Orgasms, porn myths, and swinger stories

I just got motorboated in my titties in between both of them by Ashlyn Malloy That's the way to start off a Tuesday That's the way I like it I am the luckiest girl in the world You are listening to Blame It On Ginger I am Ginger Lynn with the beautiful, the talented Miss Ashlyn Malloy Who I haven't seen I haven't seen you in like weeks I know Weeks I know You're off gallivanting around the country Having all kinds of fun You went to Mexico Yes Cancun Yes Now did you hook up with your girlfriend? Did you hook up? Did you go with a guy? I went with old friends It was like So my friends had a baby like a year ago Right And they're getting married So instead of like having a honeymoon and stuff like that Since they had a kid They just wanted like one last hurrah So their parents like rented out a house with a pool On the beach And yeah It was just a bunch of fun So did they leave the baby with the parents? Yes And then just last one big hurrah with all their friends Yes How many people got to go down? Oh like 20 of us Oh what a great time to hook up I did with old hookups that I had in Texas Old hookups? It was fun It was a fun weekend What do you think Bunch of tequila Do you think old hookups get you back to Do they live up to your expectations? This one actually got better Did it get better? Yes It lasted longer Was it longer? Was it a long time ago? Yes it was a long time ago It was a long time ago Guys learn I can't imagine what it must be like to be You know doing it for your first time Because I remember the guy I did it with for the first time And there was no porn around There was nothing for guys to watch So you just kind of fucked like you thought you should fuck And I had an orgasm And it was great And it was wonderful But it took time for us to learn and grow And get to where we were really really good in sex And so I think about that a lot And I think about today's sex Where they're watching just all this wham bam thank you ma'am And I get really really worried that they're going to think that's the way you're supposed to do it Yeah I don't know I guess the guys that I hook up with don't They never fuck like porn stars But I guess it's like because of porn it's so different Which is probably good Yeah Because you're a lot younger than I am How old are you? I'm 20 You're 20 so you're out there You're fucking you know people within the I don't know what you're talking about 20 to 30 range probably mostly for the most part Yeah Do they fuck like Please tell me they haven't gone into donkey punching And you know they don't do They don't fuck like people do on film They're not spitting all over the place and smacking you around No Okay good I'm so glad to hear that If anything I'm the filthy one Some guys are just like your blowjobs are just way too sloppy I'm like what? I'm so used to like you know gagging like Spitting everywhere rubbing it on my face And all the guys are just like It's just It's hot but it's just a little too sloppy A little too And I get so I don't like I'm sorry I just That's what I do on camera you know And it kind of And so you incorporate it into your home life Yeah I do a lot more now I didn't do it on film but I do now And it's a lot more fun to do it on film It's because I get my mouth I get thirsty When I suck cock my mouth gets dry And so I'm always getting And the best way to get the most saliva Is to take that dick all the way to the back of your throat All the way down as deep as you can And I have I have gag reflex but I can deep throat easily And keep it down And what happens is when I take that cock out There's just so much wonderful Sweet It's not good for you It's silky Yeah Silky kind of Slopper that comes out with it And it's I love it I do it at home now And as I said I did not on film So I've gone backwards I like it I like doing that too Like just shoving it all the way down my throat And like you said like you have a gag reflex I have a gag reflex But I can still deep throat too Right But I can't always Like I can't do the throat fucking deep throat Or else that's whenever things go wrong But I can hold a dick down there for a while For the first couple of weeks And I can do it A couple of times For the first What I can do is take it all the way Once I'm relaxed enough I can take it all the way down And then back up six, eight inches And then go straight back all the way down And back up eight inches That's really I can't do it very often But when I can it's really fucking cool I'm like damn And the last time I did it I was in my bathroom And you've been in my bathroom There's mirrors everywhere And so I'm on the floor My boyfriend had just got out of the shower And he was sitting there And I was standing there in his boxer shorts And no shirt on and nothing else And I just dropped to my knees And started sucking his cock And as I'm doing it He can see the reflection in all three mirrors And I could see the reflection So I'm doing things It was so sexy to watch I forgot how sexy it is to watch Because I don't watch a lot of porn these days I really don't If I'm going to masturbate It's in my head And it happens in about 30 seconds I go straight one place If that doesn't work I've got another I've got my backups if it gets really bad But usually I've got my standard Do you masturbate a lot? I do whenever I'm not working Or not getting anything And I need to get that sexual tension out Sexual healing You know it really is And what position how do you masturbate? I do it in a really relaxing way I do it on my bed I just lay back I put my legs in any way I want You're on your back? Yeah And I get a Hitachi Okay And sometimes I get a finger in there Or a dildo Depending on With the Hitachi? Yeah with the Hitachi The thing is about it is that I can't It's so It takes so much arm power for me to do that So I kind of To do the Hitachi Well not the Hitachi The Hitachi Or to do both To do both But mostly the The dildo? Yeah the dildo Just going in and out Especially because I'm not left handed Yeah I'm going to use the Hitachi on my right And I'm not that coordinated I don't know if I could actually Press Because I love the Hitachi But I'm a big humper And so I press it really I've broken the tops off of the Hitachi Pressing it into my clit And I can come from it in 30 seconds Literally So if I I don't think if I used a dildo I would be able to do it I'd have to go really slow And almost romance myself Fuck myself slowly And use the Hitachi In my head In small little circles And slide it up and down Do you romance yourself? Or do you just go for the kill? In a way I kind of romance myself Like just like Slowly like play with it But I don't take my time with it I definitely don't take my time with it No I'm like Okay I'm not the only one Because I have a man in my life That's amazing And I bring the Hitachi out rarely What I used to be able to do And I'm not able to do it now I'm not I could on this show But the problem is I can't have an orgasm on this show And if I pull out the Hitachi I'm going to have an orgasm I think it's a definite orgasm With the Hitachi I could possibly have a rumble stilt skin I would love to But that's what Once a week I used to do I used to have this segment On one of my old shows Called Good Moanin' And people would call in And talk dirty to me Instead of me telling you a dirty story And getting you off I would tell you a dirty story And then I would masturbate to it With Christy Candidate And it was so fucking hot And I got the Hitachi every week And now that I think about it It's been It's been a good six months Since I've had my Hitachi out I haven't Yeah It misses you I've masturbated many times But it's just like I just need to come right now I always bring out my Hitachi And I'm like I think it's the number one toy Right next to my bed You know it's Plugged in It's under my bed On my side It's ready to go All I have to do Is just reach down and grab it But I forget I always just reach up And grab the cock That's true I'm kind of single now But yeah Well that's So are you a unicorn? A unicorn? Do you know what a unicorn is? No Jenny do you know what a unicorn is? Isn't that someone That you know That goes with a couple? They're the unicorn? Like a threesome? A unicorn is the single girl That hooks up with couples Yes That everybody looks for And they say they don't exist Just like real unicorns don't Because how often do you find A girl that If you say Hey you know Me and my husband Want you to come on over And we're going to have A really great time How often Are you the kind of girl That does that? I used to be I had like My good friend's Rachel And then Were like that to me Like we all went Swimming And we were drinking And stuff And yeah She just came over And just started Making out with me And then he started Playing with my pussy And I just was like Alright I'm going to let this happen Because it's pretty hot And I always wanted To hook up with her too So it worked out In a way So you were the unicorn Now were they The same age group As you were? Yeah Yeah So is it creepy With like older people? No because Well I Donna was like A 30 year old couple before So So Yeah Yeah It just depends I just have to It just depends I think it depends For me It's really not about age You know If somebody were to go I got this great 70 year old couple You got to hook up with In my head I'm going to think of Walkers You know Immediately And you don't think about There's some Cher is like 70 or something And she's She's She looks so fucking good She looks so fucking good I don't know if I'd Want to lick her Yeah I'd lick her pussy I would totally do Cher And I'm sure there's a lot of Swingers that are out there That are in their 70s That That look fabulous And that would be amazing And they have all these Swingers clubs And And they're When you go You're always in search of A unicorn So if you ever want to go To a club Where everybody goes They dress to the nines But sexy Like You know Girls will come wearing Completely sheer See through dresses And lingerie And it's a party People are walking around People are dancing People are talking People are They had strippers At the last one That I went to The only one I went to In Los Angeles With the stripper pole They had the big chairs Out by the pool That you could lounge by They had a fire pit going They had a bartender And you brought your own bottle And then you got a little number You were You know They put number six On your bottle And you got a little number six On your sticker And when Every time you wanted to drink You'd go up And get your alcohol And when we first got there Nobody was fucking They were kind of All mingling around And Debbie Diamond was there I went with I met Debbie Diamond We called I'll just call her Elizabeth Because I can't remember What we called her on the air And nobody knows her last name Dirty Marie And We had one other person There were four girls And me And my boyfriend That went to this party And so I thought Well I'll start I'll get things going And I'll get things going How cool to have A five woman blowjob So I get my boyfriend In the corner And we've got all five girls And we're still Giving them a blowjob And this couple comes in And they start Fucking on the bed And it's so hot They're watching What we're doing And getting turned on by it Which makes us Get more turned on And then One of the girls That was In our little Cock sucking group Got up and joined The three way And It was You're watching Live people have sex And it's not sex For show They're actually having Real people Fucking hot Sex And we We stayed there And watched that And then Debbie Diamond Did somebody else And We were the last two people We didn't fuck Anybody else that night Because we were looking For the unicorn We We don't I don't see I haven't been with another man In six years That's a long time And I don't want to be With another guy But by the time We were so turned on And then Back at things warmed up So everybody started Fucking into all The different places And we were There was this little Entryway room That had a piano And it was a little Sitting parlor And there was a sofa And I had my arms On the edge of the sofa And my boyfriend's behind me I'm doggy style And he's fucking me And it's all All my friends are leaving They're like Bye good to see you So I'm making out With all my girlfriends I'm humping my chair While I'm playing This toy I was here Riding back and forth Because this is what You know my boyfriend's Behind me And I'm going And I'm making out Oh it's so good To see you tonight Thank you for coming It's not my party But I'm wishing Everybody goodbye And just It was the nicest Group of people Without feeling Any pressure That you'd ever Want to go to So if you ever think You know And they have Ones that are For different age ranges This was one That people were Probably 20 to 40 But mostly 20 to 30 But they had A few older people You know Like they had A few older people few famous people that were there that were a little older they had me there um oh wait how old am i today not fuck i'm 38 yes i know 31 no i don't know what i say anymore i don't remember i don't know anyway so what we're going to be talking about coming up in just a second here's orgasms pop your book open and i'll be the first thing that we're going to talk about stevie's running out you're listening to blame it on ginger with me ginger linda and ashlyn malloy um what this this article it's from e-zine articles claims it's the best female orgasms the four ways you can make a woman climax without being good in bed you so how long does it take for a woman to have an orgasm now we were just talking about it and by myself i can have one in 30 seconds i can drag it out longer if i want but when i'm by myself i don't usually waste the time um when i'm with a guy it depends on how i didn't mean some shoe but they're gonna yell at me in a minute um i know jenny's gonna move over move over um but when i'm with a guy it depends on what we're doing it depends on if i'm supposed to have one if i'm allowed to have one if it's uh when i get to have it um if we're just fucking it depends on how good he is you know bottom line or i shouldn't say how good he is how well he knows my body so this article claims let's see what we don't know how long it takes why some women do not climax at all and that's very true i know women that that have never had wouldn't that be awful that would be awful i would be because i i've never been one of those girls i i think i had an orgasm when i was a virgin but or when i lost my virginity i mean i loved it so i think i did when's the first how old were you the first time that you masturbated 13 13 yeah and and did you i mean you knew you had an orgasm right yeah but it's much different for me the orgasms i have when i masturbate are different than the ones that i have uh with with somebody else and i don't mean to say the ones that one's better than the other the ones i have by myself they're all they're not throwaways they're just i i need to get that out i you know i my pussy's throbbing something's turned me on um i'm frustrated it can be a million different things but i know that when i make myself come that it always makes it better faster um how long do you usually take with a guy well i can make myself come if i if i if the guy's just standing there i can make myself come just for them to lay there almost like how guys to complain about guys or girls just laying there why you know just opposite you don't you don't need them to do to move in order to have an orgasm so you you use you use the guy i've done i've always done the same thing good for you no that's fucking awesome because if the guy doesn't know what they're doing and you've got a guy who's like oh i'm gonna do it i'm gonna do it i'm gonna do it i'm gonna do it you've got this you know beautiful hard dick in the sky that you like you went home with them and you're you know but yet he's not quite doing it for you if you know what to do and you know how to ride it and you know how to move and you know exactly where to put what that it's going to make you come that's the best place that you can ever be so good for you and at 20 that's really cool yeah i've i've had a lot of sex i've had a lot of uh i guess that's experience yes i'm gonna i've had a lot of experience yeah no and i think that's fabulous do you think have you had more prior to being on film or after being on film i think it's about half now but be like it didn't so you were a slut for a while yeah don't worry i'm a slut too so i love sluts i love sluts i think they're the because they just they allow themselves the freedom to enjoy themselves yeah you know it's like having fun if we were guys it would be totally fucking cool we would be the studs it would be we would we'd be you know hey yeah that's the chicks would be banging us yeah all the time yep we'd be shooing them off like flies if we were dudes um but and we would be studs but being women that do it we shoo most of you off like but we still see with more of you than those girls which is a good thing that's one of the reasons we both got into porn is you really like sex yeah and and if you don't really like sex this is not the reason why you don't like sex yeah and and if you don't really like sex this is not the business to be in no it's it's not one of the yeah no whatever people are like oh i wouldn't like should i be on porn so i'm like if you really really enjoy sex try it out but if you don't it can it's almost it's just traumatizing because you can really you know it's so it's it's not something for everybody you really need to uh be comfortable with your body you need to be comfortable with the public and and how they're going to perceive you you need to be mentally ready for an entire change in your life um that will last forever you know anything that you do nowadays it's going to be up on the internet and then spread around within seconds it's everywhere you know people that used to if if they had to go rent your movies i have a movie that i talk about excuse me i'm starting to catch a cold i think um but there's a movie that i've been watching and i've been watching it for a long time and i've been watching it for a long time and i've been watching it for a long time and i've been I saved over the years because it has a sticker on it and it says over one million copies sold. And this is a VHS. It's it's Susie Superstar 2, I think it's called. And that was like a really cool deal. And to think that a million people went outside, they got in their cars, they drove to the logo video store, they paid the ninety nine dollars to be a member, to be able to go into the back, into that private room. Then they spent another hundred dollars on the video. It was a really big deal. And now there's no matter what you do, there's never going to be anything that that somebody makes that effort to go out and get or take home. They're going to watch. You're going to do one thing and it's going to be viewed a million times like mine was just. There wasn't anybody that looked like me at the time, and my name was in the title of a bunch of movies. So it was kind of timing. And, you know, I was very bubbly. I was like the girl. I'm like. Yeah, I'll take in the ass. Absolutely. Absolutely. Would you find that when you put when you do a video, when you do a movie, when you do a scene that immediately it's out there? Yes. I have a lot of friends. I was like, oh, I watched this scene. I watched this scene. I watched this scene. I'm like, oh, my God. And like most funny parts, most of them are girls. Really? Yes. But they're like my close friends. They're just like they're just just curious about, I guess, my sexual life because they've they've known me for so long and I've had sex for, you know, six years of my life so far. Right. So, you know, they're a little curious about how I think I guess I do things. And that's one of the great things about being one of the places that you can carry the message being a porn star is there are people that would normally never talk about sex and never bring up the things that they do that feel comfortable. Bringing up around you. So when they do, I think it's fucking fabulous. I'll have, you know, neighbors or, you know, people you would never think people from my son's school or, you know, a babysitter or you never know. I mean, a lot of people doing a lot of different things. And I find that 99 percent of them. Now, I find that 100 percent of them are more comfortable talking about sex with me than everything. And I don't want than anybody else or that then they. 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We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. That's why the men are going someplace else. It's communication. People don't talk about it. They don't talk about, baby, that feels so good. Or, damn, don't do that. Stop, that hurts. I don't like that. That's not working for me. You know, I don't always do it. If it's negative, where I may feel uncomfortable, I will bring it up during sex. And I mean uncomfortable in a physical way. If it's mental, I usually wait and save the negative until later and we lay and we talk about things. But I'm more so encouraging when I'm guiding a partner, guiding my partner saying, when he does something that feels good or she does something that feels good, you know, that, I let them know, oh, right there. That's it. Okay. I love it when you do that. You could go a little harder. Yeah. Okay. Oh, yeah. And don't be afraid to slide. Down to my taint. Don't be afraid to nibble. Don't be afraid to slide your tongue in my ass. I won't. It doesn't bother me. Go for it. And so I kind of top from the bottom because I'm such a sub, but I know what I like and I make sure that I always get it. And so when they ask, do you think that women who are not that into sex are frigid? Or what do you think the primary reason for this? And this is just our opinion. I really don't. No, I, I really don't. I mean, I don't. Being someone who enjoys sex so much. Yes. And plus, like, I've met so many girls to where, like, it could be because they're frigid or because it could be that they just, you know, they haven't met the right guy. I don't know. I met so many girls to where that they don't like sex to where I can't really place my finger on it. I'm just like, what? I think that if you meet the right person and you have an orgasm. Sex, it's one of the most amazing things in the world. It's the one thing that I do that I don't think about anything else that I don't. My mind doesn't wander and I'm not thinking about, oh, I need to get that load of laundry. I know I need to pick this up from there. I need to call that person back. I, you know, I'm when I'm having sex, when they're having an orgasm, I'm 100% into what I'm doing. I'm lost in that moment. I'm absolutely lost in that moment. And so I think that women who who don't enjoy sex. And the women that are frigid, it's because they haven't had a real orgasm. And once you have one, there's there's it that that's all you want to do. I had my first orgasm and I masturbated. The most I've masturbated is when I was pregnant and I was like three months pregnant. So I didn't even look. I was still posing. I still have my cover of my auctions. If you go to ginger Lynn auctions dot com right now, the photo, the main photo that I chose, I'm three months pregnant. My baby. Belly's like flat as a board. And there's nothing showing. And why did I even bring that point up? Masturbating. Masturbating. Oh, during when I was pregnant. So during that point in time, I was so fucking horny. I one day masturbated over 50 times. I would masturbate. I'm a big humper. I would just, you know, hump on the edge of the battery or the edge of the toilet or the bathtub or whatever was nearby. I just humped in my hand. A washcloth. I didn't care. And I would come. And as soon as I came, I would want to come again and again and again and again. And so I can't imagine that there's such a thing as a frigid woman. If frigid means that you're just not into it, frigid means you don't do it. It's the only reason that I can think of is because they don't enjoy it. And that's because they haven't had the opportunity to enjoy it yet. So is it the man's fault? No. No. No. No. No. No. Partially. Absolutely. I think. I think. But if the woman told the man, I need this, try that. If we go back to the human communication area of it, I think it can happen for anybody. So we're going to teach you today how to do that. All right. If any of these questions sound familiar, if you are anything like the vast majority of men, the simple truth is you probably still are confused about what really turns you into a woman. women on between the sheets. Most men are. I get confused sometimes. I've, you know, no, I've been with a lot of women as well. And I still sleep with other women, not with other men. But when I do, I had a particular partner within the last year or so that is willing and ready to come back and let's play again. We had a great time. But it was one of those girls who I couldn't tell if she really liked it or not. I couldn't tell if she ever really had an orgasm or not. There were no clear cut signs. It was very, very, very bizarre. So sometimes you can't tell. Even us girls can't tell. But it's no true. It's true. No matter how confident and experienced a man is, deep down there is still a whole lot you probably don't know about the female body. And the best techniques for making your girl, friend, wife or lover quiver with delight and bedroom and beyond. Filed under the four common most types of orgasm. There are four types of orgasms. Okay. Every woman has had at least one of these unless they're, I shouldn't say that. Damn it. I forget. Every woman is not like every one of us. I forget that we're all not. I don't know. Can you imagine life without an orgasm? I couldn't. I don't want to. No. I don't want to. I don't want to imagine life without getting, no. No. No. Don't make me, please. No. All right, guys. There are four. I thought now the three that what are the three or how many orgasm types you're reading it? What do you know from the top of your head? You've memorized them. You've cheated. Ashlyn Malloy cheating already. All right. What are the different types of orgasms, Ashlyn Malloy? Tell me. Okay. The serial orgasm. The serial orgasm. Something like that. All right. Over and over and over. Yes. Now, I'm very, very familiar with the serial orgasm. Never called it the serial orgasm. Have you? No, I never. No. That's a good word for it, though. It's a really good word for it. It really is a serial orgasm. I am a definite by far, without a doubt, serial orgasmer. And unfortunately. Can we put on a scary song? Because it sounds like serial killer. Which one? Like the one with the. Knife or whatever. Do we have one? I think we do. I remember you putting on one. Let's see if we have a scary one. All right. Keep telling. You know what? Tell me the different types of orgasms. So we have the serial orgasm. The sequential orgasm. Sequential. You have made me very angry. Very angry indeed. I found something new. Let's see. Yeah, well. Not that. Okay. Whose show is that that you have loaded up? I don't. Like their noises. It's a different show that we're not. It's a wonderful show, but they're soundtracks. We're not going to use them. We were just kind of looking. Here's ours. Oh, there we go. We're on the right page now. Hold on. We've got one that's miscellaneous that we can use. We've got all kinds of good ones. Here's the main one. All right. So there's the sequential. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. All right. Serial orgasm. Are those going to get us kicked off of iTunes? No, these are ours. Okay. These are ours. They're sound clips that people created. But they might not know the difference over there at iTunes. They do. Okay. They can tell who else would go, no! We have a lot of free time around here. Okay. All right, so we have the serial orgasm, which is a woman who is multi-orgasmic. She knows what an orgasm is. She's able to achieve one and can not only have one, but multiple ones after another. Serial orgasm. I would think that would be like one way that you, I haven't read it yet, how you would like achieve an orgasm the same way each time. No. Each orgasm is different. Each one's different. The way they're achieved is different. The way the person that you're with, every single thing is different with each person. That's why I keep saying communication is so fun. It's fucking important. Amen. I really think it is. Okay, so we've got the serial orgasm, which both Ashlyn and myself, we both have them. We're both serial orgasmers. We are serial orgasmers. Didn't know it till today, but I am. I knew that I had multiple orgasms. Didn't know that I was a serial orgasmer. Easy for me to say. All right, what else do we have? The clitoral. All right. A clitoral orgasm. The clitoral orgasm. Now, Stevie, pay attention to these things. I've never had a clitoral orgasm. Ever. Ever. I've tried. Hasn't happened yet. One of these days, though. All right, so what is a clitoral orgasm? It's going to be coming up. But just what do you think, Ashlyn Malloy? Were you orgasmed from just only your clit? What? I have a lot of clitoral orgasms. Those for me are the ones that I achieve mainly from my... Those are... When I give myself an orgasm, 99% of the time, it's clitoral. And it's fast and it's furious. And it's mainly pressing my clit at a certain speed, rhythm, and pressure on the same object until I achieve orgasm. And it happens very, very quickly. That, to me, is the most important thing. That, to me, is the most important thing. That, to me, is the most important thing. That, to me, is the most important thing. That, to me, is the most important thing. That, to me, that is a clitoral orgasm. And I love them. They happen very quickly. They go away quickly. They're lots of fun. That's my definition. So I think we're both in agreement whether a clitoral orgasm is. All right, what other kind do we have on the list? The vaginal orgasm. All right, now the vaginal orgasm. What's a vaginal orgasm according to you? We're going to tell you guys. Don't go. Don't worry. We're telling you what they really are. We're telling you now what we think they are. I agree. I think that's the G-spot orgasm. Like where the guy hits the inner lining of the G-spot kind of orgasm. I disagree. I'm going to count the G-spot as a type of orgasm of its own. The vaginal orgasm is the hardest one for me to achieve. I have to have a man that knows what he's doing. And it doesn't happen every time he fucks me. Most of the time, while we're being fucked, I have a clitoral orgasm from being fucked. The only way for me to have a vaginal orgasm is from a dildo or my man. But I think the longest, I don't think, the longest and most bizarre orgasm I've ever had that was vaginal was from a machine. It was from this really cool electric machine, Stevie. I'm sure that you're aware of it. I was thinking about an orgasm. I was over there. I was, I was ADD-ing. Where'd you go? Stevie left us. I left my, I was, I was thinking about this orgasm I had where my junk fell asleep. You know that feeling when your foot falls asleep and you walk on your foot and it feels like needles and pins? Yeah. I had one of those. Did your cock and balls fell asleep? Yeah, it was really weird. Like they tingled. It felt funny. Like I didn't want to touch them because it felt like all of the blood had rushed out and they were needly, prickly. This was after, this was after, this was after, this was after, this was after your orgasm. After the orgasm. That's bizarre. It was weird. And I, that happened like a week ago and it was weird. So I was just flashing on that orgasm and I didn't know where to put it on this list. But it was weird. I think we're talking about women right now. I don't think we're talking about men's orgasms. But I thought maybe my clitoris had somehow been stimulated and I felt all that prickly stuff because it was new and very hard to achieve. Like a vaginal orgasm. Yes. It was so hard to achieve. It put my junk to sleep. Um, all right. Um, we'll, we'll, we'll have another day where we talk just about guys orgasms. Okay. But I think that the biggest thing here, I think guys that are listening, I think all men, all women, all of us wonder what the fuck and how do I do it? And can I do it? And how do I do it the best way? And, and how do I make my lover feel the best that we can make them feel? You know, and if you're not pleasing your lover sexually, it all kind of has to fall into place. You have to have all of those ducks in order for it to be a really good relationship. So we've got the vaginal, which I think is not the same as a G spot. I think the G spot is, this is just my opinion, completely different. I think the vaginal for me is the hardest to achieve. The time that I achieved it the longest and the most intense and the way that I know that there is such a thing. If I were to say, I can scientifically prove that there, there is a vaginal orgasm. There's a device that we bought at the pleasure chest. Don't know who made it. It's a little black box, $800. It's ridiculous. And yet you have to do it with somebody that you really trust. Um, somebody that you really know, uh, they really should know CPR and you should have a deferred defibrillator close by. Um, what it is, it is a device that goes into your pussy. It's shaped like a dildo. And the difference is the dildo. It it's, it's thick. It's about the size of a red, a bull can with a rounded end and it's got metal on each side and there's a base on it. And you put this in, in your pussy and your partner, your person, you trust, you know, you love the person that knows what they're doing. That's been trained using this device turns up the pulsation and you get everything from electrical shocks to pulsations to simulation. And it begins this orgasm that, that starts and it flows. It's, it's like, I, I had about, a 30 minute orgasm the first time he did it on me. I, it was so intense. I was crying. I couldn't stop just coming and coming and coming and coming. And every time that I have a vaginal orgasm, it isn't like that. That was just an experience that I had, but it's a whole different orgasm to me than a G spot or a clitoral, whole different one. Well, else we got on the list. That's it. That's all. Wait, unless we have, the serial orgasm, we have the clitoral or the vaginal, the sequential, sequential, sequential, like in order, like sequence in sequence, you know, you keep having one after the other. It's just like the serial. I thought that was the serial. It's the same. It's like, it's another name for it. It's another name for it. Well, let's read. What are they saying in this article about it? What? Tell us about the serial orgasm. They don't go into it. They do not. They do not. They just say it's just like the sequential. That's all they go into. Do they go into the, the other? The sequential and serial fall into multiple orgasms. So it's just a multiple orgasm. So without me looking at this paper, have I pretty much read and covered what the different orgasms are? You covered all of them except for the hysterical clitoral vaginal orgasm that men sometimes achieve by who knows how. All right. Now, how do we achieve these orgasms? Well, the, it says the vaginal one is the hardest to ever to. Let's start at the top. How do we achieve serial orgasm? We have to do it here in the studio and try it. It doesn't tell us how. Are you serious? No, it doesn't tell you how to, they can't tell you how to have an orgasm. Oh, it just says the best, the best female orgasms, what they are. It doesn't tell us how to do it. No, we have to go and do our, that homework. Then we're going to have to try each and every one of these. And it doesn't mention the sequential to me is, is bullshit. If you've got the serial, I think the G spot should be on there. And I think we covered it and said what it is. But now, now, we're going to try having all of these. Unfortunately, we're not, you know, we can do, we can practice a little bit, see what feels good and try the different types of orgasms on air and communicate. Are you, are you that comfortable with anything on air? If not, that's cool. I can do it quietly. Yeah, you can't have an orgasm. You're not allowed to. But what I thought is that you and I could get down to the floor here. They can see our faces. They can see the table though. We'll adjust the camera a little bit. And either you can do me or I can do you. And we can use gloves and we can try just communicating and discussing the little, a little bit about the orgasms. Yeah, not today. Not today. That's all right. Still skin. We've got lots of things to do. Lots of other things to do. I want you right now. What are we doing right now? Miss Ashlyn Loy. Talking about orgasms. No, no, no, no, we're not. It's a different time. It's time for my favorite. And I hate to keep you waiting. I'm going to go. All right. And I hate to keep saying it's my favorite, but it is, it's my favorite screaming. Oh, toy. Oh, it is the mustachio. Let me hear it on the microphone. Have you got it turned on? I need to go get the pizza boy. You two have fun all righty. And then, so let's see, close up, let's get your face close to the camera. Just cause you as close as you can. Let's show them what the mustachio looks like. It's must, it's his mustache. It's vibrating. And I'm going to sit back. Sit back. 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Hurry up. it's going for a whole different then I deleted pretty much my grinder account because I got tired of you know I like a good old-fashioned you meet a guy somebody blow somebody or you do the hand job there it's not the resume I don't meet them and go do you have a picture can you could you give me a picture of your penis and then send me a headshot and then send me a couple more pictures of you on vacation and then I'll think about it no it's there in the moment I like you or don't like you know yes maybe happened in the crosswalk yesterday I left pavilions guy in an SUV came up see that I had a moment it wasn't a white van I thought this is new it's a black SUV I should try this and he sat there and he was in his shorts and he was trying to pick I knew what he was doing he didn't go through the green his green light and he blocked me and I was like hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi! hi hi Hi so he didn't have a bait he didn't have the right bait so I waited nothing happened so I said I gotta go and I waited for him to go through so a wallet on the seat means they're gonna give you money or what does that mean well it means maybe dinner or something fun like we're gonna go somewhere and do something oh it does you guys have signs yeah but there was nothing there he says it like I'm an idiot yeah sorry so I thought you know we're gonna go out we're gonna go somewhere I like the fact that it's the SUV and the backseat is really large but you know what I'm just I wasn't in the mood I mean I wasn't in the frisky mood I was up for a new experience a different experience not one at 2.30 in the morning you know as far as choosing that lifestyle and needing that adrenaline rush you know you know you know you know you know you know you know So choosing that lifestyle and needing that adrenaline rush, I'm going to say several things. One, I'm glad that I'm giving you ones by sending you out to places you don't want to be going out to, which is coming up again in the next weekend. We've got a three-day gig, not this weekend, but the following weekend, the last one in September, is the Quartz Convention here in Los Angeles at the LAX. Oh, they'll be here. Oh, awesome. It's the Quartz Convention. So it's a huge, huge, huge, huge convention with unbelievable amounts of people. The hotel is, I think, pretty sold out, but there may still be some rooms available. It's the Quartz Convention, the last weekend in September, and many, many, many of your favorite film and television stars will be there. So that's where you're going to find me. I want to get on to something. I have a big concern. Although you... Who today, Ashley Malloy, made me feel much better about it. Having an 18-year-old son, I worry about, and he has a girlfriend now, him being a giving, good lover. I don't know if... I just... I don't think about, you know, what they do, what they think, but I know that they're doing it. And I'm just hoping that what he is is not what he's learned from film. Young people these days don't go that way. You made me feel better about that. But I do think that in certain ways, mainstream porn, mainstream porn, misleads women about sex. Yes. The thing that comes to mind for me, the first thing that comes to mind is stick with tits. Stick with the tits. Stick with the tits. A stick... Wait, stick with tits. Yes. So a girl with tits and no body? Yes. Yes. Okay. Because I wasn't sure if it was stick with tits or just stick with the tits. Barbie dolls. Girls that all look the same in porn. That have had their bodies altered to look like this. I heard yesterday, somebody asked me if I had seen Jenna... The rumor is Jenna Jameson had butt implants. And so she's got this great big butt now. And I heard the rumor that she was cast on... On... On... Oh, what show is that? The Walking Dead. And I saw the breakdown for it. They were looking for a porn star who they could cast in The Walking Dead for the last season. And Jenna Jameson, according to what I heard, the rumor is the one. So I don't know if that's true or not. I don't know. Maybe you can do some research. Can we Google it? Jenny, can you find Jenna Jameson's butt implants on Google or something like that? That would be... And so we can see... Yeah, because we have... Because we have this wonderful screen. It's huge. I don't know. What is that? Like a... From corner to corner? It's a television. It's a television? But what's the... How many inches is that? Oh, I don't know. It's big, Stevie. I need to get my fist over there and... Okay, this screen is... But the butt implants can be weird. I went to a show once. I had never seen butt implants. Like, I had met Tranny's. He'd done it where they put silicone into their skin. Where, like, directly into the skin. Which is really bad. And then their legs go numb. But they have other implants. I guess it's a solid implant. And I was at the show and I saw this girl who had this cartoon butt. Like, the breasts that are overly big. The butt was ridiculously huge. A Kardashian butt. Beyond. Like, take Kardashian and, like, suck it out, like, ten more times. You can only wear tights. You need, like, custom-made pants or just stretch pants for these. Yeah, just stretch tights. It was very cartoonish. And it was interesting to look at. But I can't imagine... Did she have a tiny waist? Tiny waist. Like, the waist was like this. But the butt was like... Like that disco ball. It was huge. Like, two of those coming off of a skinny... The same way the boobs come off of a skinny girl. Imagine the butt coming off. The butt would come off like that. I don't even know how you sleep. You have to sleep on your stomach. And if you have boobs, you have to sleep on your side. Where do you sleep? Yeah. And what do you do when you get old? And all that stuff moves. I guess you have it removed. I don't know. But what if you have it done? Stretch marks. Jen has no spring chicken. You have wrinkles. You wouldn't care about stretch marks. And you're not flaunting anything once you get older. Jen is pushing 40. And she's putting stuff in her body. Well, the weird thing is when you get older... Have you noticed when you watch a woman who's had breast implants... And she's... I've seen my friends go through it. They've had breast implants. And then it disappears. I'm not really sure what picture it is that you... Well, I see one that her butt looks big. On the top row, fourth one in. But is that a new picture? Is that her butt? That's not Jenna. That's not Jenna. That's... But look at that butt. It's like... Wait, go below. Imagine them bigger than that. There's a weird one. Those are some butt implants. That's not Jenna. One that flipped. They can flip over. And when they flip, you get that weird, funky... Cut my butt off. Oh, no. Yeah. Oh, my God. Why would someone do that? Because they didn't have a butt. And sometimes people... People do... Who knows? Sometimes people get involved with like methamphetamines and stuff like that. And they lose all of their fat and their skin. And they have to put stuff back in. Or they just don't eat. And they're anorexic. And they lose their butt. Or they bodybuild. Do you know how the bodybuilders lose their everything? So they add... So they have to add that back in there. But it just... Sometimes it works in moderation. But if you go overboard, it looks strange. I think... It's... Is that... No, that's not Jenna. No, that's not her face. No. But those are butt... Are those butt... These are all butt implants. It does look very cartoonish. It goes along with the lips. And my whole point that porn, one of the things that I find is misleading... Like that one. About sex. The fifth one over on the second row. That's lit. That's rimlet. The rimlet. It's got the rim light. Yeah, that one. That's how big Jenna's butt is. That's crazy. I haven't seen it. Oh, I thought... I've never seen it. Last time I saw her was at Rage at a Dreamgirls review show. And she looked normal. This was before the madness. Wow. I don't know. So that's one of the things that I find misleading is that we're supposed to look the way that everybody in porn looks in mainstream porn. I think that it misleads a lot of couples that would normally watch it. If I wasn't comfortable with my body, I wouldn't be able to... I wouldn't be able to watch porn because I would go, oh my God, I don't look like that. I don't look like that. I don't look like that. And I think that a lot of people feel that they watch porn and it misleads them and it makes them think, my husband, he likes porn. That's what he wants me to be. I'm never going to be that way. That's just my opinion of one of the way that it misleads women. What do you think? I think it does mislead women like that because the mainstream porn, I mean, girls get like breast... Pregmentation. I mean, they're just... They do almost every... I mean, it is misleading, like you said. I think it misleads younger men. I'm not so sure it misleads older men, but I think the younger guys look for the girls with the bigger boobs. The ones who are full of testosterone, looking to score, looking, going out to the clubs. If they're in Hollywood, they're going to find that. They're going to find a girl with fake breasts and fake butts, but Midwest and somewhere else, they might have a problem. But, you know, it depends on their values and communication levels. You can't really live anywhere else except here and do things like that. You just can't. You can't. So, what are some of the ways that porn misleads women about... Or misleads women about sex? Do you have any on our list that you want to talk about? What's the first? It doesn't matter. That all sex focuses on the guy's pleasure. Outside of porn, even when it is porn, it's not focused on the guy's pleasure. But... I... I disagree. You know, in porn, I think I told you about my browser experience, didn't I? No. I did a film. This is one of the reasons I quit. One of the last scenes I ever did. First of all, the guy walked in with a hard-on, which is really cool, but I don't think it was because of me. You know, in my head, I'm like, fuck it. Did he take Viagra? Is he injecting? You know, am I even hearing him? But they do the stills first. We shot the stills. And then we did the scene. And I wanted him to eat my pussy. So I got him in that position. And the director and I got into a big argument. Long story short, they, you know, I said they didn't want, they didn't, or they said they didn't need it. I said I did. They said goodbye. I said, see you later. And that was it. So they were focusing purely on his pleasure, not on anything else except selling, making money and on the man's pleasure. So I think that some porn... Does mislead women. And I'll put browsers out there as one of the companies that's guilty of that. I haven't had that experience, but I haven't worked with browsers yet. But I mean... Do you run into that? I kind of run into douchey guys. I mean, I'm not going to lie. I do run into douchey guys on set when they're about them. But for, I mean... But on set, they're not... But that's the guy... I mean, even though you're having a good time, you're there... Yeah. Mainly to put out a product. You're performing for the camera and the audience. Exactly. So do you get to get off a lot? If I'm like... With some guys, yes. I do get off and away with all the time. Right. But it's not like fully like where I'm like, oh my God. Right. It's just like, okay. I've had like... It was like a little surge. But is that because of the guy or is that because you're worrying about camera angles and keeping it open for the camera and being uncomfortable? About the guy. It's mostly... About the guy? Yeah. Because even with some performers I'm really comfortable with and can do that and that are more... That like to please me too. More than I like... As much as I like to please them. Right. You know, that's whenever I'm like really into it. But some guys are just like you said all about them. Do you get excited with new talent? Yes. Getting to work with a new person? Yes. That you haven't? I do get excited for that. What about if you don't know them and you're going to do a scene with them and you don't know... Do you... Do you... Do you... Do you... Do you... Do you... Do you... I mean, somebody told me they used to have something called No List. I'm like, how do you... Okay. We didn't... We had six people in the business. Six guys. You had to choose from one of them. And so the No List went away and now that nobody knows who they're working with, you just walk in and most of the time you don't know who you're working with. No. My agent tells me who I'm working with before I walk into the door so I can do a little bit of research about them. Oh, yes. I can ask about other... Like, I can ask other girls about them. Yeah. What else is the research? Do you watch a scene that they do? Mm-hmm. I like to see how big their dick is, how they like to fuck and stuff and... Have you gotten turned on? Do you ever decide no? No. I mean, by just doing the research. Do you ever get turned on doing the research? No. Yeah. Yeah. And do you ever decide, no, I won't work with this person? No, because I really don't know their person. Like, I see their fucking and their fucking excites me, like, most... I mean, all the time, you know, because it's fucking. That's hot. So, but it's mostly... It's their personality. That throws me off. Like, when they're like... It's just being... Like, even though it's sex, like, I expect you to be... Like, I expect a gentleman out of you. Yeah. I do. Just a little hi. Just a little like, oh, hi, my name is blah, blah, blah. Not like you go into the car, just like, oh, hey. Like, don't even acknowledge... Like, don't even introduce yourself. I can't even imagine. Does that happen? It's happened. It's happened where I'm like, okay, don't introduce yourself to me. That's fine. I have sex with people. I don't even ask them. I'm not even asking them for their names. If they even try to give me their name, I'm like, I want it. Shut up. I want it. It's just, you're working with someone. Shut up. Tell me who you are. I don't care. Yeah. I guess it was just much more intimate then. We knew everybody so well. There were so few of us that it was very, very different. I can't imagine... And when I did my comeback years and years and years and years ago for VCA, I auditioned people. 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Try, mom. No, you don't want to have anal sex with no lube. But mom and dad weren't there saying, well, you know, if you're going to do this, this is how it's done. So you have to find out the hard way. We're talking about the things that you make sure. Oh, are we on? Yes, we are. Oh, hi, everybody. I didn't know we were on. I thought we were privately talking here. No, we're still. You're on the air. You're talking. Okay. Well, if you're a parent out there, tell your children about sex in a very adult way. And they're going to do it and tell them how to do it correctly. So they don't, you know, and find a comfortable way as an adult to do it. So you wish your parents. How do you talk about lube, though? Like, I'm not going to sit down. My son, I'm sure, is at the age where he's having sex. I don't want to go into it way much. But I'm just thinking that if you're having sex for the first time, they don't really teach it in school. Your friends, you don't want to learn from porn. Your friends don't know any more than you do. And unless you are one of them. I'm not one of your friends. I actually gave sex at my. At the school? At my. Well, yeah. I mean, guys would just be like, so what? I mean, like. Well, I was sneaking straight. What's the girl's like? I was sneaking straight porn, not gay porn. So, of course, watching that, there was no lubing up. You don't lube the girl up. Unless you're down there eating it. You weren't lubing it up and then going for it. So a lot of times. And on set, I've seen it, you know, with guys and girls, you know, from shooting film, you know, shooting stuff since 91. Yeah. There was lube involved. And you don't see that on camera. So that can be very misleading. Oh, so they don't use lube anymore? No, they do. But we didn't show it on camera. It wasn't like, oh, show them. You know, we didn't show them lubing everything up. Okay. Getting everything ready. So most of the time when the guys are together, you don't see the lube part that goes on. That goes on. That's actually happening. Because we do use lube on set, but you don't see it on camera. Yeah. Okay. So that's a misleading thing there, too. Okay. If you're watching it as somebody who's just turned 18. And you don't, maybe your parents didn't tell you about it. And you're watching that. You're not going to think, oh, we need some lube. You know, let's just do it. It just goes in like that. No. That's what we do. It doesn't just, sometimes it does. Sometimes you're so wet, it just slides right in. But it depends on the situation. And it depends on the girl and the time and the day and who you are. And everything is different with everybody. So once again, we're back to that communication thing when it comes to sex. And it's like, oh, God. I know. It's so funny because I'll have to talk to my parents about it. So it's like, they're the ones embarrassed about it. And I'm like, well, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And they're just like, oh, gosh. My mom can't even say porn. She says prawn. You still making those prawn movies? I'm like, oh, yes, mom. Still working on those prawn movies. Like not saying it is going to make it like different. Or she's dyslexic and I haven't known her all these years. But only when it comes to prawns. Yeah, prawns. Only dyslexic during prawns. So I think those are two very valid points. What's on our list of things that mislead women? Anything that we thought of here? Do you have anything that you want to add to this? We've got so far. I like this one. That sexy is purely physical and incredibly specific. It's not true. I think sexy, I find personality sexy. I am such a personality slut. Like you don't have to. Like I've. I've fucked guys where if I met them for the first time, be like, okay, you're not. That best looking guy on the planet. But because I've gotten them because I became great friends with them. It's like, you're such a amazing person to me. I have to. I have to suck your dick. I have to fuck you. I'm sorry. I get that. I get that. You want to go to bed with all my friends? You want to take the friendship to the next level? It's it's all part of the same thing. It's just that it's a little bit better. And that's misleading, too. Like because it's so important. What do they do? Well, I mean. You know about the whole body thing and stuff like that. Like girls think that they just have to be. It's just got to be about the body. So that's kind of what I was talking about with the girls in porn. That you've got to be like physically the same as the girls in porn. Well, it depends on what you're watching. Because my eyes got opened up on porn sets where I was, you know, used to seeing only the 18 year old girls with the perfect bodies, you know, whatever it was, whether they had breasts or not. But just that tight. Effort. And then I got a call from a girl who was like, oh, I'm not a girl. I'm a girl. I'm a girl. I'm a girl. And then one day I got a call from nearly normal Nancy. And it was like she was like, OK, well, we're shooting 50 and still banging. And I was like, are you kidding me? People in their 50s do not have sex in my head. So here I misled. I think that, you know, little lady on the bus or whatever. They don't have sex. And these girls were from 50 to like 70 or something. And I was like blown away. We were up at this ranch in Malibu. And these girls were going. These women, mature, very mature women were just going for it. Of course, it was 20 year old guys, but they were just going to town. And I sat there and I looked at it and I went, wow, that just blew my mind. Like, I didn't think you could physically have sex when you got to a certain age. Think of Erica McLean. Is that her last name? Erica. Erica McLean. But this was before I'd even been exposed to them. She's still working at the Mustang Ranch. Oh, yeah. She's great. And she's in her 50s. And she's one of the hottest. She's one of the most sexiest women that I've ever seen that loves sex. And she has a great personality. I never think of her age at all. And she's nearly 60 and banging away. Banging. Beautiful. Body's hot. And her personality. She is one of the nicest people that I've ever known in my life. I would have sex with her in a heartbeat. In a heartbeat. And she's just. So it depends on, I think, what adult films you're watching. Right. We're talking about mainstream. We're not talking about. The off to the side. Because I remember the 500 pound women. And I was like, oh, how is this going to work? That's not mainstream. That's not mainstream? No. Because. Okay. Mainstream films, the girls, pretty much a lot of them go to a lot of lengths to look a certain way. They do a lot of plastic surgery. They have a lot of things done to their face, their lips, their tits, their ass. I know the girls that have had ribs removed. There's an image. There's a Barbie doll image that is prominent in porn. And that's what you see. You don't see it. You don't see it in real life. You don't see it. You see in porn and strippers. You don't see it in everyday people that just go to their jobs doing whatever they do that that are in different professions. It doesn't. I don't know anyone who has a, you know, nine to five job that puts butt implants in. I just just it doesn't happen. You know, so porn does mislead women. And it's pretty much the same thing that the first problem that I had. So I agree as well. Absolutely. How else does it mislead women? Well, orgasms are almost effortless. But with you, it's true. So if you're if you're humping, you actually have them. So does that mislead people? Or do you know, you don't say at the beginning, hi, girls, I'm actually very multi orgasmic. So in the film, you're going to be watching. You're going to see me achieve stuff that you may not achieve naturally. But this is how I'm built. So don't fool yourself into thinking that you'll actually have the same orgasms that I have. Enjoy them. Enjoy the movie. Don't watch a lot of porn. What I do watch, though, I can tell when the girl's having the fake orgasm. I can tell when there's no nobody has an orgasm. The minute you start eating their pussy, it just doesn't happen. It takes a minute to warm up. And so if the girl is just do if the fake orgasm, she's just coming before anything even starts. I know that it does happen with certain women. I think it's rare. I think that it does. And I would advise mostly women to think that every girl is multi orgasmic. Every girl has an orgasm in every situation because it is that doesn't really happen. I have times when I don't have orgasms. I have times when I have better ones than others. I have times when they're different styles. When I'm in different moods. I have times when I scream when I can't hold my I have to bite my own pillow to put something over my face over my head just to keep myself back from, you know, letting the whole neighborhood know that it war gazing. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. I've liked that. mainstream film a moderate level orgasm it does that make sense to you what do you think you know what do you know you're still filming when you have an orgasm what are yours are yours loud are they are is it in your face is in your body do you hold it all in do you let it go do you have to come out in a screen what do you you know you've watched your movies what is your what's your what's your deal dude it really depends like if I have to fake something on camera I will for the most time I really don't fake my screams or my moments on camera I mean because for if they want the screaming they want the guy to be pounding me as hard as they can as fast as they can so of course I'm gonna be screaming it's gonna happen naturally it's gonna happen naturally and then with the soft you know romantic like with x art or you know because they do romantic stuff so with that it was more passionate and like it was natural right so it varies from film to film and scene to scene depending on who you're working for what you're doing yeah and those are both mainstream what you would consider mainstream prod up projects yes like yeah so it's not completely missing leading if you've got the right girl so if I watch an Ashlyn Molloy film I'm gonna get the real deal I'm gonna get however you're really feeling so I have to make my list of girls and see which ones are gonna be the best for me because I'm gonna have to figure out how to do it because I'm gonna have to figure out how to do it because I'm gonna have to figure out how to do it because I'm gonna more realistic than others you know and and I'm sure they're girls that are just having a blast out there that are just having the best orgasms and the best time and the most amazing sex they've ever had and how lucky are they in the adult film industry to be able to do that that's really awesome so number two is one of those that we don't want you to think that every orgasm has to be incredibly loud wild and crazy there are different variations of them and porn may if you're thinking that they're all these just over the top of the hill every orgasm is not that way some are gentle some are wild some are hot some are warm they're they're different temperatures are different degrees of intensities they're all different how about um that men are always ready and willing no that's what you found that yeah here's misleading the men are all always ready and willing no no yeah sometimes they like they want to go take a shower all right I've been sweating all day yeah or sometimes they actually just want to sit down and have a beer or or they want to watch tv or they don't want to have sex or it's you know guys will will always have sex do they are they always ready for it um no they don't walk around with hard-ons they're not constantly my man does not have a boner 24 hours a day just doesn't work that way so I think that porn is misleading making women think that they're not ready for it and I think that's a good thing that guys are always ready don't expect your man to always be ready you need to take the initiative as well as he does you both do Adam what do you think well I think one way I apologize I had a little technical problem earlier no worries I think that um women get a very slanted view as to the average size of a man's penis that's on here it says eight inches all penises are circumcised and eight inches long um you absolutely that's a huge misconception we talked a bit about that earlier and in preference most porn dicks are eight inches and above um you know eight to up to 14 is is you know pretty much where the range is there aren't a whole lot of big stars that are smaller than that and it makes the average guy which is is five to seven inches feel that they're not adequate and and a five to seven is is not adequate and I think that's a huge misconception that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that is that You're sore the next day. You can't do it again. But you're stretched out. It's sore. It's tender. It's a little bit raw, you know, and it does it. It takes a beating. Oh, yeah. I worked with a girl like that. She I worked with her. It does. And she couldn't work. She said, I can't work today because my boyfriend fucked me too hard. And I was like, well, you know what? We have a list. There's a list of 10 things we need to do in the shop. And you will work and and you will do them because I'm not doing all of it. So you need to tell your boyfriend not to fuck you so hard. If you when you have to work because you're not getting by on that with me on my watch. No, you're doing your work. And so and I made her work. But I was like, no, you don't get to do that. He doesn't get you out of it. Yeah. You don't get to just sit around because you have a sore pussy. I'm sorry. But Adam, is this Toy Train Adam on Instagram? You I assume you watch a lot of adult films from your from your post. You actually have seen a lot. Yes, I have. So do you notice in mainstream porn that do you think that this that's true, that it would mislead people into thinking that all men are circumcised and that they have eight inch long penises and that women multiple orgasm? Oh, yes. I think that I think that even if women who have not, especially for women who have not had experience with a large penis, I think that they fantasize about men with large. Penises, whether they know that it would be good or not. And when you meet a woman for the first time, I think there's always this level of disappointment. If you're not that magic eight incher that they really fantasize about, if that makes any sense. And you think that porn has something something to do with that. And I agree with that. I think porn is misleading in that area that, you know, that's how all men not necessarily are. But. Should be. And it's just not true. It's not true at all. So it may be misleading to women in porn. But as far as the conception or misconception goes, one of the things that we talk about on the air here in both. Well, Ashlyn and I agree that although the big ones are fun and you fantasize about them and you do them once in a while, what you want, what you really want when the end of the day comes home, when it's about the real deal. It's the average size penis and the man that knows what to do with what he's got. I swear to God, you know, I when every girl fantasizes about a big one, but they don't necessarily they don't want they don't want you to have one. I turn them down. It's going to wear you out. There's two more. I'm curious for every I guess for all of us that because we got so many things on this list. OK. And not a lot of time. But it's like, Adam, you included on these four. What you think as far as misleading to that insanely complex sexual positions feel good for everyone. And that sex between two women is just something that happens between two straight ladies when they're bored. Those are two totally different topics. So two totally different topics. But pick one or pick both. And well, I think the the topic about two women just always fucking at the top of the drop of a hat. Is that misleading? Do you think that now I don't in my circle of people that depends. It's misleading in the viewer into somebody who watches the no in the video even to non-viewers in the vanilla world and by vanilla world. I mean, you're not swingers, you're not swapping partners, you're not bringing in unicorns, you're not finding sex outside of your your bond. If you don't, if you're not including anybody. else, I think that it is misleading. And I just lost my train of thought in the middle of it. And the other one was that the extremely insanely... The two women. So I think that in the circle of friends and in the groups that you surround yourself in, if you go to swing parties, if you go to swing clubs, if you are in the fat lifestyle, if you are on a lot of the websites that are into that, then those things, two women together, are very, very common in our circle of friends and people that we know for Ashlyn and myself both. It's not unusual at all. Most of my best friends, my best girlfriends, even the ones I've had since childhood, at one point or another in time, we've taken our friendship and extended it and had sex together. And so it's much more common than the average man thinks. The average woman thinks about it much more than the average man thinks. And so I think that's a very, very common thing. Much more than the average man thinks it is. And if you want that in your life, it is out there. It is available. So it just depends on the circle. Are you going to walk into McDonald's and the two cashiers start kissing? I highly doubt it. Oh my gosh. Some of the scenarios may be a little bit out of... Context? Context? Context. Context here. I had a... I went out with a friend last night for a burger. Probably better. At a burger place. And our waiter started talking to us kind of about sex. And it was kind of... It kind of blew me away at first because I was like, wait a minute. At a burger place? I was at a burger place. And the guy just came up and was like, do you think that guy... Do you think he was... Do you think he was gay? Because he came up to me and goes, how good is your gaydar? At first. And I said, mine's broke. It's broke. I don't know who's gay and who's straight. And then it became this whole conversation that I usually wouldn't have in a burger place. And I kind of was like, why? And he was like, why? And I was like, why? And he was like, whoa, this is really interesting. But I'm hip. Okay. It's 2014. I can talk about this in front of everybody. Oh my... I mean, just while you're in line. This is not... With the manager. With the manager. This is... Yeah. And this was not in West Hollywood. And this is not a private conversation. There's people everywhere. Not a private conversation. But it was... It was interesting. Wow. But what was I going to say? I totally lost my train of thought. Oh, Adam. I was thinking about Adam here and Ashlyn. That... And Ginger. Okay. And myself. Throw us all in. What's next? Okay. We're all here. What's next? We're all on the line. Let's see what we think about it. It says that men don't like women with hair down there. I find... Misconception? That's misconception. Yeah. I love the hair down there. I think it's a huge misconception. And whoever wrote this article, it may not be... It's not recent as... If it is recent, they're not watching a lot of porn. There are a lot of girls that are now coming back. And the last several years, girls have like some pubic hair. Ashlyn, you're... You're involved in this. You have a hair care? What have you got going on here? I got it. Pulling down her panties. Oh, you got hair. And you have the perfect... It's a triangle. It's trimmed on the sides, on both sides. There's hair. It's trimmed nicely, but it's definitely... Because here, like if I close my eyes and I touch it, it reminds me of when I was young, when I was... The first time that I reached down and touched one. The lips down below are trimmed. There's no hair. It's smooth. It's beautiful. And that... It's just... I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. It's just the perfect pussy. We're bringing it back. It's coming back. It's coming back. And whoever wrote this article is either it's dated or they're not paying attention to what pussy is like these days. I've always had pussy hair. Back in the day, I had a little too much pussy hair. It was a little wild and wacky down there. There was no trimming whatsoever in the very beginning of my career. But it's also... It's a novelty at this point. It's something kind of cool that I can go... I used to have bush for days. I had a jungle down there. I've seen both. I've never thought about it too much. I can see a girl with a bunch of hair or no hair. I don't think much about it either way. But I know if I see a guy and he's shaved everything, sometimes I'm like, well, that's just kind of too much. That's kind of weird. As far as girls go, there's some girls that can pull it off and it looks sexy on them. Mm-hm. What bothers me a little bit is I'm a little bit old. Mm-hm. is I'm a little bit older. And if I'm with a girl that's younger and she doesn't have pubic hair, it just, no matter if she's, you know, 30, it just makes me feel like she's prepubescent and it's creepy. There's just, there's a creepy factor that goes along with being with a girl. Not that I'm not going to go along with it or I'm not going to do it, but there's still that like, oh, that's maybe, oh, nevermind. You know what I'm saying? I'm trying to think, because if it's misleading, because if I'm thinking when I've seen it, I don't think I ever went on a set and saw a girl without pussy hair and went, oh my God, there's something wrong with that. Even though I hadn't seen it so much in movies. No, but what they're saying is that it's misleading that all girls should have no pubic hair. Okay. Like none whatsoever. And do you think that every girl that is out there, I think it's more individual and it's the girl personally, but do you think that every, what the article is saying is that all girls, porn makes women think that nobody should have pubic hair. But this all goes back to being young. Because I remember when I was go-go dancing, the number one thing they told me to do, it was, they said, you need to shave your armpits. You know, you need to appear younger. We want you to shave your armpits. Shave your armpits. Shave your armpits to look younger. I never thought about that. Isn't that interesting? Adam, I don't know. You've been very helpful in this conversation. Thank you so much for calling in. We really, really appreciate it. Anytime you want to. We love having you. You left us a rating on iTunes yet? Excuse me? Have you left us a rating on iTunes? Oh, I am not on iTunes, but I will get on iTunes and leave a rating. It's free. We would love it, baby. We would absolutely love it. And we love it when you call in. Oh, here's one. Thank you very much. Do we have time? Oh, we don't have time. Oh, well. Thank you so much, Adam. Bye-bye. Bye-bye. Nope. It's about time to say, are there any, you know what? Throw one more out there. Oh, no. There was just one. I was going to ask. I was curious from Adam. It says that men only find certain bodies white-toned and smooth-skinned attractive. Oh, so we can't really. How do we go on that one? Yeah, I was going to ask Adam because he was. Well, I'm not a man, but I'm bisexual, so I think that I have a right to disagree. I think porn, well, I think porn may, may lead, lead you to believe that all girls are like that. No, I actually. But we're going mainstream because I remember a time. Mainstream porn, I disagree. Mainstream porn has a variety. Mainstream porn today has girls of every color, of every shape, of every style, of every, there's still the Barbie doll look, but they include all types of women. It has a little bit more. Because when I started, I remember there was a lot. And I remember the white girls getting paid more than the black girls for the same amount of work. That's fucked up. I remember that. And that's 91. And tomorrow, we'll have more fucked up things for you. Thanks for listening to Blame It On Ginger. We'll see you next time.