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Cool Moms discuss abortion rights and Slut Walk

58m 33s
💾 595 MB
📅 2012-08-29
File: sexytimetalk_120829_210000_SRS001.wav
Duration: 58m 33s
Size: 595 MB
Aired: 2012-08-29
Host: Mindy Anna Jones
Guests: Allison Wolf, Shalina (Selena Louise)
Mindy Anna Jones hosts Sexy Time Talk with guests Allison Wolf and Shalina, discussing women's health, reproductive rights, medication abortion, the Olympics, protests in Anaheim, and the Rock Camp for Girls showcase.

🎵 Playlist

0:00 Brat Girl — Bratmobile 🎧
2:00 Do You Take It? — The Wet Spots 🎧
3:00 Brat Girl — Bratmobile 🎧

📄 Transcript [show]

That's incredible. Oh, and how you... Aaron, how long have you been running? Why you running around hard and thin? Got a new time if you know what I mean. Looks like you're not that fucked up. This is Mindy Anna Jones, and this is also Sexy Time Talk. However, something's missing here. Could it be Immaculate C? Could it be Miss T? I think so. I think I'm here alone. And I'm definitely not that sexy, so let me find some awesome tunes to play for everybody. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. As if she came over and came over and came over and came over. of Baudelaire And we both agree that human rights abuses are unfair You understand your feelings and you're not afraid to share And I think I could do something with your hair You smell nice and you're groovy And we both like foreign movies My mother says you have that touch of class Well I can see a shining future Where we'll dialogue and nurture But there's one last thing I feel I need to ask Do you take it in the ass? Do you take it in the ass? Cause I'm pretty much got it but unless you have it It's no way to me I'm gonna last Do you take it in the ass? Do you take it in the ass? When it comes to breaking the bottom But unless you play the bottom I'm afraid I'm gonna have to take a pass We're gonna kill the little blood on the face This song is pretty un-warned in a boy Ain't gonna be your best friend I thought it was fucked and thrown in the space As if you knew it fucked instead As if you knew it fucked instead Throw that heavy weight through your head You have, you have in your motherfucking head You live so hip when you look so dead You're the one who loves yourself Let me know, small by small Now who you call the black guy? I'm the one Never can you come back for more So what the fuck you think you get? You ain't even heard us yet There you go, Mike. Can you hear yourself? Hello. Welcome to... Mike's on. Hello, buttholes and bitches. It's me. My name is T and... Immaculate C. All right, we're keeping it. This is Sexy Time Talk at... Violent and aggressive and obnoxious... Aaron, how long have you been running? Why are you running around? I'm running thin. Got a new time if you know that, man. Let's talk, you know, I'm fucked up. Is that it? You're pretty out of touch, fucking... Hey, this is... Hello. Hello. Hello. Oh, cabrona. Hello, this is Sexy Time Talk on Skid Row Studios. In the house, we got cool moms. We got Allison Wolf and Shalina. Hey. Shalina, I don't know your last name. No, don't say it. if you don't want your fans to know, I don't know. Louise, it's Louise. It's Louise. Selena Louise. And Allison's actually the singer of that Bratmobile song, of our intro song. So it's really exciting because we're always listening to that. I'm excited too. Dang, what happened to this thing? So that's your theme song. Yeah, and it just happened because I had certain songs, like I'm going to have a show full of songs, and I only prepared with a couple songs, and the other girl didn't have enough time to download everything. She just downloaded that one and two other songs, and that was it. So that was that. It's an awesome theme song. Yeah. Oh, thank you. You never heard it? I like it. Well, it's good. It's probably the only radio I can be played on because I swear too much. So anyways, yay, interweb radio things. Interwebby. You know, in that song, there's that little part, get on your knees and suck my clit. When I was young, I was like, yeah, yeah. But at the time, I was still naive about that whole thing, but I thought it was like, that's so cool. But I was really naive to even like verbalize that in reality to someone. Yeah, it's kind of embarrassing. Yeah. Well, that happens. So, okay, blah, blah, blah. This show is about sex. Yes. Love. Yes. Yes. Relationships, diseases. So if anyone has any bumps or sores, please give us a call at 1-800-893-9562. This is Skid Row Studios. You could also check out skidrowstudios.com and find us on Facebook and find Cool Moms on Facebook as well. So let's talk a little bit about recent news. What happened this past weekend? Like in the news. Wait, maybe you should bring it up. No, he's in LA. We're in Los Angeles. Okay. Well, I know that there have been a lot of protests in Anaheim. Yeah? Yeah, because the police as well as probably a lot of other people are really racist. And there were, I guess what they call officer-involved shootings. And I think they had something like, I don't know, seven police shootings, like police shooting civilians. And I think it happened over, at least within the, past, I don't know, a few months or something. And I just try to listen to the radio a lot. But it's, you know, it's a really serious situation because, you know, you have like this whole corporate thing going on there, Disneyland world. And it's crazy, you know. And so I think that the cops are only protecting corporate interests and protecting the very rich there. Meanwhile, there's, you know, tons of working class people there who are just struggling to survive and, you know, might have jobs at Disneyland. And whatever. But they're getting profiled and they're not even, I mean, even if they are up to something that is criminal, they have a right to a trial, to a fair trial and a fair judicial system. And they're not, they're just being shot on the spot and shoot to kill as well. This all happened in Anaheim? Yeah. I'm not the most informed about it, but I've been definitely listening to it on the radio. Is this something you heard about today? No. Oh, I've been hearing it all week on the radio. And there have been protests there. And then the cops were like shooting at the protesters. I mean, not bullets, but whatever they shoot, you know, gas or something. Wow. But... The irony of like, you know... The happiest place on earth? Yeah, exactly. Exactly. Right? Oh. Yeah. So we have to also just think about the situation. Like, it's more than just what the cops are doing. But it's also like, what might even... What might even create a situation in a place where people might feel like they would have to do things like, I don't know, deal drugs or whatever to survive, you know? It's like Disneyland is just sucking everything out of there and not leaving anything. And the city council also is not leaving anything for regular people. Anything else? And then I know also Santa Ana, which is just a little south of Anaheim. That's a lot of... That's a whole different situation there, but it's still kind of like crime and they're just living under that. That Disneyland area. Probably like what you're talking about. It's funny because when... In my head... Oh, man, I bet you my mom's calling me. Cell phones off. We're at the movies. Everyone, can you turn off your cell phones? Oh, no, it's my good friend from high school. I'll have it acquired. So, I don't know. What else is in the news right now? It's so funny because I was gonna... I was... In my head, I was thinking like LA news, kind of happy stuff. And I'm thinking about Rock Camp. Like, because also this show, I kind of try to, you know, focus on women's, you know, women's thing going on and stuff. And Allison just shoots for... Sorry. That's what I've been hearing. Oh, news. Yeah. Rock Camp showcase just this past weekend? Yeah. Oh, you couldn't make it. Right. Yeah, so we just had the rock and roll camp for girls in Los Angeles. And it was last week. And Charlene was, we were there for a day, a couple of days. Yeah. Yeah. I was only able to participate half time, part time. I was a band coach. And I had a great band called The Backstabbers. And they were all of eight, eight and nine and I think 11 years old, something like that. Totally awesome. And I think their song was called Conclusion. So, yeah, it was pretty amazing to be able to kind of provide this opportunity to local girls. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They have a whole week where they learn an instrument, they have workshops and they form a band and their task is to write one song and then perform it at the end of the week on stage at a showcase, which was at the El Rey Theater. So pretty big deal. It's beautiful. It was totally packed out. And it's all about building self-esteem in young girls through a medium of music. You know, I thought was kind of neat was like I happened to be standing, someone says, something about um Silent Bob Jay and Silent Bob and I look and it was um Kevin Smith and so I was like oh that's cool that like you know his daughter was there and I was like wow they're like you know I'm sure their people you know have some money but the daughter's gonna go to this school in downtown LA and be with the different races and you know different girls from different backgrounds and I thought that was really cool I mean I don't remember her I don't mean you know I saw her for a second but well no I think you're right it's a pretty diverse group of kids and um we also offer scholarships so you know so people aren't turned away because of lack of funds um we did have to turn people away this year just um because we didn't have enough room so it was first come first serve but yeah to apply so any of you guys have little girls want to do that go next year rock and roll camp for girls and whatever they're in different cities and different places in the country so just in case you um so that was more recent news and then uh moving on current news um man I like to pull things tell me tell me Shalina something any input yeah anything on your head kind of embarrassingly not that up to date but um I just have been listening to all the olympic stuff there's tons of gender issues with the olympics with the whole I only heard I read something about the badminton teams trying to like um I think my mic is on was off was my mic off was it this whole time I think it was we have Shalina in the house is your mic your mic's on I could hear you did you know I just talk louder hey did you know you had to put these on okay oh technology can you hear me yeah can you hear yourself yeah hello yes I can I'm here you could you I could hear you so everybody on okay so everybody is on and good to go right now okay sorry for like a-holes you are not allowed to talk damn it where's my google okay so what happened gender issues olympics yeah i forgot what i was i was saying yeah i mean everything from from the the female boxing team being asked to wear skirts and then like you know protesting against that and like refusing to wear skirts um to just like the difficulty in in determining sometimes male or female you know um in like gendering the actual athletes because um there are quite a few athletes that are you know somewhere in in between um genders so um yeah i guess kind of tricky when you're trying to you know have female sports acknowledged um but at the same time you know it's difficult to sometimes determine you know what's male what's female and yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah I don't know, people are sort of like in the same ballpark. But physically? But yeah, but I don't know. In a way, it's like, you're right, we have trans issues. And then how do we deal with that with, you know, professional sports? Do you think it's sponsors? Because it's a lot about money and trying to promote their like, whether it's makeup or shoes or clothes or skirts or something. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I have to be honest. I haven't watched one lick of the Olympics. I just rest up on it today. Like the Batman teams are doing something. Yeah, they're all shady. Yeah, and then the Asian, they tried something with the fencing. And they determined Germany won. And I don't know, something happened. The other girl was fighting hard. But that's what you're talking about. There's a lot of female attention in the news. Well, sometimes you just see like, oh, one second, you hear the Americans are losing. And then next time you turn your computer on, it's like, oh, they somehow won. And I think it's just because they protest. If they're not winning. And then they're like, make sure they win. I swear the Americans control the Olympics, even when they're in London. Yeah, like, yeah, there's something they were going to give the girl like a consolation medal, like a good sport medal. But she didn't want it because she was like, it don't mean anything unless it's like the real official like Olympic gold medal or silver or bronze or whatever. Right. Yeah. I don't know. I used to watch gymnastics. I did gymnastics when I was little. So, yeah, it was like, I don't know. I was pretty hardcore. But I don't know. But last time I saw the Olympics, the gymnastics, it's kind of just gotten really trick heavy where it's only about these tricks. And what can you do the hardest trick? And then you get all the points or whatever. But there's no more grace anymore. They're just complete robots. There used to be like style and grace. And you had people like Nadia Comaneci and whatever, who had amazing style and charm and whatever, you know, but some kind of, I don't know, personality to what they were doing. And it's just completely. It's completely void of personality now. I don't know. Trickies. I saw, I just, I never heard of it. It's like a dancing. Other rhythmic gymnastics. Is that it? Yeah, I think so. It looks cute. It's pretty. I don't know. Maybe, is that what you're? No, I'm not. That's just a different field or sport altogether. But my sister did it at a wedding once. It's cute. It's cute. It's tough. It's the Olympics. This is, we're going to play some cool mom clips. I was just going to play. I love this. This is like breaking news as far as today or last night. So what is this? Let's see if my, my skills work. Damn it. The load up didn't happen. Is it playing? With the bank of America. Bastards. See, they were tricky. They're putting a commercial on it. Okay. Well, whatever. Who's putting it? The news. The brand new news today is about. The pill. Ooh, we don't want to promote. Yeah, I know. Why did it do that? Are we on the air still? Beginning today, every employer in the United States is required to provide free contraception to its female employees. It's the most controversial of eight new rules to kick in under President Obama's health care reform law. Women no longer have to reach into their pockets to pay for wellness checkups. Health plans now must provide free screening for everything from STDs. To. Diabetes to domestic violence. Join these. Well, Democrats are celebrating. Senator Republicans tried again to repeal the law known as Obamacare. If they're proud of it, I don't know why they wouldn't want to vote on it. We need to repeal and replace this health care law. Democrats were outraged. What is with this idea of repeal? Do you really want to take away these benefits from women? If you want to repeal that, then bring it on. Of the new rule. Bring it on. Wait. Who said bring it on? That was. I think she was from Wyoming. One of the senators. Cool. Yeah. So I guess that's the new thing that any. But this is people who have insurance because there was already issues. A lot of people have insurance, but it wasn't covering the cost of birth control. Or I guess certain things are they had to do copays for, you know, to do well. Women checkups, you know, preventative care. Right. So, you know, because it wasn't like waiting to get sick type of care. But, of course, then you still have to have insurance. But hopefully it's, you know, it's going to work out. But it seems it sounds like you have to wait till it kicks in. Because, of course, I think today we had to charge somebody for birth control. Because she came in. But I think there's a certain thing like, you know, they could still go to places like Planned Parenthood if their insurance doesn't cover the cost. But then if you make so much money, if you're still making three thousand bucks a month, you know, then it goes based on, you know, your family size and income of what the cost is going to be. So. I wish I made three thousand a month. Anyways. I mean, you know, it happens. But then that's as far as. But there's still going to be issues because of certain places like Catholic schools and their teachers. You want birth control. There's going to be issues because, you know, under Catholic doctrine, they don't believe in it. So their insurance doesn't want to pay for it. Right. Except for if you actually polled like Catholics, they actually pretty much overwhelmingly do believe in birth control, especially the women. Yeah. From what I've seen statistically. So. Yeah. Even though like the Pope might say that. Exactly. Catholic women aren't saying that. Or that's not what they're doing. Yeah. So that's going to be a little issue going on, too. Yeah. I mean, come on. It's like really, you know, I mean, anyways, how far are we? You know, and why I think rights are being rolled back. I mean, actually, I went to some kind of exhibit that was. I think it was like, what was it? The American History Museum or whatever in Washington, D.C. And it was two years ago. And they had this whole like kind of women's rights and women's health care and all this stuff in a roe v. Wade. They had this like little part of a room dedicated to that. And you would be surprised how much used to be covered. Like right when abortion became legal and all this kind of stuff. Abortions used to be covered by the government. I remember I worked at my mom's clinic. My mother started the first women's health center. Health care clinic in Olympia, Washington, where I grew up. And it was totally like feminist health care by women for women, whatever. And I remember sometimes in high school we worked there and we would like be signing people in and, you know, filing papers and stuff. And a lot of this stuff that people freak out about now. Oh, that it might get covered. It was all covered back then. No questions asked. No big deal. And abortions were covered, too. Maybe it's just something extra to fight about. Yeah. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. It's just everything. All women's rights are getting rolled back. Like, I don't know. Bush sent us back into the Stone Age. First Bush? Oh, second Bush. Well, all the Bushes. The oligarchy. I don't know. I blame the first Bush is the reason why I didn't get to go to like I wanted to be in chorus in my junior high. You know, singing. And those two years I was in junior high was when the first Bush was in. But those were the two, you know, those were the few years that there was cutbacks at my school for that. And so there was no chorus. And so it's kind of like, I mean, I didn't know what was going on, but I kind of blame the first Bush. Like, what other reason was there that they didn't have chorus? But like, let's talk about like birth control. I mean, first of all, if you don't have any health insurance at all, how much is it? How much does it cost per month to say be on the pill? That's a good question. I think it's like $25. Yeah. A pack. Or something. Yeah, about 20 a pack. Yeah. And if you have health insurance. I think often the price is like $10. Okay. You know, no big deal. But at the same time, it's just like, how much does a guy have to pay? Right. I mean, why can't we just snip his like little things? And how much would that cost? I don't know. Have a sex with me. Yeah. So, I mean, you know, the thing is, is the burden, all these responsibilities always fall on the woman. And it's always our fault. And if we get pregnant, we have to, you know, either go get an abortion or bear the child. I mean, too bad we can't implant the fetus into a guy and say, here, you deal with it. You know, but until we have something where like all women and all people are equally educated and have equal access to health care and to prevention and all this stuff, then we can't make these things illegal or expensive or shameful or whatever. Right. It seems like there's, I've heard a lot of times where it seems like women still, even though we're still trying to educate, you know, you need to talk to people. And condoms, you know, if you don't, if you really don't want to get pregnant, you know, condoms, if you really don't want to wear, you know, use birth control. But it seems like their boyfriends or husbands or like whether, I don't know how their relationship is, but they kind of still say like, you know, my husband didn't want to wait. And, you know, like freaking out. Like I've heard girls say, I just had a baby. I can't have another one. And, you know, my husband doesn't want to understand. And so they're coming in for like emergency contraceptive and they're just, they're freaking out because, yeah. That's what they're kind of blaming that their husband didn't want to like put a condom on or couldn't wait. So. Well, let's also talk about what is it? What is emergency contraception? So what is it exactly? Oh, yeah. Shalina, because you were talking. Yeah. I know we're going to talk about, we're going to talk about medication abortion too. But when I mentioned medication abortion to you, you were thinking it prevented a pregnancy. No, plan B is what prevents a pregnancy. Oh, so we're talking something else. Yeah. Well, plan. Yeah. So like a real quick. Plan B is like a heavy dose of birth control. Right. And it only can prevent a pregnancy from occurring. It can't stop an existing pregnancy. And, you know, you would want to take it as soon as unprotected intercourse happen. Like, so now it's recommended that women just have it just in case, you know, have it sitting in your underwear drawer. It lasts for a couple of years. I mean, expires in a couple of years. You have it, condom breaks or whatever you, you know, mess up. Take it because it's only 89% effective and it's like it drops 10% in effectiveness each day. That you wait to take it. Yeah. So, I mean, it only basically if you're if you don't ovulate and your egg doesn't drop it, hopefully it prevents your ovulation from happening. So that's what the plan B or emergency contraceptive is. Right. And really what it is, is just a bunch of birth control pills or a heavy dose. And that's what it used to be before you could, you know, it was on the market or whatever. I know that my mother used to prescribe it. She would just give women like a big old pack of old fashioned. Yeah. Really? She would give them like these old pills that were really strong because the old pill used to be a lot stronger than what people take now. So she would save all these kind of older, stronger brands or whatever. And then she would say, okay, you take two or four or once and then 12 hours later you take four more or something. She had a certain dose or whatever, but that's all it is. She's a nurse practitioner? Mm-hmm. Oh, okay. I mean, there was a certain amount, but you know, now there's kind of an official amount and name and dosage and stuff. But that's what she used to do it before it was, you know. Yeah. You know, called Plan B or whatever. Yeah. They were, even a few years ago, it was doing the take one dose now and take the second dose in 12 hours. But then they just found it was more effective if you take the whole thing at the same time. Oh, okay. But then you get the nausea and the breast tenderness, but fuck it. They're trying to prevent a pregnancy. I guess I haven't been scared about being pregnant in quite a while. Just some condoms. I was going to play Loretta Lynn, but we're going to play the pill. Now, let's start. You want me cool moms. Cool moms. Let's go into being cool moms. You guys aren't moms. No one's a mom, huh? I have a food baby. You get that question all the time, huh? We do. And, you know, sometimes I feel bad because I think people are kind of psyched and they want to talk to us about like cool parenting or whatever. And yeah, we're posers. But I think the name's cool. Yeah, it is a cool name. And, well, Grace in our band, she named it. And I think she's... She said it was from a... It was like a Marge Simpson's book club or something. Some reference to that. I can't remember exactly what it was, but... Hey, it sounds cool. Big blue hair. I was thinking like, you know, in the 50s, it would say daddy-o, like, you know, like cool cats, you know, stuff like that. Yeah. Kind of thing. We're into like track suits and minivans. So, yeah. Suburbs. So, let's play a song. What's the time? Anyways. U-S-A-G-I. Let's see if this is going to play for us. Okay. It's our time. It's kawaii. It's kawaii. It's kawaii. It's kawaii. Stop! Don't miss it! You don't have to hurry Come on! No! On that single It's a jam I love that I'm Gonna be right Get up and Go on and Suck some wine See my Mean and I can't Look! As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is As if it is Oh, it's over. That was Cool Moms USA GI. And we have Cool Moms in the studio at Skid Row Studios. For you listeners, if you're listening live, call us at 1-800-893-9562. Or if you're listening to us tomorrow, dial us or look at us, look us up at skidrowstudios.com. And yes, and add Cool Moms and everybody on your Facebook because we like Facebook kind of, sort of. Because it works. We get to see who are, I don't know. We get to track our trackers. Our fake friends. How come this other one's not playing? Oh, what are we using right now? SoundCloud. Cool. Cool. Oh, that's what that was called. Cool. Is that on your phone? I'm doing everything you can. Wake up. It's such a modern house. Wake up. I can't call the girlfriends out. Wake up. Tell me your little heart. Wake up. Tell me that it ain't that hard. Wake up. You can't take me as I am. Wake up. I'm trying to get a little mad. Wake up. Give it up here. Good. Give it up. It's fine. Good. Give it up. It's fine. Good. Give it up. It's fine. Good. Give it up. Yeah. Good. A little later. Wow, is that song over already? It shouldn't be. Did I hit it off? It's, well, we'll talk. Blah, blah, blah, blah. Keep singing. Mary told me that she put, actually she told me that she put up a song that cut off. But then she said she put up the right one later, but that might be the wrong one. Sounds like it. Sounds like the wrong one. Anyways, there's a little snippet, you know, just so there's no illegal downloading. Well, or legal downloading. So what is your song about? You said you have a song about one night stands? Oh. Who's brilliant? Actually, Grace wrote the lyrics and she wrote the song, so I guess. So I guess it's that. I'm not really sure 100% what it's about, but it sounds like it might be about something like that. But I don't want to speak for her. Aw. Yeah. But anyways, it's called Crazy. But the songs you just heard were USAGI, right? Or Usagi. And then also a little snippet of Wake Up. And so, I don't know, one's kind of about bunnies and things. And the other one's kind of about how, I don't know, when you move to L.A. and you, with some boyfriend, you realize that he's just really mean and horrible. And then you're just like, all right. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. How did I get here? How did I get in this situation? And sometimes it doesn't matter, like, kind of how much you've been through or how much you know about or how educated you are or whatever, you know? Sometimes you still end up in these situations and you just feel like this small. And it's all about kind of rebuilding self-esteem and realizing, hey, man, that wasn't me, you know? And I can be who I am and who I want to be. So, anyways, whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Yeah. Rebuilding yourself. And it's sunny every day here. So, yeah. Why not? Yeah. I think you said that before. Like, you know, if I'm not going to feel, if I'm going to feel a little bummed out, you know, I'd rather be bummed out in the sun. Yeah. Yeah. It works. So, we're in great and beautiful Los Angeles. Just a couple of blocks from Skid Row. So, hence Skid Row Studios. And I'm just plugging that a couple of times because someone said, you know, you're not supposed to do that. But, um. Skid Row Studios.com. Listen. Live. You know what? I'm kind of weird. Weirded about that this particular show, Sexy Time, it just started off with me talking with my friends, talking about sex and, you know, whatever. And diseases. And I don't know. I guess we're getting picked up on Sirius Radio. Oh. Yeah. Yeah. The only show is this one. And then the Love Bite. So, there's the Love Bite, which is another show. A lot of the shows at Skid Row are like, whether they're music shows or talk shows, mostly headed by the boys club. And, you know, that. But the two shows that got picked up were the Love Bite and us. But the Love Bite is like a kinky show. So, you know, they talk about like butt plugs and, you know, and whipping, right? Oh, yeah. They talk about all that kind of stuff. So, we're all going the direction of the health and love. The love direction. Yeah. Yeah. Talk about love, Charlene. Or the hate direction. We've talked about love yet. Oh. Well, I'm here. Because I'm still like, I still have to make sure he's not listening. Yeah. My lover, my partner listens sometimes. Oh. Because sometimes sex is exciting. But, no, if you have a love problem, you know, give us a call. You just want to randomly. No one's calling. Get whatever advice. Or write us, too. We've had a person write us before. But, yeah. So, it's kind of weird going on that serious radio. But, this is the thing. Okay. Yeah. I like serious radio. But, this is the thing. It's like the Playboy Channel version of it. Oh. So, I kind of, I heard that. Now, I have like a little mixed emotions about it. Well, I'm not against that. But, all I'm saying is that, you know, sex work is sex work and that women should get paid. Right. So, if we're going to be on Playboy Radio, we should be getting paid. Right. I mean, I haven't signed anything. We're going to have to, yeah, I'm going to have to find out what's going on with that. Yeah. And stuff like that. I mean, I think if it was Hustler or something, I think I'd be more, no, a few, about, I think a month ago or something, I had a Hugh Hefner versus, no, I had a, yeah, Hugh Hefner versus Larry Flint discussion. We had a whole thing on that. I think Hugh Hefner won in that level. Oh, really? I don't know. Yeah. Well, I don't know. I just, my motto is a blowjob is better than no job. And, so, I have nothing against sex work and stuff like that. You know? As long as women are getting what they want and need out of it. Or at least getting the most money for the least amount of time at work. That's cool. But, you know, work sucks any way you cut it sometimes. And, you know, we all kind of hate our jobs sometimes. But, anyways. Yeah. So, whatever. I'm just saying. Yeah. Get paid. So, anyways, you know, one thing is we are, Cool Moms is going to be playing. At Lady Fest Inland Empire, which is in Riverside. And that will be on, it's all weekend. Not this weekend, but the next weekend. So, we'll be playing Friday night, which is August 10th. And I believe it's at the Downbeat Cafe, but don't totally quote me on that. Look it up. And then we'll be playing the next day around noon at Tribal Cafe. Yay. So good. Yeah. And. And. That's August 11th. Mm-hmm. And then. Excuse me. And the address for Tribal Cafe is 1651 West Temple Street. So, it's right in, is that Echo Park? Not quite. It's like south. It's just south of the 101, right? Kind of by MacArthur Park, right? No, but Temple is just south. It's barely south. It's just south of the freeway. Oh, yeah. But I don't know actually the cross street. So, anyways. But it's so good. The sandwich. You got to have the Filipino chicken adobo sandwich. I love the chicken. I'm sorry. I don't know if you do. But it's so good. Cool. Sounds good. So, we'll be doing that and we'll be playing with Team Ugly, the Lindsays from New Zealand and Mystery of Inquiry. And then we'll be playing Saturday night, August 11th in Whittier, somewhere in Whittier. And that is also a Team Ugly, the Lindsays from New Zealand and Residual Echoes. It should all be somewhere. It should all be somewhere in that world known as the book of faces. I mean, Facebook. Oh, yeah. We should find it somewhere. Go on Facebook, yeah. But, you know, one thing. I was listening to the radio the other day. I love listening to talk radio. Low on the dial. Liberal. And there was this whole thing on a segment called Feminist Magazine. And it was about slut walk. And so, they were just kind of talking to the founders of slut walk and some people who were kind of had some issues with it or with the word slut. And stuff like that. And it was a really interesting discussion. I think it focused way too much on semantics. But it was still interesting nonetheless. Because I think that women's issues, you know, it just I realized how much they're not really brought forward and how little airtime and space that we are given to just air our concerns and our voices. And, you know, sometimes we're all just fighting to be heard. And we don't need to fight each other, you know. And we have. We have to create enough space for all of us. But anyways, it was just really interesting. I was taking notes like a student the whole time during the radio show. Aw. But anyways, I don't. Wait. When is slut walk anyways? Sunday. I'm actually playing that. Woo. Yeah? You're playing a show at slut walk? Yeah. Are there bands playing? I think I was supposed to be in Pershing Square. Really? Yeah. On Sunday? Yeah. Sunday like at three. Pershing Square. But I don't know. I think I just read something that it might actually be in more in Hollywood. Yeah. In downtown. So I don't know if some kind of drama permit drama happen. Because permits always suck in any festival. Yeah. Because over a thousand people are attending supposedly. That's awesome. Yeah. I'll try and come out for that. Oh, I think it. Yeah. I think it might. No. It looks like it changed somewhere on Highland. Oh, they did change it? In Hollywood. Yeah. That's too bad. I think this just happened today. Why would downtown? Like what is going on downtown? Really? I don't know. Pershing Square. I don't know. Maybe they thought it was a family business thing. I don't know. Oh, please. Well, I mean, the whole thing really is slot walk is basically kind of a take back the night type of idea, you know? Yeah. Some day, you know? Yeah. And it's just like, I don't know. Anyways, but the reason that they're reclaiming the word slut is because there was a Toronto politician who was telling women, hey, if you want to avoid getting raped or attacked or whatever, don't dress like sluts. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Therefore, the terminology. But I'm sorry. We're so far into third wave feminism at this point that if people don't understand the reclamation of words that have been used against women, we as women have a right to reclaim them. And we might as well, you know, there is some notice and shock value, but let's reclaim it for ourselves and use it to expose the hypocrisies in society. And that's exactly what's happening. Right. Right. So I don't know. I have a hard time with people who are trying to shut down the use of that word, censor it or whatever, because I feel like all women have a right to reclaim that. And I understand that some people might not relate to it as much as others, and all different kinds of women. And I want people to feel included, but I think it's important to remember that this thing started on a very local level, in direct response to a very local politician in Toronto who said slut, you know? And so you got to call them out on it. And it's cool that they started this thing called Slut Walk. Yeah, and I feel still there's a lot of still young women getting involved in it, and that's what's still needed, even like with the Lady Fest, there's still a lot of young women wanting, because I don't know, there's people that I know, once they start getting old, oh, I don't have time for that anymore. And I've talked to girls about, oh, there's shows going on, and there's this and that. Oh, I'm too tired. I can't do that anymore. So I mean, it's still good to see young women still like... keeping it alive and doing something about it, even if it's Slut Walk. So why do other feminists have to be all bitchy about it? Well, I understand that some movements might not speak to everyone or whatever. And it's like, okay, awesome. Create your own, use your own words, whatever. That's great. But at the same time, it's just like, you know, this is like clear, like kind of postmodern reclamation of a word. And I think it's fine. I think it's exciting, actually. And it's not that all women have to dress a certain way or whatever to go. It's like, just come as you are or however you want to be. Right, right, right. Yeah, that's what I was thinking. That's the idea. I'm more of a, like, like, okay, because I have little funny shorts that I wear that are like cute or something. Should I wear my butterfly? Should I use my butterfly guitar or my other thing? It's just like, I don't know. I can't. Yeah, it's not about like how you really dress. I don't care if women are walking naked down the street wearing a sandwich board that says, please rape me or please kill me. You don't rape her and you don't kill her. You know, come on. Yeah. It's still your fault if you do that. You know, I mean, if a man does that to a woman or whatever, it's still his fault. Another case or alcohol induced and stuff and whatever, all that shit. Shoot, I want to go in directing the story. So again, we have cool moms in the house. We're just talking about a lot of stuff. Can we get the time on the wall? I like it when the time goes, shows us. Oh. Okay. So as promised, I've been wanting to talk about the medication abortion. I mean, hopefully, well, yeah, we could talk about it pretty fast. So the medication abortion pill, it's a process. It's not something which some women and younger girls, I think even older women, they think it's something they could just go pick up like the plan B. And we've had patients like, I can't just come and pick it up and just take off. It's more of a process. You still have to see the clinicians and everything. And get it prescribed. The way it works is, one, determine you're pregnant because there's women that think they're pregnant. They don't even take a pregnancy test. They want to book an appointment for a medication abortion. So I mean, just at least taking your test because then you're taking this appointment from other women by booking an appointment for the medication abortion. So there have been cases where the girl, the woman's not even pregnant and she takes this slot because these aren't like appointments that happen all the time. You can only have a few. You can only have a few in a few days in a day, depending on where the location is. So basically, determine you're pregnant. It takes about two appointments. And I'm talking about for California. So the first appointment, they do an ultrasound. They have to, one, see the pregnancy. So if a female is not far along in her pregnancy, if they can't see the pregnancy, if there's no heartbeat, or maybe there's a heartbeat detected, they just have to see it. So usually, you know, you can't see the pregnancy. So you can't see the pregnancy. So you can't see the pregnancy. So you can't see the pregnancy. think after a few weeks maybe about three four weeks where they could see it but then um they had to be nine weeks or less and if so then you know they get counseled and this is the deal this is a situation they take one uh set of medication it's a set and it's called um mifepristone and that will actually stops the pregnancy so that's it stops it stops from growing no more heartbeat and then after that and about um one to two days later the clinician will tell them when to take the second set of medication second set is called mifepristone and that one is what actually helps to expel the pregnancy so then it's a lot of heavy cramping bleeding clotting there could be some nausea diarrhea and stuff like that so like heavy period that kind of happens and then about a week or two weeks later the woman has to go back for another appointment do another ultrasound to make sure that the medication was you know completely done it was successful and the you know the abortion was complete there are small percentages maybe about five percent or less that um it wasn't complete so in those events then the woman still has to have a surgical abortion to get the rest if there's any extra tissue so that's kind of the basic of of how that works but there's a lot of a lot of women thinking that it's just a pill that you go pick up so there's still a lot that goes into it and then that whole nine weeks so if a woman is like nine weeks and one day then it's surgical abortion so they then they wouldn't be a candidate for the medication abortion now get this though but the fda so like if you do research on the internet you might have um it says seven weeks so this confused me before too fda only like really says seven weeks is um the limit and um although there's all this research all these studies all these patients they've done and here in california saying it's effective it works for nine weeks um so you know the women here have to you know say yes i agree to this even though the fda says seven weeks and so there are other states where they only go up to the fda uh recommendation and i i heard that like that's in like ohio so they only go up to seven weeks okay yeah so and then they make it a little bit more difficult for women to get like uh you know access to an abortion because they even make it more difficult here we just say okay you know you're not going to come to the one appointment take the second medication at home because you know you're going to be dealing with that cramping and bleeding and feeling sick for a day at home but and then come back for you know a week later so there's basically two appointments out of your time to leave but like in somewhere like ohio what they do is they go to one appointment and all it is is counseling you sure you want to do this blah blah blah then they have to come back the next day then they give them medication then they have to come back and one to two days later to take the second set of medication then they have to come back the week or two weeks later to do it and then they have to come back the next day to do the other thing so they they're using four appointments isn't making it more difficult for women to access um to access the abortion right because all you know what that's exactly so it's just really awesome to make young girls lives more difficult than they already are yeah way to go so yeah you know and as if it's a big party that's the thing is people act like well it's just so easy and they're just you know drinking a california cooler all the way to the abortion clinic it's like yeah party on you know it's real fun and it's just so easy to do that fun we love having abortions it's a party it's fun we bring all our friends it's not easy you know like it's it's really hard for anyone no one likes doing it i had a friend once it was amazing after she got an abortion she came up to me it's like allison just so you know abortions are really horrible they're hard on your body it's horrible and it makes you feel really bad and i was like oh actually i thought it was a party i thought it would be really awesome and you'd feel good and you'd be really happy about it you don't know i mean that's the thing it's like don't underestimate you know the capacity of women to like feel and care and and and have brains and knowledge and things like that it's like yeah we know we have to live with this leave us alone we're doing the best we can and don't make it harder on us yeah a lot of you know they already make the decision i already have a few kids and it's like they have to they want to be good mothers so you know they have to think of the family they already have and so this isn't the best place for them financially or financially and it's like it's like it's like it's like it's like physically emotionally and they just can't or they're thinking of their future and you know i want maybe i want to be a mother or i can't you know that's not the thing so they you know they want to be a best person they can be and this isn't the you know this isn't the place or time or whatever and yeah but it's not like you say it's not easy and and people think it's easy and they just well we live in a society that doesn't even want to provide basic health care and human care and we don't even want to provide homes for people who don't have homes we don't want to provide food for people who can't don't have enough to eat how many children go hungry we don't want to provide like services for people who need it for them and their families you know so that's the thing is once that baby's born does anyone care no they don't care it's true yeah you know so until you can really support and care for born children and people and humans and adults in this world unless you're ready to do that then you can't like strike down abortion or birth control or anything like of the sort step up here here yeah you want to hear them like i have like five kids that i adopted okay good okay so yeah well awesome but who can afford that you know yeah you don't know if anything like that so i mean that's the the quick uh dl on the medication abortion i think it's interesting oh yeah you were saying something about canada from canada i was curious about canadians uh canadians yeah we have connect here canada in the house um yeah no apparently it's not legal in canada and i think that the abortion or medication abortion no abortion is legal for sure but um uh the abortion pill the ru486 is called it's not legal and apparently um i'm not entirely sure why but i do know that a lot of things get um um um um um um um um um um a lot of a lot of a lot of a lot of complications from it um and that could be why they just want to make sure it's 100 safe before they totally legalize it yeah because it's not 100 effective whereas you know i mean obviously the surgical is so i mean medication it's about 95 i had read that like you know out of those complications because i guess before they used to put the the second medication they just used to insert it into the vagina now it's all like now it's all orally yeah so and they said you know maybe that could have been the reason why yeah and women got sick but I mean the like taking a pill the idea of taking a pill at home is is so much nicer than like the actual surgery I mean I would yeah there's like no no choice like in my mind I would definitely go for the pill I think as far as yeah I think as far as like you know and me growing up having to hear like religious you know stuff in my head like that and I think there's maybe that pops up in a lot of women's minds or also the feeling of like it's more natural or maybe it's like a heavy period or something like that and so a lot maybe women will decide on medication abortion because of that reason you know any like maybe guilt you know because in their head maybe they process it different you know it's a miscarriage where they could process in their head that way emotionally for whatever reason they're deciding on on this decision but then you know women who are like I gotta work I can't deal with this I don't have time to be coming to two appointments and stuff like that with that kind of attitude and just understand that and I think that's a really good point. reality is this you know what you know I'll just do a surgery get it over with in a few hours and you know I gotta go to work tomorrow yeah so I mean that's those are the kind of differences in the decision of one versus the other that I've seen on that kind of case yeah interesting and I feel so old-fashioned in the yeah women's health clinic world but yeah because it was before yeah well I mean yeah I used to work at one it was my mom's clinic sometimes and when I worked there and yeah and it was all paper charts yep there's computer charting now I gotta get up to date yeah the are you 486 that I remember that everybody was like are you 486 that's what it was called but that's the mifepristone the same it's the same drug but yeah it was the I don't know 10 years ago everybody was like are you 486 yeah I don't know all I know is that like my mother died about just over 10 years ago but she told me right before she died she was like you have to remain ever vigilant on this front because she said women's rights will be rolled back mark my words and I always thought like I thought it was important like her issue these issues but I just thought they were kind of taken care of it's all legal it's all cool whatever we live in a liberal society one year later the whole bush mania everything you know 9-11 everything and just the whole like shifting the whole country way to the right I can't really believe what happened since then and she was right and we've lost a lot actually in a lot of ways not just in in you know women's sections and sectors but so anyways yeah it's been really scary and her clinic got a molotov cocktail thrown over it yeah since then the clinic was basically destroyed by fire and water damage because of the fire and they are the clinic was the insurance went up so high that they can't perform abortions anymore yeah so the and okay there was a legislator in Washington state that made it so that acts of terrorism like insurance companies can't just jack the rates due to acts of terrorism but it's not retroactive so her clinic doesn't apply but at least things in the future because that is an act of terror it's like okay you throw you firebomb a clinic and they have to shut down oh that works you know so yeah it's pretty horrible the laws aren't really on our side yeah and these and you know never mind all the doctors who have been murdered or whatever you know I grew up with people throwing rocks at our windows poisoning all the pets of all the people who worked at the clinic yeah people trying to pull my mom's arms limb to limb you know I thought where Washington I thought it was more liberal you would think yeah and Olympia Washington is liberal but they're still like a lot of assholes yeah yeah scary it's just it's the whole Christian right kind of thing isn't it in America like it's not I don't know yeah and it comes from like that yeah I don't know and it's hard because I don't even believe that all conservatives think that way like my father for example total Republican but he he's a doctor and he knows medically I mean he knows he knows that women should have the right to choose and he knows that people should be allowed to kind of have control over their own bodies so that's the one thing he does not agree with the Republican Party about might just be the one thing but it is an important thing yeah he also by the way used to help women get illegal abortions before it was legal yeah yeah I was ready to hold that over his head but he told me that he never agreed with outlawing it or making it more difficult for women so I mean at least your family I had the opposite my I 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