First times, anal sex tips, and Wiccan warning

I want to live a life of sin. I want to be like Ginger Lynn. La la dee, la la da. Woo! Swing it to the force of life. Woo! I want to be like Ginger Lynn. La la dee, la la da. Yeah! Yeah! That was awesome. That is the way you juggle titties on a Monday morning. Yeah, put the nipple back. I got your nipples popped out. I know. There we go. They're back. They're back. Now we're back to being legal. That is the prettiest bra I have ever seen. The case to be made. It's a case to be made for every woman who likes to be with men, invest. I do like to be with men. Having a couple bras that cost a week's wages that are brought out just for at-home entertainment. Yes, they're not your day-to-day. No, no, no, no. Just because it's like... This is a fancy shmeet. This is a fancy high-end European name brand bra, but it's so fucking amazing. It's beautiful. And I spent how much on it? Oh my gosh, there's starving children in Asia. Yeah, but I wore it with my tuxedo at the AE at the AVN Awards last year, and it made a perfect top. So some bras are meant to be seen. And where's your nipple? Nipple is right behind the middle. It's right behind the middle. So it just hides it. Just hides it. And you were able to wear this as a top. As a top. But I did have to keep doing a nipple check all evening long. Wow. Because I don't want it... Only you can pull that off. See, I couldn't... No, no, but see, but you, you, you have the cleavage that every woman really wants, which is that they meet in the middle, they're full, and they're round, and they're firm like you're in your 20s. They're better now than 30 years ago. You know what? Your tits are amazingly better now than 30 years ago. I am, I am blessed in the tip department. I love this because, you know, I'm like a 14-year-old boy. I'm a sucker for cleavage. And so I love the fact that your bones don't show, that little line, and that little roundness. You know, I can achieve butt cleavage with my ass, but then I don't get to look at it. See, but we all have those parts that we love and adore and the ones that we, that are least favorite. What's your favorite part of your body? Oh, by the way, you're listening to Blame It on Ginger. Yes, on skidvotestudios.com. You can listen on iTunes. On iTunes? You can listen? You can watch us and listen live every day, Monday through Friday from 6 p.m. Our phone number here is 1-800-893-9562. And we will talk to you. We might hang up on you, but we'll talk to you for a minute. Talk to you for a minute. I tell people, you know, we're adult entertainers, so you cannot embarrass us. But don't ask a question just to be snarky, because we will treat you seriously. So you ask a stupid question, we might not be really nice. If you are clearly trying to... Trying to be rude. But if you ask it sincerely, we will treat it seriously. I just came from a radio show, and it was so cute. I did... They were like the one... They played this song called Detachable Penis that I remember from 30 years ago from listening to K-Rock. I'll have to go do a search on that. It's hysterical. I love it. And there was a guy there, a comedian, and I said I wanted to hold his penis, you know, and he just started... He turned beet red. It's adorable. And then the girl that was hosting the show, Laura, I said, can I grab your titties? And she turned beet red. So I had two bright red people. And the show is called Between the Sheets. And they were so vanilla, beautiful, sweet, wonderful, sexy. And it was just like... They were going, wait a minute. And they had this list of all these different toys that they brought out. Wait till you see this one. And it was Marcus London's watch that you wear for finger fucking for the G-Spot. And I already knew about that. And the first one... The first one that they had, it was a steamer for your pussy. And I already had them... I had them come in the studio already. So I've already done the steamer and the pussy. Steamer. That's new. That's new for me. You know what? It's really cool. It's like a chair that you sit on. And it's almost... And it's cushy like a chair. And in the center, there's a hole cut out like a toilet. And then what they do is underneath of it, they put herbs and spices and steam. And it literally steams and cleans and purifies your pussy. Oh, that's a very... One of those old... One of those old natural-based remedies. I'm sure it started, I'm sure, way back in the centuries before, but after childbirth. So for, you know, after postpartum care. Yeah. And the thing that, you know, I enjoyed it. It felt really good. It did get warm, but it felt really good. What I didn't like was the next three days, there was kind of funky stuff going on. Interesting. So you were being cleaned out. It was being cleaned out. Everything was being... Fascinating. Everything was being cleaned out. Oh, your man got a lot of... BJs then. And a lot of anal sex. Luckily, when you think about being female, if one hole's out of commission, you still got two more. Last night, I swear to God, he was so cute. He goes, you want your pussy licked? And it was like five o'clock and there were people everywhere. My realtor was there. Oh my God. Her mom was there. Like, give me an hour, sweetheart. My kid's there. Yes, I would love my pussy licked, but I can't right now. So we waited a little bit. And when the timing was right, he went down and gave me the most amazing pussy licking, finger banging. Oh, nice. Just wonderful. Just really spoiled me. Little love bites and sucking and biting and nibbling and kissing and doing it all right. And he was so cute. He was down on his knees and I was laying on the edge of the bed. And he got up after he licked my pussy and he went to put his pants back on. I'm like, what are you doing? And he goes, he had his cock out while he was licking my pussy. That's so hot. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. I love it. Because it was so sexy. I'm like, you're not going anywhere. You're going to finish you off. So I climbed up. I got him on the bed. I climbed up on top. And I have. And engulfed him with your very happy pussy. No. I gave him. I have two different. Not two. I have several different blowjob techniques, but I have the blowjob. I have the slowjob. Slowjob. I love that. I'm totally stealing that. Yeah. And I have the, I'm watching TV, so I will lick your cock for an hour. I love that. I love it. Yeah. So was it the. Yeah. And then. Eventually you'll get to come, but I'm watching the show. So I'm just going to lay here and lick it the whole time. If you don't like it. Right. Tell me to stop. You can do something else. But he did the funniest thing. All of a sudden I'm on top of him. Leaning over, sucking his cock. I'm going up and down, up and down. And I've gone from the slow into the. The short stroke. Right. The mo, right. It's time to go. Slow mo. Go. Right. Right. And he rolls me over on my side. He rolls on his side. And he jerks off all over my face. Hot. Oh, I love that. This is so hot. Which is so sexy. Love it. Love it. Love it. And so we get all finished and I'm all warm and cuddly and fuzzy. And I've come and he's come and it's all nice. And I'm laying there and I'm all of a sudden I'm scraping off. Dried cum. Yes. I've got this big clump that I missed. The baby wipe. Oh dear. To my head, to my face, to my eyes. It was everywhere. So just so you know. Obviously, I should not have to say this, but Jinja and her man are in a long-term exclusive relationship and they've established that that's a hot moment for her. Do not ever, ever blow on your girl's face unless you expressly know that that's okay. Or else you will sleep on the couch forever if not lose a testicle. Yeah. It can be really, really rude. It can be very rude. And traumatic depending on the woman. So just keep it in your mind's eye and aim for her boobs. And just compromise. And until and unless she says, yes, baby, please cover my face. In which case, have at it. Go for it. That's awesome. And tonight, so tonight is my... Go for it. Tonight's my date night. I'm leaving town Wednesday. Don't forget, next Monday you need a new temporary co-host. Stevie, will you make me a note? He has a note. He has a note. Where are you going next Monday? I'm going to Washington, D.C. for the fifth annual Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance Sexual Freedom Summit. A five-day series of workshops and lectures and parties. It takes five days to say it. I know. Sexualfreedomsummit.org. You can go there now. I'll be there in person. And Buck Angel, the... Oh, I love Buck. Buck is supposed to... He's supposed to come on the show. Oh, he's awesome. Oh, God, what day was it? Is it a Monday? We don't have him on yet. Got it. We've been playing phone tag while we've been talking, but his schedule's been really busy. But I'll make sure it's on a Monday. Would you please? And then we can get Ernest in here because he and Ernest go back. Well, that'd be a great two hours. I will. And Buck. And you and me. I will do that. Now, you're going to be gone next Monday, which is the 19th. Right. The following Monday, I believe, is the day that I'm going to be gone. Okay. Is that whatever... It's 26. 26. No, no. 19 plus 7. Yeah. It'll be the 26th. 26. Something like that. 20. Yeah, whatever it is. Anyway, the Monday after I'm gone, you're gone. I'm not going to be here. So are you okay without me? Mm-hmm. Will you miss me? Of course I miss you. But you're going to be making a movie. We get to screen. I'm making a movie. Making a real movie. A real movie. You get to scream and be scared. I know. That's fun. I can't tell you all the stuff that's going to happen. Of course not. No, no, of course not. No, but I'm very, very excited about it. How many days of work is it for you? Three. Nice. Nice. Yeah. There you go. They have to watch you in the movie. Yes. You'll... See, I can't tell you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You told me a little bit about it off mic and it sounds like so much fun. It is. It is. It's going to be a lot of fun. I think you're going to have a great time. I've been practicing my tarot cards and all my different... Reading my runes and all my different things that I have to go because my character is a witch. Oh, how fun. In the film. So I get to practice all these different things and I haven't practiced Wicca in years. In years. And so it's been fun just to get everything back out and go back through it and a couple of my friends are witches so... Oh, nice. I've been practicing with them and calling up and how about this and how about that. What I'll do... You know what? I'll do a reading for you next time I see you. I'll bring you... That'd be awesome. That'd be September then. That'd be September. I'll be done with the movie. But I'm still learning so... Sure, sure. And then the rest of the... Oh, I want to get to the first things but I want to show you what we did over the weekend. Stevie and I went to the fair and check out these earrings. Are these not the most beautiful earrings ever? Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. They crawl up your ear. On one poke. Oh, I had the... I love that. That's beautiful. Are those not the cutest thing ever? Those are beautiful. Those are beautiful. Those are beautiful. Those are beautiful. What is this? The Ventura County Fair. That's awesome. That's so... Clunk, clunk. That's beautiful. That's just really nice. I just thought that they were so... Pretty. So pretty and so nice. Yeah. Yeah, so I just had to show you that. No, nice. So back to first. Now, we were just talking about blowjobs and we were talking about Nick coming on my face. Nina, do you remember? I'm hoping you do. You have to remember. Everybody should remember their first blowjob. Oh, of course. I was 18, 19. He was... Seriously? Yeah, he was 39 or 40. He was a teacher from school. He waited until I graduated, but it was weird. Well, looking back on it, but it was the 70s. He had to be there. And so he was my first partner and I was very inexperienced, but I've been reading porn for years. I've seen my first porn movie. You didn't lose your virginity till you were 19? 18. 18. But I started sucking him before we ended up fucking. So I believe it was in his bathroom. And I've been interested in giving oral sex for years. I mean, if I knew then what I know now, I would have started BJ's several years pre... Long time. Long time. I would have started in my freshman year. If I knew then what I know now, I would have started my sexual life much sooner and probably gotten into porn much sooner at 20 instead of 25. Because... So do you think you would have been emotionally ready at 20? Because a lot of girls are. If I had... If I knew then what I know now... If I had started with the BJ's at 15 and moved on to intercourse at 18, by 20, I would have had seven years of sexual experience instead of two years, you know. Right. So the way I was at 20, no way. Absolutely not. But if I... But if again, if you know, if I knew then what I know now, I would have been... In my mind, in my teenage years, I was already who I am now. Comfortable with sex. Right. Right. Exactly. My fantasies always included audiences, multiple partners, performing in the theater, you know, performing in the theater. Performances, not relationships, no one getting, you know, their panties in a wad over it. Right. So I was already imagining the world I've created for myself. But emotionally... So mentally around sex, I was already 50. But emotionally around personal interaction and social skills, I was more like 12. I wasn't socialized very well. Oh, okay. I just didn't have the wherewithal to negotiate or to say, hey, stop that or what the fuck are you doing? Now, when you started the blowjob, do you remember? Did he whip it out? Did you take it out? I think... What was your first blowjob like? It was awesome. Well, I remember being very awesome. I'm being right there, we're kissing. And I think we may even have said, that's what I want to do. So it wasn't like, oh my gosh, you're going for my fly. In the bathroom, he was standing with his butt against the sink and I was kneeling in front of him. And he had a, I realize now, a very average cock, so very nice to start with, not so big, you heard. Not too much. It doesn't hurt your jaw, it doesn't go down. And he was very polite with it. And he was not, he was a real gentleman about it. He wasn't shoving your head down onto it. No, no, no, no. And then he waited until he got close to coming and he had already had a square of tissue paper, came into the tissue paper. So he didn't expect an oral pop. He knew it was my first blowjob. He wasn't, you know, he's being polite. And he was someone who had, you know, he'd been, you know, one of those, he was older, so he'd come of teenage years in the late 40s, early 50s. Right. And so he was used to, you know, not leaving a mess. It was for mom to find in the sheets. So just masturbate into a, not a sock, into a Kleenex and toss, you know, flushing it just to eliminate evidence. So he was very polite about that. I remember liking it enough to keep doing, but the best blowjob, the best blowjob I ever gave was the first time I ever got my finger in his butt. And the only time, the first and only time. I guess I was 19. He was on his bed. I did that last night. Yay. And so when it comes to blowjob, I realize now that I'm at a top eight and have the language then. But if I laid back and let him try to eat me out to get me turned on, I would remain unresponsive. If I was active and gave him a blowjob, i.e. if I amused myself with his penis in my mouth, I would always get wet behind it. I always get wet when I suck dick. Always get wet. Always get wet. You can lick, there's times when you can lick my pussy all day long. All day long, yawn, whatever. Totally, yay. And I have no control over it and it feels good and I can have an orgasm. But there's times, but licking your, sucking your cock, I am always wet. I realize now partly it's being, not in control, but I'm getting, well I am in control. I am pleasing myself. I'm totally getting into how this feels in my mouth. And for me, especially back then, the blowjob was as much for me and my amusement as it was for him. It'd be as being pleasing or doing it for, I was doing the blowjob for me because it feels really good. Sucking cock feels good to my mouth. And oral pleasure is a, your primal pleasure, your basic pleasure, your fundamental pleasure, and really being able to, I love making out. I like, I like eating. I like talking. Of course, I'm gonna like performing. I like performing oral sex. Like duh. Duh. And so the first blowjob, it wasn't, it wasn't momentous, rocked my world. I realized I like this. You like it. I'm gonna do this some more. And I have rarely, I've, I've given thousands of blowjobs in the meantime and I can only say I've become angry or resentful, maybe 20 of them. I say after a while, I say, okay, dude, you know what? You're gonna jerk off. We've been doing this for too long. Too long. It's just not working. And it's not, either you're drunk, you're high on cocaine, whatever. You know what? I'm a good sport. And I will try my darndest. Right. But I tell ladies never blow to the point of resentment. No, no. If you ever get to the point where it's like, you know, you start thinking motherfucker come already, time to sweetly get off this cock and say, oh, hey, honey, give me your hand. Let me watch you finish yourself off. Well, that's when I move into the go job. Well, sometimes even the go job won't, won't, you know, for whatever reason, you can't quite get them over the edge or the thing. You know, some days guys are easy to go over other days. Like, okay. I can tell with women too. You've been on the edge for five minutes. You've been almost there for five minutes. Clearly you just need a little something special. And before we go past that mark and you become numb, I'm going to take my mouth off it. I'm going to bring your hand, let you touch yourself because I can tell you're really fucking close. Right. And I'm now distracting you. And now you're having performance anxiety. Okay. You and your man have a relationship. And so you know that whatever happens, it's completely okay. And when you're with people, either as sport fucking, which you don't do anymore. Right. Or movies. Oh, I support fuck girls. That's not, but, but that's not a shame. That's a shame. So my first blow job was fun and certainly made me want to do more. I've never regretted it. And I still, to this day, really love sucking dick. It's awesome. It's one of my favorite things. My first two blow jobs were disastrous and it wasn't my fault. The first one I was at the movies and it was with somebody. Their last name was Wadley. I'm sorry. I'm not going to laugh at that. It's Wadley. I know it was like. What was his nickname in high school? Oh my God. Waddles? All I'm going to say is his sister's name was Taffy. Taffy Wadley. That her given name? That was her name. Taffy. I think I'm going to kill my mother now. I know. Wow. Seriously, mom? Seriously. Wow. Taffy. Taffy Wadley. So Scott and I were at the movie theater. Oh my God. I'm like, okay, I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. And I unbutton his pants and I put my hands down. I get him inside of his boxer shirts and he comes. Yep. High school. Yeah. What can you do? He came. I'm going. What? A girl. He's going, a girl touched me on her own. Okay. So that didn't work out very well. Hardly. Hardly. And then the second one was with my girlfriend's brother. Hot. And we were in the tree house. Oh, nice. Fucker touched it and he came. Second time didn't work out either. Yep. Nope. And then the third time. You got a man instead of a boy. It was my boyfriend. Oh yeah. That I had a crush on for a couple of years and it was our first time together having sex. Oh nice. And I didn't really know what I was doing, but I do remember that he was telling me that I had not used my teeth so much. Yes, yes, yes, yes. You don't know. You don't know. How could you know? But in all honesty, I didn't like it. In all honesty, I didn't learn. How do I say this? I didn't learn that different men respond differently to blow jobs for a long, long time. And so you can have a technique, but it's not going to work on everybody. It's not always going to be the right one. I think it makes dating after divorce hard for monogamous women because they've learned, or monogamous people, because you've learned your partner's responses. Right. And so you're an excellent partner for them. For them. And if you have been 5, 10, 20, 30 years with only one partner, the whole idea of having to learn, think about it. Wow. To start all over again. All over again. And to think that's how you do it. Right. And think, you know, I love a man who can really take a blow job. For me, a guy who can lay back, you know what, I'm going to let you run the dick. And they don't come too quickly. They don't, you know, force fuck your face. They just like, they can take pleasure, they can receive pleasure without being jerks or pathetic. I like you. Shawn Michaels is like that. Ernest is like that. J. Crew is like that. Shawn Michaels, he just takes a really good blow job. He can, he can, and Randy Spears. You ever get to work with Randy Spears? I did work with Randy. On his good day, Randy was the top, for me, the top three screen partners that I liked working with. I loved working with Randy. And on a bad day, he was in the bottom two. But on the top, on a good day, he was just so on his game and he could really accept pleasure. He loved being teased. He loved doing what's called edge player edging, where he's just on the edge of orgasm for a long time without losing it. I love that about him. He was, of course, good looking, had that voice. And his penis was just big enough to be big without being, ah, you know, you can still put it everywhere it had to go. But it was like, oh, I knew how to use it. He had control, had such discipline and control. He never jackhammered. It was just like, I just loved him. Yeah, not into the jackhammering. Nope. Not into it. I actually learned how to give a blow job. I knew how to put a dick in my mouth. Right. I knew how to. And you weren't, you liked that. Suck. I knew it felt good. I had fun with it. But it, I was in porn and I had already won awards for it. When Ed Holzman said to me, I could never make him come from a blow job ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever. And I'm like, what's the problem here? And he said, you just don't know how to suck my dick. And he, you just, you just don't know how to do it. And he tried to teach me, tried to teach me, tried to teach me. It never worked. Wow. Never worked. Wow. And I was reading a survey the other day that was talking, and I'll bring it in, talking about all of the different percentages of people that enjoy different things sexually. Right. For sure. And I think it was 1.7% right around there. There's only 1.7% of men that only... Yeah. Men that only want blow jobs. They don't want to fuck. They only want their dick sucked. I would have thought there'd be 5% of that, honestly. You thought it would be higher? A little higher. I mean, not, not huge. I didn't think it would be even half, but because intercourse is awesome. But blow jobs are so all about you. I wonder what the percentage is of men who, I can't come from oral sex. From oral sex. I'll bring that. I just found it the other day. So I will bring that in and save it for Monday so that we can go over that. I would love to see that. That would be absolutely wonderful. Because I mean, I know some women don't, don't, I've only met three or four women who don't like cunnilingus, who don't like receiving oral pleasure. I've met more than my share of women who don't like pussy licking. And I was, I'm really surprised. I... Chloe was one of them. Yes. Well, her, her clit didn't work very well. So for her, it's all about penetration. I personally, okay, there can be like 2% of women who just don't care for it much. One woman told me she didn't like getting oral sex. I don't know. She didn't like oral sex because she felt her part was too far away. So for her, it was all about the closeness, body to body. Her butt was... No, no, he was too far away from her. So she felt, she felt all alone up here. Oh, I see. I thought her butt was too far away and I'm going, it's right there. But I think more women, if they had quality cunnilingus, if they, if they, in a blind, in a blind taste test, they were receiving quality cunnilingus, I think most women would enjoy it. And I will tell you. My cunnilingus, my pussy eating secret that I've told over and over and over and over again. When a woman is lying there and she's moaning and she's groaning and you can tell she's starting to writhe and wither, not wither, wither. Writhe and grind. Writhe and grind. She's moving, she's grinding, she's making noises. Everything is feeling fantastic. She's loving it. Don't fucking move. Thank you. Don't move. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. Don't change it up. Stay with it. Don't change it up. They, they, what happens is, and it happens all the time, especially with, often with men is they're so excited at your obvious excitement that they start speeding up because then, then it makes the pussy eating about them, not about you. Exactly. It's like, I get that you're excited. Bank it, bank it, handle it for a minute. I'm almost there. Just don't change up. Clearly, this is the tempo that's working. Well, Nick has got this new thing. That's a new thing. That's a new thing. That's a new thing. That's a new thing. That's a new thing. That's a new thing. That's a new thing. That's working. Well, Nick has got this new thing that he's been doing. Oh, no. No. And what he does is he gets me right there and then he stops and goes someplace else for a minute and then he gets me right there and then, what did you call that? Edging. Edging. He's been edging me. Oh my God. That's just, that's, that's total power exchange. It's so, that's so, so naughty. I love it. Love it. I love it. Well, we only got to one of my 50 different things of first, but that's okay. That's okay. I want everybody to right now to go to the screaming of.com. Yes. Ooh. And I want, oh, that's really cool. This is, um, what is this little guy called? I forget what he's called. Stevie. That guy, I forgot too. I need to look. I don't have a picture of him. But do you have the list? Wow. No, but you don't have the paper. Yeah. That one's not my book. This one's not in your book. This is adorable. It's adorable. Wait a minute. I want to read it. I want to read it. I want to read it. I want to read it. I want to read it. I want to read it. I will tell you what that is. You keep telling me what it looks like. It's got the antenna. Tell me about it. It looks like a little tiny, um, uh, like a minion shaped thing with dilly bops on top. Oh, it's the Amigo. Ah, this is adorable. This is adorable. Thank you, Jenny. Adorable. It's the Amigo. The Amigo is the cutest little, wonderful, powerful vibrator I've ever seen. And this one, there are three different ones. They come in three different colors. They only do. Um, they do. This Amigo, listen, very powerful. Very powerful. And he's got little vibrating antennas that go up and underneath of your clit. So it's small, it's powerful. It's really fucking cute. You could have this in your purse. If somebody found it, they wouldn't think anything of it. Oh gosh, no. And, um, I'm going to tell everybody what I just learned recently is that when you're using a, a, what do you call these things? Uh, pocket vibes. Pocket vibrator. Um, it's best not to use lubrication. The vibration is designed to go on the top of the hood of your clit or underneath of it without lube. The lube desensitizes the vibration. Get out of town. I didn't know that. I did. I just learned that myself. So get the Amigo at the screamingo.com. Tell them that Ginger Lynn sent you. Nina Hartley's right here with me. We're not going any, oh, now it's really going. Stevie's here. We're going. I'm going to put this in Stevie's butt. Oh, it looks like a little butterfly. Bend over. Little butterfly head. Or cute little pink snail. I'm putting this. Pink snail. Yes. A pink snail. I'm bending over. All right. Sweet PST. You're on the line. We'll get you in just one second. We're not going anywhere. Go to the screamingo.com. We will be right back. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. Thanks so much for joining us and we'll see you shortly. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. a little problem here. I have not. So the person with the strap on, was she driving the fuck so you fucked the girl with your dick because you were being fucked with the strap on? No, I was licking another girl's pussy so no one was fucking my dick at the time. Oh, so your dick was not... In somebody. I got it. Okay, so you were licking pussy while you got fucked in the ass. That was your first time. Yeah. That sounds awesome. Do we have a clarity? Do we have a... Okay, well, hold on. Wait a minute. I'm just learning all of the sounds here. I think I have found the right one. Are you talking to me? Nope. Nope. Oh, nope. Stop crying, you sniveling ass. Stop. You're nuts. One of them is going to be the clapping. Yay. Oh, wait. I know where that is. Hold on. There we go. Jenny just moved to the clapping. Okay. There we go. Yes. There we go. Sweet pea. Yay for sweet pea. Sweet pea. What is going on? Thank you. And so the first time, so that was the first time. That was the first time receiving. Now, the first time that you gave or... Do you give anal sex? You could be the pitcher. You know, this cat be pitching and catching. Do you call give it? Do you give anal? Yeah. What was the first time you penetrated somebody's ass that was not your own? That was... That was a great time, too. But the more thing is that I like to have a woman ride my cock rather than me give a doggy style, basically. Right. Oh, it's very comfortable. It's sometimes the way, you know, it bothers my, the top of my hips, basically, when I get a doggy style sometimes. Oh, wait. So you like anal? Cowgirl anal. Cowgirl anal. Yes. Oh. But also, you know, he's a bit submissive. That makes him more the sex toy. Her sex, her sex doll versus someone who's dominating. So, you know, he's not dominating her ass. She is commanding that he pleasure her ass and she's using him for her pleasure. Oh, okay. That makes sense. What was more enjoyable, you think, getting it in the ass or giving it? That's... I would like getting it in the ass more, basically. There you go. When you think about it, when you're receiving penetration, the condom issue isn't as important because, you know, if you're wearing the condom and fucking, the part of you that's in her is going to be a little bit numb. But if you are receiving penetration, your nerve endings are uncovered. They're uncovered, right. And it's a toy and a condom, so what the heck do you care? Exactly. And it doesn't care either. Exactly. Exactly. As a woman, I definitely enjoy receiving anal sex much more so than giving it. And, you know, I don't know. And that's not that I don't like to give anal sex or I don't like to perform it or I don't like to put a strap on. I'm just not good at it. You're just a girl. Lay down, darling. I'll drive. You're going to have to drive. Oh, boo-hoo-hoo. Wah, wah, wah. Yes, honey? I can't wait to receive the badge of honor, so to speak, because I won the badge that you had recently online. Oh! That's great. That's right. I pulled it today, so it'll be going out tomorrow. It had been a while, so I forgot where I put it. My badge of honor. Oh. Sweet Pea likes... I sell things on eBay, very special things that are one of a kind. Right. You know, I've got gingerlynauctions.com where I sell my panties and your panties and different pieces of memorabilia from girls in the industry, but my SAG cards and different badges that I've received... Oh, how fun. ...and things that are really special, I put up on eBay, so... You should do that because I have all these backstage passes and things and I just throw them out. I just never think... I sign them and then I... You're so smart. You're so smart. I'm just so not business-oriented like that. Just throw them in a bucket. Come over. I'll take your picture with them. There you go. We'll be just fine. So, Sweet Pea, you will be getting that any day now. That is going to be in your precious little hands. Thank you so much, honey. Thank you so much. And whenever... Hopefully your film is finished, you know? Can I get a... Any chance I can get a copy of it? You can absolutely get a copy of it. The only thing I can tell you about it is the name. The word house is in the title. I've been asked not to say anything else because... I can't wait. ...they want to make a big announcement. Do they hope to have it out before the end of the year? I don't know. Because editing is a bitch and all. Editing is a lot and we're shooting in August, so I... Sounds like 2015 to me. Sounds like 2015 to me, too. I don't know how quickly they can edit, you know? You never know. Some people are fast. Also, I forget. There used to be that pornography was shot on video and digital and movies were still shot on film. Now movies are shot on digital. On digital, yes. And then turned to look like film. Exactly. So... Exactly. Duh. It's quick for them, too. How many shooting days total, do you know? I have no idea. I have no idea, but I'm only in, like, a quarter of the script, so I'm going to guess that it's probably a few weeks. Okay. Okay. Probably a few weeks. I thought we'd get to get... We get to know you a bit. You're going to get to know me a little bit more. I know. I'm so excited. Yay. Sweet Pea, thank you for calling in, honey, and you absolutely will get a copy when it comes out. I will let you know. I'm going to kiss Nina's nipple for you right now. Hold on. Are you allowed? Oh, may I? No, no, no. You're allowed. Of course, you're always allowed. You have free access to my body. I'm talking about is it allowed? Oh, yeah. Oh, cool. Oh, yeah. Kisses to you both. Mmm. Oh. It's so good. Suck on it like your earlobe sucked on. Oh, fuck. That's good. Oh, my God. She's just got just enough tooth, just enough tug, just enough... Oh, my God. If you just think of a nipple as another clitoris, you'll have a better idea. And you just gave me the right idea. Suck on it like I like mine because I like my titty stuff and a little bit more aggressively. Oh, no. I like that. Oh, yeah. And I scare people off, so I have to be careful. All right. Well, I just sucked Nina Harley's nipple just for you, sweet pea. That was in your honor. It's like having three clits sometimes. Love you both. Thank you. We love you too, baby. Thank you. I can't come from having my nipples played with, but it's like having three clits sometimes. It feels so... I love it. It instantly makes me very happy. And I stay happy for as long as you do it. A really great way that's harder with the acrylic nails, but if you have natural nails, sometimes pinching, people pinch too hard. So a nice move I like to do is my nail and put it in the end of the nipple and sort of press in. Oh. So just, you're not pinching, but you're pressing. You're pressing into inverting the nipple almost. Inverting the nipple with your nail and then sort of lifting it up a little bit and it feels like... Oh, that's weird. Isn't that crazy? Yeah. It's not bad. That's weird. It's weird. You... Okay. I know you. That's weird. I don't know if I like it or not. The secret to pinching, though, is also to pinch far back on the... People pinch just the nipples. That you can twiddle. I call it twiddling like a spitball. Right. But you're gonna pinch, pinch the areola. Oh. Because this can take a lot more. Did you breastfeed? Yeah. Okay. So, you know, he didn't just suck here. He put his... He put his mouth on the whole areola. Yeah. Yeah. This you can do, but this you don't have as much leeway before... And it doesn't feel nearly as good. It feels really good. Well, no. The secret, if you have long enough nipples, just think of spitballs. And wadding them up into spitballs? Wadding them up into spitballs. Ladies, if you want to train your man to touch your nipples exactly right, play with his ear... Pinch his earlobes the way you like your nipples played with or pinch his earlobes while he's pinching a nipple and tell him to copy what you're doing. Do the same thing. Do the same thing. That's a brilliant idea. Yeah, because they... Oh, right. Yeah, I get it. There's... You've had... You've had all kinds of lovemaking where it's completely mutual. I'm a virgin. Yeah, you totally are. You're a virgin today. And a person can tell... You can tell if someone's touching titties versus your titties. Versus, oh my God, tits. Versus, oh, these tits belong to a person. Yes. And so same thing with boobies, pussy, clits, ass. It's like, you can do a whole lot to my body if I can tell you're paying attention to my body, not... I call it pussy fever. Right. It's like, hello, someone's attached to it. I get that you really like being in pussy as a concept and this is a real one. So look up a little and just connect with the owner. I'm here. I'm here in the room with you. And... And... It's not... It's not... It's not... It's not a detachable pussy. It's not a detachable pussy and I know most men want to be pleasing partners. They want to be good in bed. They want you to want them back. They want you to ask them back. They want you to refer them to their friends. And there is an algorithm that you have to do between how to translate your honest enthusiasm, your, oh, your key, your yang, your man thing, out to her in a way that makes her go, ooh, hot, hot, power and control, passion and attention because your strength and your ability to go all night means nothing if you're not connecting with me. Exactly. I could just be a blow-up doll. It's like, wow, seriously? Well, and that just goes back to the point when if I'm mad at you, I'm not going to have an orgasm. No. I'm just not. If I'm too tired, I'm just not going to have an orgasm no matter how hard you try no matter how good you are. Men don't know how easy we are as women to satisfy. We really are. It doesn't take a whole lot. Just pay a little bit of attention to us. Tell us we're pretty. Touch the back of our necks. Give us a kiss. Put your arms around us. And also, honestly, learn the anatomy of vulvas in general and your partners in particular because it's not rocket science. But again, you can tell if someone is poking you versus stroking you. We just had a segment we did last week, Stevie, right? On the pussy. Was that Wednesday or Thursday last week? We went through every single detail of the inner labia, the outer labia, the G-spot, the clit. I think it was the week before. Maybe it was the week before, but we just went through in minute detail every single portion of the pussy. Even Stevie is now a pussy pro. That's great. Because it's just, once you know, it's like working on your car. Once you know all the parts of the engine and have the right tools, you can tune up your engine. Once you know the parts of a vulva and have your tools, in my case, it's going to be lube, toys, gloves, and baby wipes. Once you have your tools, you can tune up any pussy. Exactly. And you cannot, and a Corvette is tuned differently from a 57 Chevy, is tuned differently from a Ford F-150, is tuned differently from a Maserati. All the parts are the same. Carburetor, spark plugs, pistons, et cetera, et cetera. But they still tune differently. And you need slightly different tools and a slightly different book. And if you try to tune a Corvette to the same tolerances as a 57 Chevy, you're going to have a problem. Well, and you're going to have a big problem. Yes, it's not going to run. It's not going to work. Right. And now going back to anal sex. Anal sex. My first time. And then we can talk about fine tuning because we've got to hold it. My first time giving was a finger in the butt. With my boyfriend. And that was like, by then I was 20. He was 40. And he was good at receiving pleasure. He was really, so he just let me do my blowjob. Now, were you sucking his dick and then you just slipped your finger inside? So I was sucking his, he was on his back, we're on his bed. I was sucking his dick, playing with his balls. And I was just stroking his taint. And he didn't clench his knees together. Right. And bat my hand away. So it's like, I'm especially at that time, I'm just going to go forward and not have a negotiation. I didn't have a problem. I had a plan. I'm going to go for his ass. Right. But I always have a plan. I'm going to go, I'm going to make them feel good until they tell me to stop. Exactly. I don't care where that goes. So eventually, that was tickling the outside of the opening, the aperture, while I sucked his dick and stroked it. And then slowly, it took, from the time I finally brushed the sphincter to getting my finger in all the way to the final knuckle and tickling his prostate and getting him off, that took about 10 minutes. 10 minutes. 10 minutes. 10 minutes. 10 minutes. 10 minutes. Of just feeling him relax around me, relax, work his breathing, relax a bit more. You can tell the first time he never had anything in his ass either. It was my first time. It was just a single finger and just so, he just naturally did work together. I listened to his body and he was in, he was doing enough meditation and human potential, so he was working on his breath and his, you know, trying to relax around it and receive more. Wait, I'm going to breathe in. And relax my ass. When I breathe out, shove your finger up my ass. Exactly. And by the time, so by the time I got my finger all the way in and tickled his prostate, that was, that was it. That was it. It was pretty hot and we never did it again and we never talked about it either. Oh, really? Never talked about it and he never returned the favor because I wasn't, I couldn't relax with him enough. So, my first time receiving anal sex with a penis was my first husband and we had done some fingering stuff and he had a really big fat head on his cock, the kind that once it's in, it does not easily slip out. But, the shaft was of a normal size and so, But getting that, getting that head in hurts. And so, we did, we only did it two or three times total in 20 years together and missionary was the best because, I love missionary anal. Because it let me relax into the bed instead of having to hold myself up. I could touch my vulva. And you can spread your legs. Spread your legs. I could touch my vulva. I could touch my clit, eye contact and actually, the first time was hot and very sweet. One of the few, one of the nice times we had together. Before the sex went completely downhill and never came back. But, so, if that was, I started making porn in 84, maybe in 85. Oh, really? You didn't have, so, you did porn before you had anal sex? Right. And my first anal sex on camera was Richard Pacheco in Anal Annie Can't Say No. And, it was really one of the nicest scenes ever. Swedish erotica style, neck scarf, blue eye shadow. Oh, yeah. The Swedish erotica style. The Swedish erotica style. The Swedish erotica style. The Swedish erotica style. The Swedish erotica style. The Swedish erotica style. The Swedish erotica style. The Swedish erotica style. And then the next scarf, right. The Swedish erotica, next scarf, right, totally. Love that. And his wife was a sex therapist and she had a set of dilators. And so, the whole scene was small one. So, on camera, he warmed my butt up. And then he has a nice, normal penis. So, on camera, it looks small. Okay, right. Because he's statistically average. Right. But perfect for anal. And actually, my only cream pie was, my first and last cream pie was, my first and last cream pie was my first anal. He said, I am not pulling out. And then, and then, but the best part was the ice chips he stuck in my butt after. He had ice chips next to the bed. That felt so good. Anal Annie can't say no. No, Anal Annie and the Willing Husbands. Were you, Anal Annie and the Willing Husbands was Richard Pacheco with my first ever anal. I don't even know it's on DVD yet. But that was, and then, I didn't do it again. And, um, for years, my second attempt was with Shawn Michaels in, um, uh, Back to Our Housewives 14, the Cinderella series. Didn't see it. Anyway, it was pretty, it was a bad attempt because he was new in the business, so he wasn't yet Shawn fucking Michaels. Right. He was a new guy who was a nice guy. And it was his second orga, second set of scene of the day and we were using a condom. I'm not quite sure why. Um, and so it was, it was, it was an unsatisfactory as, as both a sexual experience and a film scene. Oh, I hate that. And it took us 15 years to finally do it right within season players, uh, 12 for, uh, Tommy Byron. That was our first, um, anal as I, that rocked. Then you did it the right way. The right way. Um, yeah, but the first anal with Shawn Michaels was like, oh, geez. Oh, no. No, sorry. I felt like such a cheat because, you know, you buy the movie, you know, Nina Hardy's first anal in a gazillion years and it was just like, eh, not, not so much. What do we have here, Ginger? Well, we're going to talk more about first times and anal sex when we come back from the break, but what we have here right now is the Color Pop 2-0. This is from the Screaming O and what this is is there is a circle in the center. This is the ring that goes around your cock and what's really cool about this one is there are two vibrators. Yes. There's one that goes on the bottom. Now, you can put this at the base of your cock and you can put this one at the top of your cock or you can pull the whole thing down so that the second vibrator goes below your balls. What's going to happen is it's going to, yeah. Cool, cool, cool. I get it. It's going to stimulate your balls. Your whole cock is going to vibrate and it's going to make it feel like, you know, I bet this would work and your balls. The vibrator, because if you do this, her clit and her taint will be getting buzzed. They both will as well as his. So it's, I just had that. I just had the, what would this do if you made this not into a cock ring but a ball stretcher? So put your nutsack, both balls through this so you have one buzzer. That's what I was trying to say. Yeah, so you have one on top and then you put this around so you've got the balls through the holes as well. So your whole cock and balls through the thing. Oh, everything. But you can also probably put just your balls through. Oh. So the buzzer would be at the base of your dick and her taint and, oh, so three ways. This can be used three different ways. As a standalone cock ring, as a cock and ball ring or just, I bet it would, you have to have the kind of nuts that hang down a bit. You have the tight, high Peter North balls they would pop off. No, because his balls. Stevie, get your balls out. I can put my balls out on the radio? We won't look. Yeah, right. Do it under the table. Oh, no, don't make it that terrible. You're terrible, dude. What you can do is you could also, come to think of it, put it just halfway down his shaft and then use a condom on top of it to hold it in place. It's all kinds of weird. Just to see what that would be like. For sure. You could do a million different things with this. It's wonderful. Or put it down, not even halfway, right behind the head and then put a condom and then fuck her in the butt. Ooh. Yeah. I didn't even think of that. We're going to get creative. So, Screaming O has so many fun toys that if you and your partner are right for each other, you'll just look at this and be, you know what, let's try this. That's great. Let's try that one. Nina and I are going to be trying out some toys later on today so don't go anywhere. Is this also for cocks? That's for your tongue. Get out. Or wait, is that for your tongue? Is that the lingo or the fingo? It looks like a fingo. That's the fingo. That's the fingo. Okay. Yeah, that one goes on your finger. Got it, got it, got it. Okay. And then you turn it on. Sure, you, oh, either of you. Isn't that nice? So many wonderful things. Go to the screamingo.com. We'll be right, we'll be right back here on Blame It On Ginger. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. figured out if I put it in my butt, I can't have babies. How Catholic of you. We started having anal sex in the bathroom at high school. That's the first time it was in the girls bathroom. And I remember the black girls used to all go in the bathroom and they would stand back there and they would smoke pot. Right, right. I was walking with my boyfriend going to a stall. No, they would just call me a dumb bitch and ignore me. So my first anal sex was never anything that was uncomfortable for me or painful for me. It was just something that was a necessity. Right. Now while you were getting fucked in the ass, did you think to rub your clit? Did it occur to you? I don't remember to tell you the truth. I'd like to say that I probably did. But I don't remember. I've always enjoyed anal sex. The first time I had anal sex on film though was funny. I agreed to do it and then I changed my mind when I got there. And our business is considered bad form. Yes. And they were paying me five times my normal rate to have anal sex. And so I got there and I'm like, it was with Jerry Butler and I'm like... Oh, he had a normal human life. Yeah. And I said, I'm not doing it. I'm sorry. I've changed my mind. I'm not going to have anal sex. And I've had anal sex a million times. Today your butt said no. I just said no. And so the director ran out and bought me a bottle of Jack Daniels and the next thing I know I've got dick in my ass. And Jerry Butler's standing there eating a carrot. I was the one that had Jerry Butler's dick. Again, it was Eric Edwards, Jerry Butler, and Richard Pacheco all had human-sized penises. But on camera that made them look quote-unquote small. But in real life it's like, oh, very friendly. Again, goes everywhere, does what needs to do, isn't going to hurt. So at least it didn't hurt. Although it was Jack Daniels. Did you even feel it? I don't remember. You got it. I don't remember. Okay. Oh my God, they took advantage of you. They got you drunk. They got me drunk, yeah. You had whiskey butt. I'll take a bottle of Jack Daniels. Jack Daniels, and then I'll take a dick in my ass, please. But anal sex is not something that you just want to jump into. It's not something that I'm recommending anybody go and drink Jack Daniels before you do it. She was a professional. Yes, I was, and I am a professional. But there are some pretty basic rules for having anal sex that I want to go over with you. The first thing I want to do, before you know, to go from zero to dick is a big thing. So when Ernest and I got together, we went on an anal training regimen because I hadn't had anal sex at that point over 10 years. The finger in my butt during doggy, never a problem. The thumb in the butt during doggy always felt good. Up to the first knuckle, very effective. It stretches the sphincter nicely. Not very deep. Super, super sensitive. I agree. But Ernest and I went and used Tristan Taramino's book, Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex Women, and trained my butt. Tristan Taramino. Taramino. T-A-O Taramino. T-A-O-R Taro Minos. Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. A great book for couples who want to become a good anal sex team because Ernest, to quote his book, he likes girls' butts, and girls' butts know it. And so he was an excellent anal training partner because A, he respects girls' butts. He's had a lot of experience. Right. And he respects the fact that I didn't. So it took about six weeks. The secret to anal training is to, we do something with my butt every time we fuck, even if his dick's not in there. Oh, you do. So we do butt plugs. There's always attention paid to my butt. So it's not like, and now anal sex night. It's like, you know what? Oh, she's greedier today than usual. Maybe we can go there. Right. Versus, okay, she's happy but not like hungry. Right. And sometimes, and you can't, sometimes my butt's like, you know what? I do need something bigger than a toy. Mm-hmm. And you bat your eye. And he's never gonna say, no, I will not fuck my wife's ass. Of course he's gonna fuck my ass. But he, and our agreement is, he can play with my ass whenever he wants, but he can't fuck it till it wants. His job is to get my ass in the mood, and my job is to relax and let it happen if it can. You guys have a really healthy, happy, honest, open relationship. Well, just like you and your man do. Yeah, yeah, but it's just really refreshing to hear it because I don't hear it a lot. And I think it's sad. The people that I hang around with, for the most part, are all people that are open-minded. Right. But I do run into civilians on a daily basis. Sure. And there are conversations that I would never have with civilians. I know. And there are people that are in civilian relationships that I just feel bad about. Yeah. I was at the grocery store the other day, and some guy looked at my tits, and his wife punched him. And it was just like... Partly he's punched him because she's angry, he's looking, and partly she's punched him because, hey, he's thinking that you won't like that. But mainly she's just angry, and that's just terrible. You can't have... Oh, jeez. Oh, jeez. Yeah. So it's good to have an open, honest, healthy relationship, and I think that you and I are good examples of what that can be. And it's not perfect by any means. But everyone's happy is going to look different, but it will feel the same. It will feel happy. You know? And my happy is not your happy. Our happies overlap a lot. They do. But still, they're not the same. But your man always treats your butt with respect, and your butt knows it can trust him, so it can relax and enjoy the good time. Because you know, and I know, that our men will never violate our butt trust. Ever. No. The only time that I get violated... My prior agreement. And this is, and Nick actually has a coupon for this. He's got a coupon. A coupon. Is during oral sex. Nick is allowed to grab me by the back of the head, shove my head down. Oh, yeah. You know, there's going to be one time where he shoves it down too far, and I'm not going to tap out in time, and I'm going to hurl on him, but... Oh, well. He'll have to learn the hard way. It was close last night. I get it. Yeah, totally, totally. Oh, Stevie, what about you, anal sex? What... Are you... Do you like giving it better, or... Or receiving it? Well, it depends. If I want to... There's something new that's going on. So, I... If I want to come, I have to be giving it. Usually. Cool. If I want to come, you need to be the one fucking... You little top, you. But with the toy, I remember using the toy, and I came using it, with it, anally, and I was surprised. But then, the last guy I was with, I was working so hard to get there, that I came and I never felt it. You told me about that. Yeah. With a condom, I can totally... Oh, yes. With a condom. I can totally see how that would just... You had that fluffy bed, and I was really having to work to get there, and then he told me I came, and I was like, no, I didn't, because I'm trying to get there. I'm trying to get where everything feels good, because I'm doing all the work here. And, um, boom. If the bed's fluffy, stick his ass on the end and stand on the floor. Well, I kind of said... We never went over the thing of that. We never went over the thing of that. That list of things to never say while having sex. Got it. And I was like, oh, wait a minute. I go, if I'm not going to feel this, then why am I even doing this? Yep. Did you say that? And I never heard from him again. So I had to think about it, and I went, oh, that should be on the list. That's on the list of things not to say during sex. Oh, but it wasn't like I said, you're terrible, I didn't feel it. It was just like, I was questioning myself. I was like, you know, if I'm doing this and I'm not feeling it, why am I doing this? You know? And I guess he took it. Personally. Personally, yeah. But yeah, that is true, because it's, yeah, I get it. I get it. I couldn't relax and just have him take over so that I could think about doing, you know. So if you're using a toy anally, are you hard and jerking off? It's weird, yeah. It does work that way. I have a friend that when he's into his ass, his dick is soft. And if he's into his dick, his ass doesn't want penetration. So for him, it's either or. It's either dick-centric or ass-centric. I drip, too. Hot. I mean, take me back to high school. You do what? I even, like, drip. I get so turned on. You know how you can get, so pre-cum. Oh, you pre-cum drip. I pre-cum like crazy. That's so hot. And that hasn't happened for so long. That hardly ever happens in porn, because the men don't get, they get hard, but they're not aroused. That's the biggest difference that there is in real sex and home sex. And that's another reason why I think that I get turned on and that my pussy gets wet when I'm sucking cock is because I need that lead up and that turn on and that time to get excited. And I think that most women do. My pussy may be wet at any given moment. That doesn't mean that I'm always horny. Right. I mean, you and I are lucky and Stevie, too, that we're always, we're the kind of women that the topic of sex is never a bad topic. So it doesn't make us angry or pissy or moany or sad or whatever to talk about sex. So that puts us in the top 10% of the female population, because most, people, because of the culture, they need to be in the mood to talk about sex. Forget even being in the mood to have it. In the mood to contemplate it, think about it, meditate on it, discuss it. Most people don't discuss sex. They really don't. They'll be, even girls, like, they'll giggle and, you know, we did this and we did that. But to actually sit down and have a real conversation about, okay, I want to have anal sex. How do we go there? From there to there with my, Ernest and me, it was six weeks. It took six weeks, but we had the goal that we would like to get your penis into my butt in a pleasurable manner. And sure enough, six weeks into it, with the regular sex going on, we had, and now it's a regular part of our sex life. You just incorporated it. Oh yeah. We became a team. While it is still viewed as somewhat exotic by many people in society, anal sex is by no means uncommon. A study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that 40% of women, 40% of women between the ages of 20 and 24 had tried anal sex at least once as had 11% of men in that range as a bottom. So as a bottom, 11% of men tried, which is fantastic, and 40% of women have tried anal sex in the age range of 20 to 24. I think that's very healthy. Performing as a top in an anal sexual situation, despite the possibility of a sore penis resulting, has a far more appeal for men, and so that it's no wonder that this once scorned form of sexual engagement is increasingly popular. However, to ensure safety for both partners and good penis health for the men, there are several tips, safety tips to remember. Number one, number one, what? Have the discussion. Stevie, what's the discussion? I'm fast. You know, there's not much of a discussion. I just pull the lube out and the condom out and I'm ready to go, but I don't have to talk about it like, you know, I want to do this. Oh, my book. I have to go to that land. Okay. I thought we were talking about our personal lives here. I get it. So if you're, you know, two gay men together, even though a lot of gay men don't actually like anal sex, they prefer drinking off or oral or other things. Even, it's still a conversation you have to have. Like, do you like to be on top? Do you like to do, so as a pitcher, do you want to be cowgirl or active? As a receiver, do you like to, you know, Oh, it hasn't been much talk. With me, it's like a lot of eye contact. Oh, cool. I have to check out the tool that I'll be working with. Yes, of course. And then, if it's just too big, okay, then I have a talk. Then I say, you need to go slow. You need to, or let me, if I don't talk about it, I'll just lay him on his back. And then I'll work everything so that I'm in control of how fast it's going. But if it's a nice size, and I'm like, okay, that's not going to kill me. I'll just put the condom on, bend over myself, and then let him do his thing. But that's not negotiating. So before the date, have you warmed your butt up with a plug or a toy or fingers or flush yourself out with a butt rinse just to make sure that it's fine? If I had people, like, lined up, ready to go. But I don't. It's so on the fly that I never know. So there's times where some guy's raring for it, and I'm like, you know, this is not a good time. And I can't negotiate. You know, just let me disappear for 10 minutes, come back and be ready. Because then all of a sudden, he's out of the mood. Why'd you go for 10 minutes? What'd you have to do? You guys are weird like that. How about, sweetheart, why don't you sit here and jerk off to this hot porn for 10 minutes? I'm going to make myself fresh and pretty for you. I'll be right back. It's never in a nice spot where somebody's posting. Oh, boo. All my sex happens. Maybe he's in an alley. I'm in the alley. Oh, oh, oh. On somebody else's car or behind a tree. He's in the backseat. You're such a single boy. You're such a single man. It's like, where it is. All the single dudes, all the single dudes. Although I ended up at some guy's house. Some guy tried to pick me up. I thought he might be rolling up on me this weekend. He said his wife was calling the whole time, and he took me back to the house. He was flirting with me, hugging me, you know. Told me how men were more sensual. And I was like, men are more sensual? What do you mean? He goes, well, I think. And then I was like, okay. And he poured me a little wine. And the whole time I'm waiting for his wife, who's been calling, like, where are you? Why aren't you home? To come out to say hello. To go, hi. He wasn't with a girl. He was with me. Which is kind of worse, but you know. Don't worry. He's not fucking a girl. We were walking up the street together. We're talking to the guy. You probably know that. Yeah, I assume this, but he was like, he never made a movie of these great, this great Elvira red couch. And we chatted the whole time. There's kids high chairs and things everywhere. And he told me he just had a son. And I see the pictures on the fridge. So I'm like, why am I here? Why are you flirting with me in the kitchen? I know your wife is here somewhere, but she hasn't come out and met me yet. She's in the house? She's in the house. She could come with a guy. I would say, you know what? I have to go. I didn't know what was going on. This clearly wasn't negotiated with you and guys in advance. I have to go now. I talked to her on the phone because she had called and I had to talk, you know, I grabbed the phone. I said, look, I saw, I saw your husband. I told him I took pictures. I liked his hat. He's got, he's Aries. He has this great leather wristband on with the star constellations for that in there. And I just thought, you know, we started chatting and that's why he's not home at 2.15. It's 2.30 because we've been talking as we're walking up the street. And then I said, you know, he invited me over. So I said, you know, you'll meet me. He's not with a girl. And then when I came in, she never came out. And then it just, it just became this other strange thing. Yeah. Did you have sex? No, he kept, he gave me wine and then we talked some more. And then I looked at some of his drawings. Everything was very dark. A lot of iron, like candle holders, black. Gothic. Yeah, very gothic. And then he had a witch ball hanging from the chandelier that they got in Salem, Massachusetts. And then there was this cabinet with skulls in it. There was a skull with a praying mantis on it. And then I realized there's a little skipper butterfly. Oh my. And I'm like, there's a skipper butterfly in there. And it was alive. I looked at it and I thought, that's alive. And he goes, yeah, I just caught it. So I put it in there to die peacefully. And then I was like, where am I? Right. Where are you? What am I doing here? This is kind of a little weird. And he had all the Wicca books. Oh, wow. And he, like, there was a lot of horror stuff in there, but a lot of stuff on Wicca. And as I was leaving, he kept giving me hugs. And I was like, okay, dude, is your wife showing up? Is this like, did you bring me home for three way? Why didn't you just drop down to me? Why didn't you just go to your knees and suck his dick? Because the wife was there and I didn't know. I couldn't feel it. I really couldn't feel it out. I get it. No, for sure. It was so confusing because he was very open and inviting and huggy. We hear all this about men being more direct, but not always. This one was very, I mean, I was ready. I was, but I made myself available and open, but I also, he, once somebody lays a boundary down, you can't play the game with me of like, I'm straight and you're going to want me. You can't say I'm married and I'm straight because then I go, that's an obvious boundary. And I'm not going to cross it. Two of them. I've learned my lesson crossing those. So if you want me to play this game, I can't. But anyways, I, the whole point of that was, and he got me water. He ran up to us, got a nice little tiki glass, gave me the water. I said, let me drink this and give it back to you. He goes, no, keep it. So and I have a cool tiki cup and some confusion on that. But he's going to invite me over for dinner. He said, I like to have dinners. I like to cook. Do you like to eat? And I said, yeah. Do you like to eat? I'm human. Yeah. That's good. I'm not human. Well, there's some basic rules and I'm going to start with my number one rule when it comes to anal sex. I'm not going to go by the list. I just told you that it's much more common than it used to be. You're going to go to the second, the first one, which is called the discussion. I want you to read the discussion on the other side of the page. Oh, okay. Before that, cleanliness. I'm not always prepared. If I'm going to, if I'm thinking that I'm going to have a I'm not a pre, I don't do enemas. I don't do them. I don't prep my ass at all. I don't stretch my ass out at all. I don't do anything. The most that I will do is maybe I have these little syringes that you put lube in and they go into your butt so that the lube can go directly into your asshole. That's about as much preparation as I'm going to do when I have anal sex, except for cleanliness. I'm going to make sure that it's clean. If I'm not prepping, I'm not going to do anything. If I didn't know that I was going to have anal sex, I'm going to go into the bathroom and I'm going to wash that shit up. I'm going to take soap. I'm going to get it on my hands and wash everything. And not just the outside. I'm going to get my finger up in there because I don't know about you, but if you've ever put your finger in somebody's butthole, it comes out. Interesting. There's a sweetness. Oh, sweetness. That I have not experienced. A clean ass. It's a nice clean ass. Yeah, you want it to it shouldn't have, it should be, it should be clean, it should be fresh. It should be, there should be no odor, no dingleberries. Right. I have no hair, so that's the first thing. The cling tooth, that's good. And also, hair. If you're a man and you enjoy things in your butt, you want girls to lick your butt, you want to be played with around your asshole, have that stuff cleaned up. You can use Nair. Oh, not near your butt. No, that'll take the skin off. It will? I've Nair'd my pussy. That's different. You have a bionic pussy, though. But no, I've Nair'd my pussy, but I've never Nair'd near my butt, so. What? Okay. It depends on the person's skin and their sensitivity. Stevie, we have a comment just for you. Just for me. Just for you. Sarah, you're on the air. My name is Ashley Renee Michelle, and I'm calling from Queens, New York. Hi. Hello, Renee Michelle. Renee Michelle and I have been talking on the internet. Oh. Hi. Hi. Hello. I just wanted to tell your little friend there that he needs to throw that glass out. Did you what? Wait, I missed that. No, no, no. So he needs to grow that grass out? I said he needs to throw the little glass that the guy gave him out. Oh, throw that glass out. Oh, she knows, because I thought about this. No, no, no. Renee's a Wiccan. I thought about it. Renee is Wiccan. I thought, did he put something in this? Take the glass, put it in a black bag, like a little black bag or whatever black bag. You have in your house. Okay. Take it to the nearest dumpster, throw it in there, and walk away. Okay. Because whatever he's giving you, he's holding on to you. Oh. Don't just do some people like that. Yeah. Renee, Renee, Renee, Renee. He's feeling all over your energy. He's feeling all over you, and he's trying to pick up your energy. He's holding on to you. Don't do that. That's something else. That's not what you were there for, and that's why your spirit was never easy while you were there. Don't do that. Oh. Throw it away. Throw it away. Thank you so much. Thank you, Renee. You are the best. I'm really fortunate. I had to call because I'm sitting here listening to you guys. I have, you know, I've done anal sex, but it was with a partner that I loved, and, you know, I was with for a long time. You know, I was listening to your whole conversation, but when you said that, I said, oh, I got to call and tell this boy. He's got to get rid of that. He's got to get rid of that. Okay. Okay, yeah. I was curious because when he went up to get the water, I kept going, this is so weird, and then I thought, did he put anything in the water? No. What was this? Delete his number, baby. Delete his number. Don't, never go into his number, and then that way you'll always know if something happens. Okay. Thank you so much, Renee. Thank you. I remember James. That's the guy that had the butterfly in the case. Yeah. This guy who had the, I don't know what it was about. There was something with butterflies, and I met one that was troubled before that brought me a butterfly that sat on my hand while I drank tea all evening. It was really bizarre, and it was a magical. It was a magical moment, and I was like, something's going on. You have some things going on with you that you don't realize, and people pick up on that, and you need to be very careful to those people. You know what I'm going to do tonight is I'm going to read Stevie's cards. I haven't. I just started reading tarot cards in the last couple of months. I've got a role coming up in a movie, and years ago I practiced Wicca forever, and it's been a long time since I've practiced, but I'm going to read Stevie's cards tonight. Do you have a Twitter, Renee? Yes, I do. Okay. Well, mine skip happy snaps, so if you could just like follow me and I follow you back, I'd be curious to hear some more things, but you know, if you hear something and you need to message me. You have a certain energy about you, and people that are not so positive will catch up on that. I've been trying to change that. There are a lot of dark people that gravitate towards me. Yeah, but you can never change that. I'm like that too. You can never change that. It's always going to happen. I will put you two in touch via Twitter. Okay. I'll do a Twitter intro. Twitter. A Twitter. Thank you, Renee Michelle. Thank you. I will see you online. Yeah, I'm sure. But let me tell you, she was saying a couple of things she was saying. One thing she said earlier, like I'm not going to have sex with you if I'm angry. I had a guy one time that I was dating, and I got pissed off at him for like two weeks. And we had sex. I was like, all right, yeah, we haven't had sex in two weeks. Right. We were trying to make up and all this stuff. I was mad. But he was the kind of guy that drank a lot. So he could go for a long time. You know, he got me to come. And that was the bomb. I'm really like, I was like, I'm like. I was at the point like this. I was just like this. I'm not going to say a word. I'm not going to make a sound. I'm not going to laugh. I'm not going to say nothing. I was mad. He went on. He was going on. He was like 20 minutes in. I'm like, oh, man. All of a sudden. You know, you get that tingling. I said, oh, man. No. It's too late. It's going to happen anyway. You're going over that edge. I'm not going to do that. So he goes. When it did, it was the bomb. I was like, okay. How long the bomb can last. Just don't make it. It's long enough to get through how pissed you are. Plus, yeah, I'm coming two weeks. So just don't make a habit of it. Thank you, Renee. I had another guy who gave me a drink once. I don't know what he put in it, but it bubbled up. He put. He was making. It was a cider. A little pear cider. Hey, you drank that? I drank that. I drank it. And it took me four years to get to get over that one. But it was very ugly. But I remember in the first beginning. There were things. Yeah. But he put something in there. It bubbled up. And I didn't know what it was. And I always wondered. Stevie, it's amazing. You are not dead. I'm so happy that you've lived through all your adventures. Dude. Oh, my gosh. Somebody saw me and they said I would end up in a dumpster. I'm seeing a laugh in that room because he's hilarious. He's hilarious. He's adorable. He loves him. And he's adorable. And he's adorable, Renee. You should see him. Oh, my goodness. He's too much. Too much. Yeah. If he shaved, he'd be carded. That's how youthful he is. He's 20. He's just. He's adorable. He's just. He's Ginger's. But I think we have to take a station break here. Renee. Thank you so much for calling in. Bye-bye. Love you. Bye-bye. Thank you. Bye-bye. Thank you. Bye. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. Thanks so much for having us. It vibrates itself off, though. Yeah, you have to get... Oh, it vibrates. As it's going, it vibrates right off of the tongue. Yep, you have to kind of practice with it. It's an incredible vibration. It's really strong. It's on my nipple, and it's making it harder and harder. It's really... But then it slides right off. It slides off. Well, tongues are pointed, and so they're thicker at the base than they are at the tip. It's easier to lick pussy with it on, because you can keep it... Yeah, so try out the lingo, L-I-N-G-O. It's at thescreamingo.com. That's crazy. And it is definitely wonderful for... And it's pussy purple. Pussy purple licking. It's for cock licking, ball licking, nipple licking, back of the neck licking, any part of the body. Oh, I bet that'd be good, the back of the neck. Back of the neck. It would be fabulous. Go to thescreamingo.com. Tell them Ginger Lynn sent you. We'll be right back here on Blame It on Ginger. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. We'll be right back. That is Ginger Lynn. That is Ginger Lynn. That is sort of like harmonious. That didn't sound half bad. That was very surprising. I'm not a singer. I'm not either. People don't pay me to sing. They pay me to shut up. That was The Bones out of Las Vegas. That is the title track of their song, What Would Ginger Do? That's the name of the album. That's great. That's so great. Oh, my God. That's adorable. I know. I know. So when did they first find you? in high school college i got a letter probably five or six years ago from a guy pat the tiglia wanting to know if he could buy the rights to one of my photos excuse me and i said yeah sure okay give me money here you here's the photo you ought to know i don't care what you do with it um and he said he was going to put an album out and i was going to be on the cover and it was and and then i never heard from him for years and then i get a case of cds that come in the mail oh fun and they put the album out and it's wonderful and you're on the cover and i'm on the cover oh yeah yeah i often call the bones the bones is the name of the band and the album is called what would ginger do love that ginger would probably suck your dick or she'll put her fingers in your ass or she'll lick your balls or she'll stick your or she'll hold your hair while you suck his balls you know what i think you're like me in a sexual situation you'll do what needs doing you'll look at the situation you'll ascertain what action is needed and do it i will i will now we were going to go on to more things to do with anal sex but you brought toys yes and i want to get do we have time for toys no we'll have to you in three weeks you have to wait but i can't but i know where all right you'll have to just tell me i have to your man tonight okay okay all right honey i have to come home and you tonight darn oh damn it jim damn it but um so uh on wednesday if people go to sexual freedom summit dot org they will be able to find out where i'll be this next uh week and um they can come see me in person buck angel will be there because he's also on the board for our show and i just want to just say thank you to our show and our show and our of the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance. And there's workshops on sex work and trans and inclusion and sex with disabilities and masturbation and politics and art and relationships. And then I think Friday night we're having a, I think the Rocky Horror Show. Oh, how fun. Thursday's Rocky Horror Fridays is Bubbles and Burlesque and Saturday is I think a cigar bar hosted by, this will be in DC. Oh, shoot. I was like, I wanna go. Next year. And Buck will be, of course, the host of Cigar Bar because Buck is a big old cigar daddy. Is he? He is. You could see, you know, Buck has that little goatee and the shaved head and big fat cigar. I've never seen him with a cigar. And the leather pants and then the biceps and the leather straps and then he's got his arms, the tribal tattoos. It's like, you're so hot. He is hot. I've only seen him in pictures. Yeah, he's hot. And in person, he's the nicest guy. Cannot wait to get him here on a Monday with Ernest and just, and just, they'll be pull the rip cord and you'll have to say, no, we must stop for a break. We must stop. Because. But keep the cameras rolling. We'll just do a show with no breaks. He and Buck, Buck's amazing. Buck is, you know, probably a little bit about Buck's story, but he's someone who was this close to self release and got his life turned around. Realized that he had to stop trying to pretend to be a girl because he was fine till puberty. Cause he was a tomboy. His father was a tomboy. And then he, his body said, yeah, you are XX. And so that was very confusing time for him. He got into athletics. And one thing led to another. And he ended up in a very bad place and realized, this is who i am i have to live this truth i don't care if i'm alone and now he's an angel he goes all around the world doing motivational speaking performing in europe making movies he's just a phenomenal human being and he's and he gives the best spankings oh does he i watched him do a spank i helped him do a spanking scene last year in vegas we had a spontaneous 10 person play party break out in our room because i room with the best person ever um read the holco if reed ever comes down to la hopefully we'll get him here on a monday as well so bug is an amazing person he's an amazing player absolutely strong and ethical dirty minded ah really you're a dirt and he's he he spanked her it was a long scene with you know spanking to a plateau scratch scratch scratch scratch scratch nice nice spanking to the next plateau up sweet voice it's a good girl you know at the end she was she it was something they negotiated she wanted an intense thing she wanted to do it was a good thing she wanted to do it she wanted to do it she wanted to spanking scene and so he had to pace it until the end she was truly crying tears and trying to get away and and uh and at the end her butt just looked pink but the next day it was definitely bruised but she loved it then i got to her when she was bruised or before she was she didn't bruise the next day when she left that room that night she had a really pink butt but no handprints no no splotches no no visible bruising just like wow you're a guy sunburned ass the next day um it was like oh wow you really took a spanking and she had a nice round butt too she was just she's just a delightful person well now just if you don't know anything about buck buck was born a woman buck is what they call trans man he's transgender um and so he is famous in porn as the man with the um so he um he has had he had the mastectomy he had small natural breasts that was easy and he has had his internal plumbing taken out so he's had his uterus philippine tubes and his ovaries removed but he has not done any cosmetic surgery to his external genitals he shaves okay so it's really visible but he's not he's not trying to construct a penis they don't they can't do that it doesn't work that way you cannot make a functional penis out of out of girl parts once it doesn't it doesn't work oh you know he he has but he has small he's small hands so he this he fits very well from what i understand um and i'm sure he will just strap on like nobody's business um so and when you come out he's just he's so masculine and when people don't who don't know what to expect when he drops his pants he sees the jaws hit the floor and their eyes are like he had one playmate who was a gold star lesbian so gold for those of you don't know gold star lesbian or gold star homosexual man is someone who's never been with an opposite sex partner so goals are lesbians only ever been with women and goals so i'm a goals are lily kade's a gold star lesbian she's never touched dick doesn't want to touch dick isn't ever gonna touch dick sorry no and uh so he has this one playmate who he's a gold star lesbian but she's very attracted to him because he's very he's hot and her mind is completely melted because because everything says dude until you get to his genitals in which case like okay and since the porn star was a pussy the man with the that's how he built himself so it wasn't like he was trying to and i love that he shaves because a lot of trans men love the hairiness and so they don't shave you know they let their pubic hair grow out they pit their every they like to being furry because it's nothing is a sign of masculine second their sex characteristics and hair but he had the lovely twin goatee so he has he has the lovely he has the face facial hair so he reads like a gay man but he likes sleeping with women i've seen just pictures i was going to ask who he sleeps with so he sleeps with women i think on camera he i think on camera he will sleep he will work with either gender i think in person in private he prefers female boy who's married to i was he's married to earn his ex-wife for a minute so in private i think he prefer you have to ask him i don't i've ever said so in private do you prefer women or that whoever appeals to you as human form well when we get when you see him um i'll see him i'll be seeing him on wednesday yeah just remind him that that you know we've talked a couple times and and whenever he's ready then we are we would love to oh awesome oh he'll come on show with ernest and ernest and me that would be fabulous okay couple more things about doing it in the but yes we have the discussion it's always important to know partner's sexual history before engaging in any form of sexual contact yes but it's especially important with anal sex and most especially for the partner that is on the receiving end why there was always a risk particularly if the rectum in question is unused is unused to having objects inserted into it that there will be some abrasion but there will also be abrasion but there will also be abrasion but there will also be abrasion but there will also be abrasion but there will also be abrasion but there will also be abrasion but there will also be abrasion that there will be some abrasions and bleeding. This can supply a more direct route for the transmission of any STIs. So you want to have the discussion about using condoms and gloves. You can use fingers. Gloves. Fingers. Trim those nails. Trim the nails. Yep. One tiny nick in the anal mucosa and you are out of commission for a week because it feels like a huge gash. A little, you must, gloves, just put on a glove. Yeah. There you go. That's the very next thing on the list is always wear a condom. If you're with your partner, with your person that you're in love with and you're monogamous or you have safe sex with other people, then it's okay. But using an appropriate condom is crucial when engaging in anal sexual activities. True, there's no possibility of impregnation. I know that one for sure. But as mentioned above, STIs can still be easily transmitted. Yes. Sexually transmitted infection. Yes. STIs. Anal intercourse. What's the next thing that we need to do that I've already mentioned? What's on the list? Don't plunge in. Lube. Is that it? Lube. I skipped the lube. You skipped the lube. You have to have lube. Jenny, what do you need when you're having anal sex? Lube. Yay. The right lube. The right lube. Jenny knows. Water-based or silicone-based or whatever. Everyone's different. Some people love silicone-based lube. It says silicone. Others like the... The water-based gel. Not the super slippery, but the cushy gel. Like ID Glide. We like ID Glide for butt sex. And I like silicone for pussy sex. Go freaking figure. I'm just the opposite. Isn't that funny? I really... I love silicone for the ass because it... I don't like things that gunk up or get sticky. Thank you. That's why I don't like water-based lube in my pussy. Yeah. Yeah. I use silicone for the most part anywhere. But there are some good water-based that don't do. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. 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Yes. on an odd basis i will get up and some days i just want to feel more i want to be moist all day long and i will use good old-fashioned ky jelly i take just a little bit on the tip of my finger and i put it in my pussy and i'll have it there all day and it just i don't know if that's one of the reasons why i have such a great ph balance and why my pussy is so bionic but nothing ever happens to it but i'll use ky not for sex just because i like the feeling of being moist of that really slippery moist juicy i like the feeling when my legs stick together in that little i've gone in and tried them at the shops gone in and they put it in your finger yeah and you try every single one out and i can't find one that stays moist long enough i like i like organic coconut oil and i last couple times on my web show i've put on a latex glove which is thicker than a condom and used the organic coconut oil and eight minutes into it my gloves are still intact is that late it's latex the latex glove yeah so so that oil oil based lubes are not supposed to be latex compatible um but i do that crisco which is an artificially hydrogenated vegetable oil eats gloves like crazy but so just for shits and giggles when i do a solo show i use the um coconut oil and my glove and again i've used it up to 10 minutes at a time without the glove starting to tear now i've never put it on a condom which it's thinner than a glove to see and then jerked that off and see how long how long before the condom goes okay i'm done now i'm gonna try that but um for jerking off for jerking off a bear bear pussy or bear dick organic coconut oil is awesome do you remember abilene of course and that no and abilene honest to god they say oh no petroleum product is going to work i'm going to try that and i'm going to try that and i'm going to try but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but but is like super thin petroleum jelly. It's the best jerk-off lube. If you can tolerate petroleum-based products. We loved it. We'd have a giant jar on the set. And everybody would... Where's the Abilene? It's a little town in Texas. Exactly. That would be the big joke. That would be the big joke. Totally it, yeah. My personal preferences are gun oil. Oh, I like that. I love the Pipe Dream lube. The one that... The reason you don't like it is because you've got the sample bottle and it doesn't have the top that pours easily. Well, I like the gun oil. I can carry it. It's got the pump and it's got a good... It looks like a bullet-shaped bullet. It fits in the pocket. And I can pump it out. I don't want a big mess. But I didn't put gun oil in it. I put other lubes in it and it leaks. The consistency, the thickness of it isn't right. So it'll leak out. I like the Aeros, the German... Aeros. Aeros is one of my all-time favorites. Swiss Navy is good. Swiss Navy. I haven't tried that one. Swiss Navy has a good... Pure something? PJUR? That's the Aeros. Aeros? Aeros, yeah. Yes. And they also had a silicone gel that I thought would be good for butt. I did not like it in my butt. So I'm still stuck on ID Glide for my ass. I think I'm going to ask next time my darling wants to fuck my butt to see if he'll try the coconut oil. You know what? I'll give you, if you want, a little sample of the... That silicone? Oh, gosh. What's it called? It's called Pipe Dream. Pipe Dream? And we've got some of their product there and it's a silicone base that I love. It's really light. I'll try it. What the heck? Steve's going to see if we have one. Yay. Other things that you want to make sure of when you're having sex at home. Don't just plunge in. Don't plunge in. Oh, here you go. Oh, nice. It's called Moist and it's really, really nice. Friction-free. Ooh. The only thing that is... This is a sample bottle. Right. So be careful. Got it. Okay. So it's... It opens up like that and it doesn't... Got it. I found with the guys it's different. Some people say certain things sting. Like I remember trying it on oil and it stung a little bit for me too. Really? Yeah. So I tried it on myself and then I... I love this. And taste it. Ooh. There's no taste. There's no taste. No, there's no taste. That's one of the problems I have with a lot of the lubes is that you get that film in your mouth. But you don't... Stevie, what else do we need to know about when we're having anal sex? Oh, try different positions. What are some of your favorite positions? We talked about missionary. You know, I've always wanted missionary. In my head, it's always missionary. Let's just do this missionary. I want to look at you. I want to feel you. But I have to prop a pillow under my butt to get everything up there right. And then it was so much work and scared men. For me to look at them while this is going on, it scares them to death. Well, yes, because sports fucking, you know, it's about the anonymity. And so this, I kind of made it intimate. And intimacy, even for 10 minutes, I'm not going to see you again. It's still too much for a lot of guys. Yeah. So now I've finally given in. I have just hung it up and said, you know what? Fine. Do the doggy. Do doggy. And because I've had them lose it and done nothing because they're so traumatized. Well, traumatized by intimacy. Yes. Yeah. Well, and you're a good looking guy too. You can be very intimidating. I can scare the hell out of men. And I don't understand why because everyone says that. Why aren't you with a whole bunch of people? Why don't you have a boyfriend? I'm like, I guess I'm just too intense. But I, I think I'm just too present. I don't know. But that means everything. Present is a good word. You are always present. You live in the moment. We went to the fair over the weekend. We talked about it a little bit ago and we had the best time at everything that we were doing. We were doing right then, right there. And I remember walking around and watching all of these people on their phones. Yeah. Yeah. And Stevie and I are like, let's go there. Let's go there. Let's go on this ride. And we were winning everything. How fun. Oh my God. I gave, I gave Tank the, the, the big giant gorilla. Yeah. Oh. And my, my dog Tank, he loves babies. So I gave him his, his, I came home and he never touches anything that he's not supposed to. And I came home and I said, do you want a baby? And his whole body was shaking. And then there's like a million pieces of baby all over the house. Oh my God. That's adorable. I do have to say though, when I have clean, there's nights I'll go out. I'll be like, okay, I'm going to go get some and I'll clean. Cool. Nice. Right. Nothing. Not a bite. Not a bite. I'll be out there. I always, I'd always do an anal, an anal douche or an anal squeegee, I call it, which is just using a bulb syringe and over the toilet. That's what I got. And putting out the, the last five inches of my butt, you know. I probably should, but I don't. And so that way, anything, any, it's fine. I'm not, I'm not, I'm not there. I'm not clean enough to have a 12 inch dick or four hours of sex or, or, or, or circus sex, but cleaning out, you know, and I have a good diet. I have regular, my habits are very good. A lot of fiber, a lot of water. So that part's happy. I'm rarely unhappy, digestively speaking. Right. So, which helps a lot. And so the butt squeegee just cleans out any little pieces that are left from earlier and it's, and then I'm just, I'm fine. My dad has a saying. Oh, what is it? Shit happens. Yes. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, and I, I'd say that in my, I talk about that in my book because with all the best laid plans, sometimes shit happens and if you're going to engage in anal sex, you have to get over that. That's why I like gloves on my hand. That would, because then I, I take my hand out of your butt. I take off the glove. My hand is clean. What I hate having to do is getting you all in the mood and then saying, hold that thought and having to go wash my hand under the nail. I like gloves. Yeah. Gloves. Yep. Although what I've been doing lately is, is I don't put my, I'm not, I clean Nick's ass up myself. You know, I go ahead and I shave it and I get a nice knee. he gets good service from you. But the turn on for me is, and I, and Nick and I really haven't discussed about, discussed this too much, is I like the feeling of my finger tapping the outside of the asshole. I love that. It's very nice. More so even than having my finger inside the asshole. For sure. And so for the most part, I don't put my finger in his butt and we're still, that's, even after six years, it's an area that we're really still experimenting with. How nice to have new, new places, new avenues to explore after six years. I totally get it. But, touching it, so many of the nerve, I like stretching it. You don't even have to touch it. Just stretching it and manipulating the, the opening and with, you know, when you stretch the butt cheeks. Right. That, that makes you very aware of your ass. I had shit happen with a Marine. He almost passed out. He almost, he's a Marine and he almost passed out. He said, we're done. You must have amazing, you must have a magic dick. Oh, because you had too much poop? I didn't, no, this was him. Okay. I had gone, I was like, all right. And then, yeah, it happened. It was over. I need smelling salt. Well, on that note, it's been quite a show today. I want to thank everybody for joining Nina Hartley and myself, Ginger Lynn, with the nonstop, ever entertaining, Stevie. I want to thank Jenny for being wonderful. You always are. We love you and I love your hair. It looks fabulous. So, blame it on Ginger, at Nina Lynn and at Skip, Happy Snap. Not Jack, Skip, Happy Snap. I'm going to do an E, a Twitter-duction between you and and Miss Renee. Oh, yes. Thank you. anywhere. We'll be back tomorrow. Bye-bye. Bye. Thanks so much. Thanks so much. Thanks so much. Thanks so much. I want to live a life of sin. I want to be like ginger Lynn. La la dee, la la die. Surrender to the force that lies within. I want to be like ginger Lynn. La la dee, la la die.