pretty cool. I'm actually looking at a screen full of me going, ah, and I'll just look at my microphone instead. But it's really fun to see. It's just neat that we're doing this now. All the shows here, there's a lot of wonderful people. And I'm just so excited to be here. I'm so excited to be here. I'm so excited to be here. I'm so excited to be here. I'm so excited to be here. I'm so excited to be here. And there's so much incredible shows on this station and we've got live streaming on all shows on this station and we've got live streaming on all shows on this station and we've got live streaming on all shows on this station and we've got live streaming on all shows on this station and we've got live streaming on all shows on this station and we've got live streaming on all shows on this station and we've got live streaming on all shows as I mentioned, when you decide to love yourself and you don't really need anybody else to kind of put the stamp of approval on it, I mean, just here's an example. You might have grown up thinking that when you did X, Y, or Z, you know, when you got the good grades or when you got the job or the relationship or all the different things that you really wanted to have or thought you wanted to have, that then it would make sense and you would be really happy. And you might have actually had a completely different attitude, which is, oh, I'm happy anyway. I don't need, you know, that stuff to make me happy. But sometimes we kind of put a little stipulation on self-love. When I have decided I am, you know, good at this or I look good in a bikini or this happens or that happens, then I'm going to love myself. It kind of doesn't work like that. That's sort of going backwards. If you keep... You keep putting stipulations on that and that's cruel. You know, it's really actually cruel to yourself. You wouldn't consciously do that to a person you really cared about and love, but you might do it to you. And it's not that you're really wanting to do that. It's just that sometimes that's what, you know, it's kind of how it is. You might have seen, you might have grown up watching people in your family do it to themselves or in your neighborhood, or it was the judgment that everybody was in about their own bodies or about their own abilities, or if you didn't fit in and other... You know, other people told you like how wrong you were because you didn't fit in. You might have forgotten that actually it's not really anybody else's problem who you are or what you choose to do as long as you're deciding to be you. And back to an example earlier, the people you've been around in your life who do love themselves, who care about themselves or who have learned to do that. And what a joy it is to be around that. And I think that's what's so important about this. It's about the energy. When you're around someone who is validated or knows how to be validated with from within, it's very validating. Otherwise, you get kind of sucked into other people's pain or their invalidation, or they're always trying to look for something wrong. There's something wrong. I have to find what's wrong. And what might be wrong with them is just that they don't love themselves and nobody can make them. But you can be a good example by starting with you. I have another caller right now, and I'd like to give another reading. Hi, you are live. This is Chris. Hi, Chris. Hi, who's this? It's Christine. Hi. Christine, how are you? I'm good. How are you doing? Very good. Thanks for listening and for calling. Of course. I love it. I love it. I love it. Good. Well, what can I ask? What do you got for me? What would you like me to look at? Well, hi. You know, self-love is a beautiful theme that I'm personally experiencing lately, as you may know. And I've noticed an increase in criticism or judgment. And I also noticed that my compassion is elevating. You know, there's sort of a compassion thing that's kicking in as far as like, wow, okay. But at the same time, there's a little bit of a twist. There's a little bit of a change of like, ouch. And, you know, because it's, you know, kind of like feedback and things like that are coming in. So I just wanted to explore that a little bit more and then, you know, see or just learn a little bit about what you... Well, here's the picture. It's really great. I think you're going to like this picture. It looks like when you started on your path to start healing yourself. And that's the picture is you were cleaning out your house. And I see you going into the front hall where, you know, how there's like the front hall, you know, if you have a front hall coat closet or some kind of the closet where you throw everything in. That's like the boots and the shoes and the coats and the stuff, you know. And that's the picture is there's this closet that everything got thrown into. And it looks like you decided to go in and clean it out. So you knew what was in there. And to get rid of your... I see you looking in and going, oh, I don't want those old boots. They don't really fit anymore. They're not very... I don't feel good in them. They're not validating. And you started doing that and all the gunk that you're pulling out of the closet. It just keeps coming out and coming out. And that looks like the picture of the criticism or the negativity coming in that you like went whole hog. You decided that's it. I'm getting rid of the lies. You know, I'm getting rid of all the lies in my space. And you are being given a gift by those who are kind of reflecting that back at you. I mean, because you know how that is. We reflect ourselves to each other. Or, you know, somebody is reflecting back at you what you're... What you're seeing for yourself. And it looks like what you've been doing is getting the negativity. And really, it's kind of like having crust, like crusty stuff on a cabinet that you're... One day you go, oh, there's all this crust on it. I got to scrub this off. This is gross. And that's the picture of getting the gunk out. And it really does look like pain, too. It looks like it's like just coated or encrusted pain, like where the pain was underneath all the stuff that you left on top of it. So what I'm seeing is that... This is not a negative so much as it is a healing process. It's not going to continue like this. This is just a time. And one thing that looks to me like you, how you get some space with this is finding some amusement with it. Because you created it. And I don't see that as being wrong. It's helpful. It's like a healing for you. You might want to just look and see, okay, what did I decide to mock up here? Well, how about if I go about it... If I'm going to be working with self-love, let me do it the happy way. You know? The positive way. Because it looks like, too, some of the criticism is coming in from people who may not have actually mastered self-love themselves. And it's not for us to judge or decide how that should be. But that there is kind of a place where you used to match and now you're changing how you match. You're changing how you choose to have your energy vibrating. Wow. So it's cool. You're doing some deep cleaning. I know. It's kind of groovy. It really is. It is. Yeah. It's powerful. You're that capable that you can do that. So it's okay to say... You know, because I also see you being totally gung-ho about how you're going to grow. And you're a little bit in boot camp right now. I am, yes. You are. And so what I'm looking at you is, well, why can't you just go to play camp? Why does it have to be boot camp with a drill sergeant? How about if it's like, you know, kiddie camp where you get to go and color? And it's fun. Right, right. You know, so it looks like you could lighten it up a little. It's okay. It's not that you're trying to make it heavy because you do have a light touch and you do have a light spirit, but it looks like it'll be... Yeah, start working the fun pictures too. Okay. And then so just continue practicing compassion for any negativity that may arise. Yeah, just forgive it. Let it go. Be amused. All right. Okay. Thank you so much. All right. You're welcome. And have a beautiful, beautiful evening, Chris. Thank you. Thanks for listening, Christine. Thanks for calling. Always. All right. Okay. Bye. Bye. Hi, everyone. I'm coming to you live. You may have been here since the beginning of the show, in which case I want to say thank you. And if you just joined me, I want to say thank you. I am coming to you live from skidrowstudios.com, Chris Cahill's Psychic Everyday Radio. And I'm doing a show about self-love, which you may have caught if you've been hearing, listening to me giving these readings and talking. You can call in and get a reading. And the number here is 1-800-893-9562. And if you're online, you can notice that we are live streaming. You can watch, too. What's happening? It's, you know, I'm sitting here with headphones on and talking into a microphone and kind of laughing and saying, yeah, it's fun. So continuing, your self-image is up to you. And I did go into that a lot more in last week's show, too, just about talking about bringing your self-image into presence. And time and all the rest of it. But whether or not you decide or choose to love yourself is also up to you. When you begin to practice self-love and you really start to create that for yourself and bring that vibration within you of having self-love for you, you're unstoppable. If you're on your path doing the things you want to do and you may not have any idea where they're going or what makes sense or what doesn't make sense. You just know you have to go do this thing. And you start doing that. And you also decide along the way you're picking up, you know, a big healthy case of self-love to take with you. It's going to be really tough to shut you down. Even if you hit a wall or you make a, you know, you hit like something just isn't working the way you'd like it to or you make a mistake or some other thing. If you're working on that self-love picture, it's not a problem. You really won't have any problems at all. You'll just be able to do it. You'll just be able to go, yep, here we go. This is part of my growth. It's part of my, what I'm, what I'm learning, what I'm working on having for myself. And it's not up to anybody else. It really isn't. So I have another caller and I'd like to give another reading. Hello, caller. You are live. Hi, Chris. It's Karen. Karen. Welcome. Thanks for calling. How are you doing? Good. And you look great on the air. Oh, excellent. Thank you. Yeah, I'm watching the live stream from Seattle here. Cool. Thank you. Thanks, Mindy. She was messing around with the cameras before we got started. It does look good. I'm watching the big screen. It's kind of fun. Yeah, it's really cool. Yeah, I like it. Neat. Well, my topic or question is, rather, maybe the question is, what does my vision, what does my personal vision of self-love look like for me? I tend to be a self-critical personality, but self-love is starting to win out lately. Hot damn. Yeah, that's great. So how do I balance this? Because the self-criticism has been too strong in the past, but with some self-love, perhaps it could become more, well, more neutral and more forgiving, still inspirational, but less harsh. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. shocked by this picture, but the picture I see is you in grammar school and there's a nun with a ruler and a piece of chalk and a blackboard. And she's showing the whole class. Now this is how it's supposed to be. And she just represents the authority. It's like just the, you know, the authority picture. I'm not, I'm not dissing on nuns here, but it's like that picture of the authority. And in the classroom, the authority is the teacher, especially when you're a kid, but she represents or he represents something bigger. And that's the picture is here, here kids, this is what you're supposed to measure up to make sure that you do, because that's how you will live and succeed and be well and do good things. And, you know, the, the picture isn't terrible. Some of it is just simply, Hey, study and do your work and get good grades and, you know, go and go out and play or just do different things like that. But I also see there's this real rigid level. That's kind of insidious. That's underneath. And a lot of this, you're very conscious of it's sort of the, um, the work environment or the rules of the culture, the society, like you better measure up to this or else. And I see that that has, um, in, and this is not an unusual, this is not certainly not just you who hit this stuff, but it's about, um, if you don't fit in or you don't measure up or you don't somehow succeed in this framework, you know, in the matrix, then you are going to, um, you will fail. And how dare you love yourself? You can't really love yourself if you don't really, you know, go create the thing that, that you're supposed to quote unquote. And that's the picture is like you not you fitting in, but not fitting in kind of like you matching, but your, your heart wasn't in it all the way either because there was always something else that you wanted. And I see too, you as a, as a child looking at, um, the rules and like really sort of adjusting yourself to fit in. And if something, that you wanted or that you were feeling didn't go along with that or didn't work somehow, you would, you would kind of forget it. It was more about, um, you putting everything else first before you. It's actually one of the examples I was going to be coming up with tonight. I have it written in my notes, but it's putting everyone else and everything else in front of you and in including in front of yourself, love. So it's kind of, it's being selfless in a way that ends up, um, being a little martyr like, and what I see is that's pastime. That's, not present time at all for you. That's the stuff you, you moved out of your way that you've been moving out of your way. And when I look at you in present time and what is it, I just see this picture of you sitting and you're, you know, sitting down outside, you've got a book, you've got, you know, a camera, you've got your, a notebook, but you're not really using any of these things. You brought all this stuff with to kind of play with and create, but you're just sitting and watching people and you're just enjoying what you're seeing. You're just laughing. You know, watching people and just watching people be people. You're not laughing in a mean way. It's more about the enjoyment of, oh, this is, I just love how, you know, how that little kid over there is walking. And I love how that it's just this love, you know, love for being in a human body, love for the human condition, love for being on some level. And to me that where you start to play like that, that you've always had that ability, but this is taking a new step with it. Is this making sense to you? Yes. Excellent. It's really fun. It's about you creating and allowing the fun in and not worrying about, you know, you have to be this perfect or that perfect. You kind of stepped out of the perfect grid. No more in the, no more in the grid. Get out of the grid. Live outside the grid. Excellent. Leave the grid. Exactly. Because you're creating more organically and that goes along with the love. Looks good to me. Yeah. That sounds great. Thank you. Oh, Karen, thank you. You had something else you wanted to say there. Well, I was just going to say, it seems easier these days to create from a vision instead of rules. Yes. This is how it should be instead. But instead, as you saw, how would I like it to feel or having fun or what is my own image of this or impression of this and then begin to create? Yeah. And thank you for saying that. Because that's another point. It's the experience. And the experience is also in present time in the body. So the rules are not present time in the body, but you can have the rules in the body too. But it's not necessarily being in present time to be in the rules. The rules are always past time. Present time rule is right here, right now. What's the deal? What am I choosing? What am I feeling? What am I, what am I, what's happening? So that's cool. Then what am I creating? And that's what you're creating. Looks great. Awesome. Thank you, Chris. Yay. Thank you, Karen. Nice talking to you. Have a good night. You too. All right. Enjoy the show. Bye. Hi, everyone. I am Chris Cahill. This is Psychic Everyday Radio at skidrowstudios.com, real radio on the internet. And you are listening to a live show about self-love. And the title of the show is Love Yourself and Start a Revolution. And that's what I'm working on tonight. I am giving calls or I'm sorry, giving readings to callers and the number is 1-800-893-9562. And as you just heard from the last few callers, everybody's calling in about self-love and their new pictures about loving themselves and what that means and how they're growing and changing. And, you know, it's, it's really fun. This is a really very present time topic. Actually at the end of, I always, by the, you know, the end of the year, I'm going to be doing a little bit of a podcast. I'm going to be doing a little bit of a we all do a wrap up. Everybody's got kind of a wrap up of their year and sort of looking ahead at the new year. And what is it? Do I, do I want this year? How do I want to create? What would I like to see happen? And I always end up seeing the energy, like what's coming? You know, what does it look like? And what I saw at the end of 2012 was, oh, 2013, it really is about self-love. I'm not the only one saying this. I've been noticing a lot of other people have been calling that out too, but it really is because when you start to work with this energy, you're going to be able to do a lot of things. And I think that's a really good thing. And I think that's a really good thing. And I think that's a really good thing. And I think that's a really good thing. And I think that's a really good thing. And I think that's a really good And decide for yourself that it is your truth. It's very difficult to stop you from creating what you want because you stop comparing and judging yourself to what you think you have to be in order to love yourself. So, you know, sometimes we go backwards. We go from the cart, you know, leading the horse in order to love myself. I have to go do all these things right. What if you didn't? What if you could just decide to love yourself? And then all of a sudden stuff will start to go right because you did. I have another caller I'd love to take right now. Hello? Hi. Welcome. It's Chris. Hey, how are you doing? Good. How are you? I'm doing great. I'm doing great. I love the topic that you guys are discussing tonight. Oh, thank you. I appreciate that. What's your name? My name is Brandon. I'm from Stoke, Oklahoma, small town, middle of nowhere. I remember you, Brandon. You called into my show about a month ago or so. I did, about blues and all that. Yep. I remember. It's cool that you remember. I also appreciate that. Yeah, of course. I remember people. So what can I do for you? Do you have a comment, a question? You have a question for me? Yeah, I have a question. I don't know. I'm addicted to being miserable. You know what I mean? Uh-huh. Like, I love just, I don't know, it's weird. Like, I went to boot camp. I went to boot camp. I went to the military and all that, and they drew that into you. They teach you how to be miserable. And, like, you know what I mean? I've inherited that. Right. And it's kind of hard to, you know, not like, you can take care of yourself a lot more easier living that way. But it's a lot more difficult to try to, you know, cherish yourself, try to treat yourself and love yourself. Right. It's a lot more difficult. It is. And it's also a lie. So when I look at the lie in your space that you're supposed to be miserable, or you're supposed to be unhappy, first of all, I'm not surprised that you learned it in boot camp, because boot camp exists all over the place, depending on, you know, it can be like a real specific, you know, literal boot camp, or it can be another kind where somebody's getting indoctrinated or taught in some way to line up to a particular energy. If you are miserable and you are invalidated, it's easier to control you. And that's what the military is all about, is control. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Also, that looks to me like a little bit of your own drama because you're an artist, you're a musician. And like a lot of other musicians and artists, and certainly not all of them, there's the tendency to sometimes go really deep into something, like really in kind of a real dark way to make it real. Oh, I did that. Yeah. Oh, I did that, yeah. Yeah, that's okay. It's not a problem. Just because you're a blues musician doesn't mean you have to have the blues, you know? Here, here's the point. Oh, it's a train. I mean, it never stopped. Well, I know some blues musicians who don't have the blues, who are a lot. Yeah. They know how to be cheerful, too. And it's you kind of not being in neutral yet about that. You have a lot of judgment about that. It looks like it just simply has to do, too, with where you're at in your experience in this lifetime. And when I look at you stepping away from the misery and from being in that, you actually did the best thing of all when you started off by saying, I'm addicted to being miserable. Absolutely. It is an addiction. It becomes a thing that becomes what's real. Like, what's real right now? Oh, misery is real. And it becomes more difficult to remember that actually misery is just a choice. And so is happiness. And it's true that there will be circumstances that are difficult where it's hard to feel happy and other circumstances that are really happy where you just don't feel like being miserable. And I'm looking at you expanding your range. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Yeah. And you forget that you also have orange and you also have lime green and you also have red and you also have peacock blue. And it looks to me like you need to give yourself some new experiences, different ways, whatever works for you, whatever you feel is good. You know, like different kinds of something new, something that shakes you out of the old pattern. Out of the comfort zone. Out of the comfort zone because you look like that's what you're doing is you're walking. I see a picture of you walking around and around in a circle, a small one in a comfort zone. And it's really hard to shake this energy out because you're sort of stuck in there. But the good thing is, you know, you're stuck. So that means you can start to take some steps. So just by saying I'm... Yeah. Well, and self-love. And, you know, start with, I might have suggested this to you before, start with meditating. Start with, you know, doing something different. You know, if you're... If you've been doing... I can't remember. I think you said you play guitar, but I don't remember. Learn to play something else. You know, just as a little side thing. Like get something to shake it up. Try, you know, listen to some different music or try something to shake up your little... What you've got in your little circle there. Because that's going to help you too. Okay? I could do that, yeah. Yeah. I say go for it. Definitely. Go for it, Brandon. And thank you. Thanks for calling in. Thank you very much. I appreciate everything that you do for everybody that listens to the show. Oh, well, thank you. Aren't you a healer? I appreciate you for saying that. That's right. That's very nice of you. I love doing what I do. It's a lot of fun. I enjoy it. It's a great... Well, you have a great night. You too. Thanks. Bye. All right. I am continuing with... We're going into a little bit more here about loving you. When you love you... When you... When you decide you are lovable and when you decide you can have love for you and how that kind of really gives you some power. Because when you decide that you yourself have the right and have the ability and you're determined to just really pretty much validate you and love yourself, it makes it easier to be in a flow rather than getting stuck in or caught in different situations. It actually opens up windows and doors for you. Sometimes when people are... They're sitting in... Just like our last caller admitted, he's been addicted to being in misery. And that can be very dramatic and it can make things real and it can also help you kind of stay safe, even though that sounds not like a lot of fun. But you can kind of feel a little oddly safe about that too. Just like, okay, this is what's real and so these are my choices. And when you start to step out of what you've been thinking was real, then you have more choices and you might feel a little less safe. And when you start to really work on loving yourself, you're going to start to feel a little less safe. And so I think it's really important that you start to think about yourself like that too. You know, deciding that no matter what you've been thinking about yourself in the past or what people around you prefer to think about themselves or how they prefer to treat themselves, you're choosing something differently. And it might have you unsafely stepping away from where you've been matched. You know, you decide you really like yourself, but you've been matched to a group of people who don't like themselves and they kind of sit around and are victims to the world and woe is me and blah, blah, blah. And you decide I'm done with this. I got to go figure this out and go figure out how do I get happy? You know, how do I make myself happy? Self-love is the first one. You start to step away and people might get a little mad, get a little bit upset. And it's not your problem if they do. That's really their problem. So you start getting into a flow rather than waiting for life to be bestowed upon you. You decide you're going to go and make it happen. It's going to go be real because you said so, not because you let other people determine what's real. I am giving more call or giving more readings through tonight's show, by the way. And the number here again is 1-800-893-9562. If you would like to get a reading, we have about another 18 minutes or so left in tonight's show and I'd be happy to give you one. And I'm kind of focusing from the theme of self-love. And what that looks like. But you can pretty much ask any question. So now back to you, love yourself and get your power back again. Absolutely. If you have allowed outside circumstances or people or other things to kind of determine what's real, then you're kind of giving it up. You forgot to own it. You're here to really do it for you. And I don't mean that as a selfish, narcissistic act. Not at all. When you decide to heal yourself and really make your life happy and create and heal from within and work in that place of your own truth and you love you and all the rest of it, you actually become such a gift for others. You become the healing by healing you by deciding. And remember, just as nobody else can love you for you. Nobody else can do it for you. You have to do it. You can't do it for them either. You can't make other people decide they're going to like themselves. And actually, you know, you think about this, the people, you know, who really do like themselves or they decided to go in that direction. Sometimes somebody might have hit something. They might have had a challenge in their lives or a crisis or something that came along that really forced them to wake up and go in that direction to kind of lighten up a little. I've seen it happen with a number. And it has with me in the past, too, where I just couldn't keep going in the same direction. Something had to change. And that can really help you wake up to the power that goes along with that positive self image and also self love. So you can't do it for anyone else. If you've been trying to convince other people that they should love themselves, I mean, you can suggest it to them. But if you've been trying to convince them or prove it to them, you might be wasting your breath. They do have to figure it out. I have another caller. I'd love to take another one right now and do another reading. Hi, you're already here. You're live on air. Hi, Chris. It's Margarita. Margarita. I spoke with you recently, didn't I? Yes, I've called before. I remember you. Nice to hear your voice again. Thanks for listening. Thanks so much for taking my call. You're welcome. You're welcome. What can I, what can I, or what would you like to say? Do you have a comment or a question or? Well, I'm just constantly working on, you know, just being happy and loving myself. And I've been doing that pretty much all my life. That's all I know. It's just a constant battle. And I'm not sure. I feel like I'm just, it's just hopeless for me because I can't see it getting any better as much as I, not to try to sound negative, but I just work on it so much and I just seem like it's just not happening for me. So I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. No, that's okay. You can keep going by the way. But the picture I see is that as what you've been running into is this invalidation that's been deep in your space. And I, this might've come up before in the last reading, but I don't remember, but I see it is some, it's something you've been aware of for much of your life. And the picture is, and I see it having to do with, from the time you were a child and coming in, having to do with your family and your parents. And not blaming them, but just the picture is somehow that you always had this sort of energy in your space and invalidation. But the picture is as if something you were missing or something was wrong with you. And nothing is wrong with you and you're not missing anything except that you're missing some of your own energy and you can get it back. This has been part of what you've been feeling was missing. I see a picture of you really having a heartache, your heart just hurting, just aching, wanting to fill in this lonely, empty place and feeling like there's something wrong with you. And it's not true. There's nothing wrong with you, except that what you have is this invalidating lie in your space saying that there is something wrong with you when there isn't. It's just, invalidation is not a truth for you. Invalidation is not a truth in anyone's space, but it can be true that you can have a lot of it controlling you. And I see this picture of this big, it looks like it's just like this big, heavy, heavy, dark gray cloud of pain in your space. It's not even your pain, but it looks like you've been unable to lift it off of you or to get out from under it. And it looks like sometimes you don't even know it's not you. You think it's yours because it's been there weighing you down for such a long time. I see it as male energy. It's like male grief, male pain, male... It's also this unconsciousness and you've taken it on. It could have come through a woman. But it looks like it's not. It looks like inherently it's some kind of a vibration of male energy, but not yours. And I see this energy just kind of enveloping you on a body level and on a definitely a fourth chakra level. That's your heart chakra. And your heart chakra has to do with affinity and love. That's the part of you you're trying to wake up and turn on and own. And so one of the things you're... You've been doing is trying to do all this kind of improvement or I also see a picture of you doing things like affirmations or trying to really increase the positive in the self-talk. But I'm looking at this being something that is... It's just really that your affinity levels have been shut down. It's been hard for you to run that energy of affinity for yourself or love for yourself. And it looks like it has to do with this old dark invalidation. So your self-image picture has been... And somehow that there's something wrong here. Now, I think I suggested to you before that you start meditating. Have you done that? I just started to. Good. I'm just now learning how to do this. Good. Good. Are you grounding? Did you learn how to ground? I'm learning. It's really hard for me because I have a hard time with tension. Well, yeah, but that's okay. It'll come up when you meditate. Believe me, meditation is not about being all perfect and still. It's about, oh my God, oh my God, all this stuff is coming. It's coming up. Ah, you know, and then you let it go. Right. So if you just started, this is the thing I would work on and then learn how to ground. Like get the grounded meditation off my website. It's free. Download it and listen to the one. It's like a 20 minute one and learn the technique, but then start to let this energy go. And when you ground, you have a safe way to release, to let go. Even if it feels like it's a lot to do or it's heavy or it's just so much in your way, just keep letting it go. You're going to get there. You're going to get there. You're going to get there. You're going to get there. You're going to get there. You may have no idea where it came from, but just keep letting it go. Forgiveness and self-forgiveness is going to be a big one for you here too. So you are in the process of waking up and it's not always comfortable when you first start. And sometimes even as you continue, it's just how it is. It's not always comfortable, but then you move the heaviness out of your way that gets in the way of you being happy or being light. One thing, and I can't prove it to you, I can just tell you all that heaviness and all that really negative unconsciousness in your space is not you. And you just don't know that yet. You're working on learning that or becoming aware of it. So this is what I'm seeing. I mean, I could, this is, I kind of want to just sort of give you a little capsule shot here of what it looks like. Does this help or is this making sense to you as we continue? Oh, definitely. Yeah, it's exactly, yeah. Yeah. I would say continue to meditate. Work it. This is going to be one of the big healings for you. And then start to do something that gets you out of the rut. Do something that gets you out of the rut, whatever that is. Something different, something that you can give to yourself, whatever that is. Okay. I will do that. Thank you for listening and thanks so much for calling in Margarita. I appreciate it. Thank you so much. Thank you, Chris. Bye bye. Bye bye. Hi everyone. Oh, I have another caller here. Well, it'll take them just a moment to get here. So I'll wait for them. I am going to be having this show continue for another nine minutes or so, and we're still working those self-love pictures. So if you're having any really good ideas for yourself about what this means to you, you might want to write it down so that you remember because you might be inspired right now and you're really going into it. And then tomorrow you might be like, what was that thing? Write it down. Write it down or look and see for yourself. What is it you want to do to really take some steps with this for you? And it's your business. You know, it's not really anyone else's. I have another caller. Oh yeah. Here they are. Hi. You're here. Who is it? Hi, Chris. It's Carrie. Carrie. Hi. How are you? I am well. How are you? Good. Where are you calling from? I am in LA. Wonderful. Well, nice to hear your voice. Yeah. Well, what if, what if you... Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. So, um, I love this topic because I feel like I've been struggling with it lately. Um, I definitely feel stuck creatively and I keep kind of using, sometimes I honestly think I have body dysmorphic disorder. Like I am, use that as a shield and I think, um, as an excuse sometimes. So I definitely have been working on self love, but I'm just feeling a little stuck. All right. All right. Let me get into that. Um, the picture that I see is this picture of you and your boyfriend. Oh, yeah. And you and your body, you the being and you the body taking the train, uh, downtown together for work. I mean, I'm from Chicago originally, so it looks like a Chicago train to me. It's like a Chicago subway with, you know, it's jammed up and crowded and everybody's holding onto the hand, the things overhead. And, and I see you doing this, like you standing next to you and your body standing next to each other, but you're not talking. Um, it's really loud. It's very noisy in the train. It's really jammed up and you're kind of jostling against each other as the train's going. You know how that is. And, but you're, you're kind of annoyed about it. It's sort of this annoyance, annoyance rather with your, your body and with yourself. And I see that there's all this irritation in your space, um, that is not your energy. So it's not your body's problem. It's not your spirit's problem. It looks like it has more to do with your mind, which doesn't stop moving. It's like, you know, there's stuff going on and on and which is what our minds do. Our minds are so good at that. And I have this picture that I really like that I came, I don't know where it came. It came out of, I was looking at body, mind, spirit one day and it was about body being communication. So there's your body, there's your spirit. And here's the picture. Imagine that you, the spirit are driving the car. You are the one who's behind the wheel. You're the one in charge of the car. You're driving the car and your body is sitting next to you in the passenger seat. And the two of you are able to have a nice conversation. But you, the being are driving. You're driving the car. That's the spirit of you. And your mind is in the back seat, but it's not being a backseat driver unless it is. So this is what I'm suggesting. It's not that minds are bad. We need that part of ourselves that thinks absolutely. But sometimes that takes over and becomes very, very critical. It's the very judgmental part. The part that really brings in all the things that could go wrong. It's like, oh my God, this is going to happen and that's going to happen. And it's not personal. It's like, oh, I'm not perfect and you should do this and you should, you know, all the shoulds come in. Or I don't, do I look fat in this blouse? I don't know. Maybe I should change into 3000 other things before I decide to go out of the house. You know, that sort of thing. And what I'm suggesting is it's time to get more communication with your body and spirit. This is meditation can help you with this. This is really a big part of self-love because it looks like when you try to communicate with yourself on a body, you body and being. Okay. There's all these things. There's all these things. There's all these things. There's all these things. There's all these things. There's all these things. There's all these things. There's all that other energy. It's noise in between. And I don't see any of that as a disorder. It's just energy. But, you know, we, we take disorders or energy, but I don't see it as like, there's something wrong with, you know, it's just that there's been that disturbance in the force here. So this is you reowning, start grounding, start releasing, start learning how to work the energy. You're a good healer. You just, your first job as a healer is to heal yourself, not everybody else. So that's going to help you a lot with this and you're already on the way. You're doing it. Right. Yeah. Yeah. I've been, I mean, I've really been trying and doing a lot of work around it lately. I'm just trying to seriously just ground and quiet my mind because it, yeah, it's intense. Yeah, it is. But you know, that's, that's kind of how we are. Start to work more from learning how to, how to work from your sixth chakra and neutrality and non-judgment, and that'll help you quiet your mind. Okay. That's, that's really the place where things happen. It's that clairvoyant level of looking or observing or not being in judgment or finding amusement, but not having to worry about it or judge it or analyze it. Right. It's more the being. Okay. So thank you, Keri. Thanks for listening, for calling. Awesome. Thank you, Kris. You're welcome. Thank you. Bye-bye. Bye. I'm Kris Cahill. This is Psychic Every Day at skidrowstudios.com, real radio on the internet. And I've got a few minutes left in my show. And I'd like to do a little wrap up of what I've been talking about tonight, which is love yourself and start a revolution. So I have a few tips and tools for self-love, ladies and gents. First of all, number one, take time to be with yourself. If you constantly put everybody else's stuff before yours, so everyone else's concerns before your own needs or your own desires, you might be looking for love outside of yourself. Okay. And if I go do this for all of them, then I'm going to be loved. And then eventually I'll kind of figure out how to love myself. Well, it might be that you want a balance of both. You know, I'm not saying go be selfish and don't give anything. Just you know, you got to look at you too. And it could be too that you've been putting everyone before you or in front of you because you're avoiding dealing with you. So look at that too. And this is the place where you get to be honest with yourself. This is not me judging you. This is you getting to look and say, what am I doing? What's going on here? Number two, give yourself time, you know, time alone, time to get to know yourself, time to really sit with you. You know, whether it's meditating or having quiet time away from being plugged into everyone and everything all the time, or always being on call, give yourself some peace and quiet, some time to simply sit and be. That really helps. Three, this is really important. You know, I love people who are positive and who love themselves. So if you don't have people like that in your life, find some because they're out there. If you're always around negative, self-hating people, it's exhausting. It's just exhausting and it's not a good example for anyone. Terrible example. Number four, give yourself permission to make messes and mistakes and to not be perfect. If you always are holding yourself up in comparison to something that you see is perfect, then you're not perfect. If you're always holding yourself up in comparison to something that you see is perfect and you're not it, you're not going to love yourself. You're going to be thinking there's something wrong with you or after I get perfect, I'll love myself and you're missing the point here. Perfect is boring and self-abusive. Excellence is something different. What if you were excellent and you still knew how to make messes and not be perfect? That would be fun. And along those lines, stop comparing yourself to everyone else, even if they're playing the game. You know? If you're in a really competitive field or if you, like me, are in Los Angeles, it's known for having its competition levels, but so is every place else. Love yourself and it's not going to get in your way. You can just kind of skirt through it or flow through it, not have to worry about being what you think others need you to be. And here's one of my favorite things. Get rid of all the invalidating clothes in your wardrobe. That's actually just an absolute technique, a tool. Get rid of stuff that you don't feel good in. Well, I am wrapping up the show and I want to say thank you everyone for listening, for calling in. You can find me at chriscahill.com. I'm also at psychiceveryday.com and you can get this show as a podcast on iTunes. So it's a free podcast. You can subscribe to it. You can leave me a review if you would. I appreciate you for it. I'll be back next Wednesday, 7 o'clock Pacific time with another podcast. Have a great day. Another live show. Thank you skidrowstudios.com and Jeremy and thank you Mindy and thank you Amadeus Bhaj for your beautiful music that opens and closes my show. Have a great week everybody.