Affinity readings and love healing discussion

Hello everyone, good evening. I am Chris Cahill coming to you live from Psychic Everyday Radio at skidrowstudios.com and this is real radio on the internet, people. It is time for another show. It is Wednesday, February 5th, 2014 and this is my first February show and I gotta tell you, I got a month full of shows about things like love and relationships and affinity and things like that because, you know, as you know, February is also a month that has a certain holiday in it, which I will not name. Okay, I could say it. What's that holiday, Mindy? Oh, Valentine's Day? Oh, Valentine's Day. It's like a combination of St. Patrick's Day and Christmas. It's like Valentine's Day, right? Oh, boy, yeah. How are you this week? I'm pretty good. How are you? I'm good. It's nice to hear your voice. Oh, thank you. It's nice to hear your voice, too. Nice to be back in the studio. I hope some of the people hearing you are also watching. That was gonna be my next thing, so thank you for bringing that up. We are live streaming video. Well, I think you look beautiful today, so that way, you know, if someone hasn't turned on the video yet. They can do that, and I can give you all the peace, son. Exactly. Yay. Thank you, Mindy. Oh, thank you. Hey, Chris. Yes? I just wanted to let you know something. Yeah. On Saturday, my band will be playing an afternoon show, so I thought I would share it with you. Oh, that's nice, and share it with everybody. So where is it gonna be? It's gonna be at the Redwood, and it's at... Oh, yeah. The show's from 3 till 5 p.m. We play at 5. That's great. Yeah, that's great, and the Redwood, for those of you who aren't familiar with it, is an awesome downtown bar. It's just wonderful. It's on 2nd Street or 3rd? I believe it's on 2nd. On 2nd. 2nd Hill. Yeah, it's really, it's great. Really, really great. Delicious lunch food. Yeah. Well, good. I'm so glad. Hopefully, I know I can't make the one this week, but thank you for saying. Yeah, no problem. Thank you. Okay, you're welcome. So now we've got our really happy hellos around here because we always, you know, everybody around here has a lot of affinity for each other, and that's really, that's an example of what we'll be doing tonight in this show. I'm doing a show about affinity and love, and affinity is just that ability to really have love for yourself or other people or feel happy about them, you know, like them, like being around them, and affinity is also an ability that you have within you. It's a spiritual ability. So anyway, not to get too far ahead of myself, you're listening at skidrowstudios.com. You can also be watching our video. As Mindy mentioned, we have a live video button on the front page, of our website, and if you go there, you're going to see me saying hello to you. We also have a, we're also on stitcher.com, so you can listen to this at stitcher.com if you're listening on a handheld device. How was that? So let's see. This month, as I mentioned, I'll be featuring four new shows all about different kinds of things having to do with love and relationships, and next week, I'm really going to get into the relationship thing, but tonight I'm kind of going to work from you, from affinity, from love, from those vibrations as healing vibrations, and, you know, I'll be doing that through the whole hour. I will also be giving affinity readings during tonight's show, so if you would like to get a reading, a free mini reading during the show, the number is 1-800-893-9562, and I hope to hear from you tonight. Now, as you can hear, I still have this gunk that's been stuck in my space for about a month now. It's almost gone, and so I assure you that pretty soon you'll be hearing my old voice again, and I can't wait till I hear it again, but it's part of the energy of a growth, you know, just growth period, and sometimes when you're going through a big change in your life, and you know this, you know, from your own experiences, your body has to adjust to it. There's kind of an adjustment that sometimes manifests as a cold or just manifests as needing more space for yourself or, you know, needing new clothes or needing something different, something new, something that you're transitioning to, and at this time in our evolution and in our history, one of the places we're working from or really learning how to work more from is that level of the fourth chakra, the heart chakra, the chakra right in the center of your chest that contains your ability, your spiritual ability of affinity, and it's a lot about affinity and love right now. That's the transition we're making. So that's why I'm focusing on love as a healing energy, affinity as a healing energy. Now, here's a definition of affinity. Affinity is a spiritual ability contained within the fourth chakra or heart chakra located in the center of your chest. I already said that. Your affinity makes it possible for you to have love and affinity for yourself, your creations, your life, your body, et cetera, as well as other people and creatures and the earth, and the universe, and the universe, and life in general. Affinity is a wonderful healing energy to have available in your life. Now, having affinity, and you know what it feels like when you have it, having affinity doesn't mean you're responsible for going around giving it away to other people or healing them on their affinity or trying to make them love you or trying to heal them where they have been hurt. That's kind of been a misnomer in terms of what a fourth chakra is for. You've got to have affinity. You've heard me say before, if you listened to this show long ago, that your fourth chakra, or long enough, that your fourth chakra is not a first aid station. Now, when it comes to having affinity for yourself, that's where you start to heal you. And we'll get more into that in just a moment. I have my first caller, and I will give my first reading tonight. Hi. Hello, you are live. Chris, it's Karen. Why, Karen, nice to hear your voice. How are you? I'm great. And Mindy was right. You do look beautiful tonight. Why, thank you. I'm still coughing in your ear, but thank you. I appreciate it. I feel better. You look great. Thanks so much. Well, I love the topic, as always. Love the love. Good. And I thought you'd know. Affinity. Affinity, babe. Affinity. We're going to go there. Yeah. I'm, like, sucking up my peppermint oil tonight to try to not cough through my whole show. Hmm. I didn't know peppermint oil. It helps with that. That's good to know. It actually does. And hopefully it'll help sooner rather than later. Well, it's not easy when you're talking. That's hard. And you have no breaks, you know. You're doing all the talking. I'm doing all the talking except for when you're talking, and then that's good because I can take a moment and say, all right, I want this to go. Oh, sorry. All right, so let me get into giving you an affinity reading. Love it. And how I'm going to do this, and I'll do it differently for different people, but how I'm going to do it is take a look at the energy of how you're working with your own affinity as a healing energy. Boy, I am just really, isn't this something? Let's go right into it. And the first picture I see is, it's a very calm, grounded vibration, this picture. In the picture, you are sitting under this beautiful old tree. It's a summertime tree. You know, it's got lots of leaves and branches, and the tree is very, you're in the shade under the tree. But the tree is like your friend. That's sort of what I see is like you have an affinity for this tree, and the tree has an affinity for you. It reminds me of, you know the book by Shel Silverstein, The Giving Tree? Yes, I do. Yes. It kind of reminds me of that. It looks like it's about your affinity for the earth, and for just that level of there's a peace you feel being in the space of being with this tree right now. And the picture I see is, and it's very funny because you're sitting under the tree just being. You're not having to, you're not, you know, busy on, you know, doing anything. You're kind of just being. I actually see you reading a book, but the book doesn't, it doesn't look like it's someone else's book. It looks like it's your book. And one thing I see you're doing right now is you're studying your own affinity. Being under the tree looks like it's helping you. It's because it's very grounded. It's calm. It's peaceful. And it looks like it has a lot to do with when you are able to be in a space of nature and have that, that calm, that peace. And the book I see you reading, it looks like actually, it's very funny. The book is blank except for the pages you've already read, which is kind of cool. It's like a, it looks like a sort of like the size of a kid's big storybook, you know, with drawings and stuff. But it's very funny because even though it just looks like one of those skinny little books, it keeps, there's no end to it. It looks like as you open a page, you're, you're working with a level of clairvoyance, you know, just like imagining or seeing it or watching. It unfold from a place of not having to try too hard. So it's a very spiritual ability or task that you're, it's like a spiritual task you're engaged in. You're watching it unfold. You're being with it. But there is an affinity for doing this. There's something you have a love for being in this space. It's a very, for you, it's a very comforting space when you have this. It's a very, it's a very comforting space when you have this. It's calming. It's not, you're not running around chasing after your being. And it looks to me like a being, just being in that place where you have permission to be is what is helping you with your affinity growth period right now. Because, because it is an affinity growth period you're in, which I think is just wonderful. I mean, it looks beautiful to me. And when I see kind of where this is going or just a next step with it, the picture is, it looks like it has a lot to do with, it looks like it has a lot to do with trust. And I believe this has come up for you before. It's kind of a big one for a lot of people right now. So there's a lot of, there's a lot having to do with trust or trusting, trusting the tree, trusting your space that you're having under the tree and just being and sitting on the earth. And it's simple. I know life isn't always like that, but, but that's the picture. So that's what I'm seeing is just kind of, this is a space of trust. That is cool. It's a beautiful picture. Yeah, that sounds great. I know you can see it because as I'm describing it, you're looking at it. That is really cool. Yeah, I am. And it's nice to feel so calm because my life isn't chaotic. But when you're recreating your life, you know, calm and grounded aren't always words that come, come along with that. No. It feels really good. There's a lot of edge in the, in the recreating. Yeah. And it's not, it's not a perfect picture, but you know it, you get it. Yeah. This looks like this is how you take a time out from that edgy kind of, you know, that kind of energy from underneath. Yeah. It's beautiful. Awesome. I'm liking it. Yeah. Thank you for, thank you for calling in so I could read this picture because that really helped me a lot to read it. It actually helped my throat calm down. Oh, good. Isn't that funny? That is funny. Yeah. That's cool. Yeah. Good talking to you, Karen. Thank you so much again. Yeah, you too. Talk to you again. Thank you, Chris. You're very welcome. Bye bye. Bye. Hello, everybody. You are listening to Psychic Everyday Radio at skidrowstudios.com. I am Chris Cahill and if you've just joined me, welcome. This is a live show and I'm taking callers tonight. I'll be giving readings on affinity. It's an affinity night, babies, of having to do with love. So, the number here, 1-800-9-9-9-9. The number here, 1-800-893-9562. Now, I want to continue with, I was just giving you a definition of affinity. Now, affinity is a spiritual ability contained within you already. When you have affinity for yourself, when you're able to have that love working for you, that self-love, it's not the same thing as being, you know, all self-involved in a negative way. You can't live with that. This is about really having an affinity, choosing to have a love for you. And when you have affinity working for you, it's a very lovely energy to have. Life has more happy possibilities, by the way. Affinity helps it feel good to be alive. You know, you have a sense of peace and belonging. You can have love in your life. Affinity makes it more fun for you to be you. If you have affinity for yourself, you can have love in your life. If you have affinity for you, it's not necessary to go around and explain that to anybody or to worry about if whether others have it. Sometimes we put the cart before the horse and we think things along the lines of, well, I'll, you know, I love myself when I start getting, you know, when I'm popular or when people like me or when things are working, when I'm doing it right. And that's kind of not how it works. I'm having an affinity for myself tonight, even though I'm screwing up my show with all these coughing, but whatever. What am I going to do? I'll just say hello to you and just keep going. So affinity helps it be, helps it feel good to be alive. And that's really part of how you heal yourself is when you have that feeling of your life is yours. It's worth living. It's something that you get to create, you get to play with, you get to enjoy. You know, that's how it, that's how it becomes a lot more fun to be who you are. Now that bridge between body and spirit, your fourth chakra right in the center of your chest, your heart chakra, your heart chakra helps to make your spirit real. Helps you experience your higher realms. Having your affinity and your love helps you feel wholeness. Mm-hmm. That is one of affinity's gifts for you is feeling whole. Now I want to get into having affinity for your body. When you have affinity for a few things, including your body, you know, having affinity for having a body at all is a great place to begin. You've heard me talk about this a number of times. If you're trying to heal yourself, you know, on, on some level, spiritually or emotionally, or physically, get that affinity going for your body. So many of us get mad at our bodies and we blame them for things that our bodies are not responsible for creating. Every single thing you've got going on in the body started with your spirit. And then we also might ignore and distrust and, you know, dislike our bodies because they're not how we think they should be. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. and we forget actually that our bodies are really aware when we don't have affinity for them. If you're mad at your body or you're ignoring it or you're pretending like, you know, it's like a deal to haul around, you're having a tough time with it, your body's well aware of that. It's kind of like, you know, you're actually going to be an effort too because your body will be aware that you're not present, you're not on its side. You're kind of leaving it behind. You're leaving it in the dust. Your mind's off doing one thing and your spirit's, you know, off somewhere else and your body's sitting there and if you don't have affinity for it, your body will get mad and it will let you know. So perhaps you can just offer your body some love, some affinity. And, you know, why don't you start right now? Just take a moment and turn to yourself. Just, you know, have your attention on you. You can close your eyes if you want to, but you don't have to. And just begin by saying hello to your body. Send a hello inside of your body. And you can start to make this a regular practice. A regular practice of simply sending a hello to your body and listening to it. And when you start to do that regularly, your relationship with your body, your body will improve. It really does change. When you stop ignoring your body or when you actually start to give it more of what it wants, when you let your body know you have love and affinity for it, it's going to really understand that. It's going to feel it. You create a whole new energy inside of you when you do that. It's kind of magical. And again, this is not something you have to do a particular way. Just because I suggest this, it may not be the way that you do it. Perhaps you take your body for a walk or you give yourself rest when you know you need to, or you do something fun for you. Just do something where you can actually spend some quality time simply being rather than running, running, running. Part of what we do in our modern life, in our modern society is we are running a lot. There's a lot happening. It's easier to get caught up in running. It's easier to get caught up in running. You can run many different places at once and that's okay. We're all capable of it. But then that can drag you away from where you are in present time and wherever your body is, that's where you are. Back to affinity. What else can you have affinity for? Well, your spirit, your own spirit, you, the being, your mind, your intellect, your creativity. Your creativity, your creations, the things you're creating in the world. A lot of times people get very distressed or bored or they're just ready for something brand new because they no longer have an affinity for the things that they used to like. You might just have outgrown those things. You might just be ready for a new picture. And if you have been a victim of that, avoiding creating the things that you really do have an affinity for, you know, those things that there's an inner voice or just, you know, you know what you feel. You're like, I really want to go do that thing. I really want to go paint. I really want to write. I really want to go start my business. I want to play music. I really, these things, I'm always going into it from the creativity. There may be something else. You might want to travel. You might want to move. You might want... There's so many things you could have an affinity for. And if you're not listening to what it is you do have an affinity for, then you're going to be feeling distressed or anxious or bored or kind of waiting. You know, you might get a little stuck, you know, like you're waiting, waiting for it to change. Listen to your affinity, your inner love of what it is you want. Where are you being guided? By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. By yourself. You know, it's important to learn how to do this for yourself and not wait for permission to do this to be delivered by other people. If you've been holding off on loving yourself or holding off on doing things you love, you're putting the cart before the horse and it all begins within you. All of it begins within you. Every single thing. So affinity for yourself is a pretty wonderful way to live a life. Because when you decide you have that, you teach everyone else that that's how it is. You're not going to put up with things or you really won't attract certain kinds of energies either. We all reflect each other. Love yourself just as you are and you can create the relationships you want to have in your life. So you decide you're worthy of your own self-love and you give other people permission to love you too. It's hard to feel good. in your own space without this. As I mentioned just a moment ago, you will create relationships that mirror that back to you. You'll be creating relationships that mirror your own self-love back to you or lack of. A lot of times people think that they need to get the relationships or go create the thing out there in order to prove to themselves that they're worthy or that they're lovable. And it really does work the other way. You know, it can work both ways where you meet somebody else who is so much like you and you just really have an affinity for each other and you start to help each other create your own kind of understanding of, you know, your worth and your love for yourself. So there, I think I have another caller here too and I'd like to give another reading. Hello there, you are live. Hi. Hello. Hi, who's this? This is Ned. Why, hello, Ned. You've called me before. Where do you call from? I forget. I call from North Carolina. Well, it's wonderful to hear your voice again. Well, it's good to see you. Why, thank you. I'm actually watching you instead of just listening this time. I'm saying hello to you, Ned. Hey. Hey. It's awesome. Well, what can I, what can I read for you tonight? Or do you have any comment about, about affinity? Or about any of this? Well, I think I can relate to the thing of affinity and was just kind of wondering, I like so many different things. Sometimes it's confusing. So I have an affinity for numerous things. Cool. That's great. Do you see anything that stands out? Well, what I'm seeing, there's a picture that in where I'm looking at, where do I see you growing in present time with your affinity? And there's a picture that you're looking not, not just at what you have. Like, I just see you really do have quite a, you're quite a healer. You have quite a healing spirit and you do have a lot of positive energy you, you tend to work with. But there's this picture of you starting to sharpen your focus on something that it looks like. And I don't like, you know, I don't like to make predictions, but I do like to make predictions. And I think that's a really good point. It's easy to be ready for something. It's easy to be ready for something. It's easy the energy of something you're focusing on that you want to grow or bring into sharper focus sometime this spring. I just keep seeing April. And it may or may not be exactly in April. But that's the picture is moving more towards something. It's where I just see this vibration of green coming in. It looks like it's just after spring really starts to get underway and roll. And it looks like it may be the picture is it's about something shifting for you at that time. And not that you're I don't see it as being anything like necessarily major. But the picture is that you're there's like a maybe it's just, you know, it's a winter coming to an end. But it looks like there's another level of vibration you're working toward with your own levels of affinity and affinity that, you know, not just what you have for those outside, but for within. And I just see that you're working at a level of healing that's in your spirit that's at a pretty deep place. But for some reason, I just there's a whether it's an action you are intending to take or a goal, a wish, a desire, something that looks like it isn't here yet, but that you're working on. And it could be a very simple thing. But I just see I just keep seeing this like there's a focus sort of from where you are right now on February 5th, 2014 and winter 2014. Looking ahead at this spring and this particular whether it's an event or is a desire or something there. That's the picture. And it's not that it's all about that. That's just looks like somehow a stepping stone or a point in the in the if I'm going to look at the whole year is like a timeline that it's kind of like a place that you you rest or you stop or something along the way. I don't know if this is making any sense. But the picture is you're moving towards something that looks like some in April. There's another level of it. And go ahead. Go ahead. And maybe the first time I called you, we were talking about third chakra work. And I had an experience last Easter where I was in the hospital for a week in intensive care. Yes. Now I remember that. Mm hmm. I thought, well. It's like that's interesting. You would mention the thing of of green. It's like, so are we stepping up to the fourth chakra with green? April seems to be, again, the same time of year, Easter and some kind of renewal. Yeah. It doesn't look like it's going backwards. It looks like it's actually moving forward. So that actually you could look at that as being a healing. There is a healing that you are, you know, it's not that you're still in the energy from last year, but there looks like getting through that time. There's something new that comes as a result of what you went through. Like the third chakra stuff, you were clearing an old control and old vibration. So now you're in a place where you're ready for something new. And that's just all I can see is right now. It looks like you're creating. There's another new level and not going back into a hospital or doing anything like that. There's something more positive. Thank God. No, this is not what I'm seeing. I'm seeing it more from the positive self-healing level. So affinity for you right now looks like it has to do with healing yourself on that level. And I, you know, I would have to go ahead and share that I listened to and I first heard you on the podcast off iTunes. Yes. And there really is something years ago I did what was... What you said. What you said. What you said. I think it used to be a training program that came out of California back in the late 60s, early 70s. And your podcast, your show really resonates with a lot of stuff that I haven't heard in a long time. Well, there you go. You might be reminding yourself of your spirit because that's kind of what it looks like here, Ned. Ah, great. Yeah. Well, good luck to you and thank you so much for listening and for calling. I appreciate it. And I hope to talk to you again. We'll call again sometime. Thanks. Thanks. Bye. Bye. Hi, everyone. You are listening to Skid Row Studios.com. I am Chris Cahill and this is Psychic Everyday Radio. And I'm in the middle of doing some readings about affinity and love. I'm doing a whole show on affinity and love. So let's see. Here's my next caller, it looks like. Hi, you are live on the air. Hi, Chris. It's Natasha. How are you? Good, Natasha. How are you doing? I'm doing really, really well. I would love like a general reading, whatever you're feeling. Well, what I'm doing is a general, just a hello at affinity tonight. So I'm going to take a look at your affinity ability. And let me just take a quick little gander at where I see you in present time with that. You always have perfect affinity. I have perfect subjects each week. Oh, thank you. Thank you so much. You're welcome. I'd like to have a subject next week called no longer coughing. I know I'm coughing now too. I'm not okay with that. Do you have that same thing that's going around? I do. Exactly. It really is hilarious how it doesn't quite, it lingers. It does linger. Yeah. But then it goes away. Yeah. It does. It does. Let's see now. What I'm looking at with you in present time. Okay. Now, I know I saw a picture of you in the morning. I know you're in the morning. I know you're in the morning. I know you're in the morning. I know you're in the morning. Okay. Now, I know I saw a picture like this for you before at one point. The picture is when I look at your affinity in present time, I see this really sparkly, it's glitter, of course, and it's like this electric blue and a really hot pink. Oh my gosh. That's my two favorite colors. Well, and it's a heart. The picture is the heart is, it's a really beautiful little like sparkly heart. Like you could- Oh, I love that. You can see it in your hands. It's about maybe six inches wide and it's maybe like six by six inches. And the picture with the little heart is, it's like a little Valentine to yourself. The heart is divided down the middle, but kind of like with a little squiggle or almost like a jagged line down the middle. Totally. Yeah. And it's beautiful. There's blue on the left side and pink on the right or they're reversed. It doesn't matter what side is what. What I see is this picture of you folding the two halves into each other, and they're each a different kind of vibration that you have or how you see love and affinity, and folding these two halves together so that they can really just touch. It's beautiful. So what I see is not just the affinity you have for glitter and sparkles and all the color, like hot color, but there is something about you, when you fold it in half toward itself, it also gets protected and hidden from others. You can do that when you want to. Because the outside isn't sparkly. The outside is very simple. It's kind of almost trying to be incognito, the other side. And the inside is this beautiful sparkle. And I see this picture of you having, even though you love to show your sparkle and your color, what I see is this picture of when you choose to, you can close this up, and it's your secret. You have it in there. You're protected. And that looks to me like a lot of this, actually, this is like affinity I'm looking at, but it looks like it has to do with you trusting yourself. A new level of self-trust. That's where you're working with your affinity. It's beautiful. Absolutely. It's amazing. I love it. I love looking at this. I love it, too. You're awesome. Thank you. You're always so colorful. You're so beautiful and sparkly to look at. So me. You're so awesome. Thank you so much. Thank you, Natasha. Thanks for calling in. Nice talking to you. Bye-bye. Hello, everyone. I'm continuing with my show about affinity. And it's really fun to say hello to all these beautiful people who are calling in. Affinity is a lovely, fun, fun energy to work with. And it's way more fun than not having affinity, that's for sure. So let's see. Let me take my next caller. Hi. You are on the air. It's Chris. Hi, Chris. It's Cindy. How are you? I'm good, Cindy. How are you this week? I am well, thank you. Good. Good. Now, would you like, do you have a comment or would you? You know what? I have a quick comment and then I'd love you to read what you see in me. All right. But you were talking about affinity toward one's body. And I was just thinking of today I had a conversation with my 90-year-old mother. Who's been hit with almost everything in America. And she's like the Energizer bunny. And I have to say she's a testament to overcoming your body, loving your body, and just marching on. Oh, my God. She had cancer eight months ago and they reversed it. And we thought she wasn't going to make it. And then she just had a huge fall and had surgery. And her spirit is great. You would never know. You would never know it. Right. Well, this is not anybody else who did this to her or for her. Nobody could have healed her if she hadn't decided to step up and still stay here and be in her body and be healthy. It's amazing. Yep. So I think everyone wants some of that, you know? Well, definitely. She's a great example. And she's also actually, you know, sometimes when we go through stuff like that, it's our body saying, hello, I'm here. That's what she does. Yep. And that's the key. And it looks wonderful. She's a great example. She is. Yep. Well, how about you? And I'd love to hear what you're seeing in me. I've made maybe some recent discoveries about myself and I'm learning some things about myself. And we just like to see what you're seeing. Okay. I'm going to take a look at that. That's a wonderful place to look. And the first thing I see immediately is this picture of like a little basket, you know, kind of like when you go. It's very funny. It's hard to describe. But like a little basket. It's a little basket where one might put one's keys and little tiny things by the front door or someplace so you don't forget them. And the picture is that you forgot you had this little basket. And it was a basket holding different kinds of energies for you. And it's a very small. It's like something that maybe a loaf of bread would fit into. You know, it's even a little shorter than that. Just a small little humble looking basket. But I see you reaching into this basket. And it looks like you're... You keep... You're realizing, oh, I have all this stuff in here. And it looks like you just keep pulling out different vibrations or energies or things. So not just... Literally, not just keys because the keys look like they're keys to parts of you. They're keys to things you forgot you had because you used to look outside of you. And now with this basket, you're realizing, oh, I actually... I actually have a well within me. I have all of this within me. It's my responsibility. I'm the one who has to decide I do have it. And that's the picture is you are turning on your affinity for yourself to another level. You needed to get... As I recall it, you were really getting some space from your old way of living or being or working. Yeah. And so it looks like what you did by getting space, even if by, you know, having space, you were feeling nervous about it, but you didn't have anything else to focus on as much as you. I mean... That's correct. Yep. And that's hard. That's scary. But it looks like by having your space and focusing on you, you got your space to the degree that you could see this basket and you could realize, oh, it is full. It's full of things that I actually forgot I have. You know, things you forgot to... I didn't think I even knew. I didn't know I had some of the things. Yeah. You forgot to value. You know, we all... And I'm not dissing on work or jobs or things like that, but when we get caught up in the demands placed on us by, you know, companies or, you know, the society or just how things should be, there becomes this demand to kind of match to or be that thing. And then it can be really easy to forget about who one is. Or you tend... Or you tend to... Or you tend to... Or you tend to focus on the things you need to improve... Yep. ...rather than the things you do well because you're always trying to, you know, be the good worker. You're trying to be the good worker. You're doing something outside of yourself rather than being who you are inside of. And there is a lot of affinity that goes along with that, reversing that, realizing... ...I can still be... I can still hold a job and get a paycheck and do these things, but I don't need to have myself... ...and I don't need to have myself taken away from me. So... Exactly. ...you've decided to get yourself back and that's the basket. And it's really cool how it's very... When I say humble, it's just... It's like a really pretty little simple straw basket. It doesn't need to be anything... You know, it's not like it's a huge thing. It's not for anyone else. It's for you. And it's very natural. That's... I guess that's why I'm seeing it like that because it's very natural. It's not like there's a show for anyone else. Mm-hmm. And it looks like that's part of this... Part of this is... You know the expression, you know, look busy. You're not having to look busy right now. Isn't that great? It is great. Yep. Good for you. Thank you so much. You're welcome. Thanks for listening and for calling in. I always enjoy it. Oh, thanks. Bye-bye. Bye. Hello, everyone. I am Chris Cahill, your host of Psychic Everyday Radio. And we've got another 15 minutes left. We've got another 15 minutes left. We've got another 15 minutes left. We've got another 15 minutes left. We've got another 15 minutes or so in tonight's show. I am doing a show about love and affinity. My number is 1-800-893-9562. And you still have time to call in if you'd like to get a reading tonight. All right. Back to affinity. So I've been focusing on affinity for you. You having affinity for yourself. You being able to use that fourth chakra ability of self-love and love for yourself, for your creations, for your life. For your body, for what you're doing. But how about your affinity for other people? We've gone into that just a little bit. Again, every healthy relationship you create or every happy relationship or every, actually, every relationship you create begins with the one you have with yourself. And when you become more conscious about the relationship you're having with yourself, then you change the kinds of relationships you create. So many of us kind of think we have to sort of run out, go out there and be an effort over trying to make a relationship happen, whether it's a love relationship or a professional relationship or friendship, a relationship with family or friends or whoever. But it all begins within you. You teach other people how they can relate to you. You teach other people how they can treat you and how you want them to treat you. And then I'm going to give you a little bit of time to think about how you want them to treat you. And when you have affinity for yourself, you're teaching the world that that's the deal. That's kind of how it works. You just won't put up with anybody who won't value you when you start to have that. And you heal yourself. It takes a lot of courage to do this. You know, the courage, as you heard with the last caller, the courage to even be alone with yourself. The thing that happened when our economy hit the fan and jobs started going away for people, and this is very important, it's evolution. But the thing that happened is people had to recreate, to reimagine themselves, to see themselves differently. And it's very, and it's, you know, kind of shaky and scary and a little weird. And, you know, what is this and what are the rules now and what is the game we're playing? And it used to be more simple when you would just go to work and do your job. And here you know what you're supposed to be doing. But, and you might not have to really be yourself. We live in a connection economy now. And it's just getting more and more so. So it's important that you really know how to do that, connect with other people. And I'm sure you're noticing that. But also how to be yourself doing that. Because that's actually what people are looking for. Being who you are is the thing that's really valued and validated. And people know when you're not being you. When you're being kind of false or you're not really all present or there. So affinity is an energy that helps you be you. Because you're happy being you. Because you want to be you. Because you like you. So you become yourself and you trust you. And others are going to find that they can trust you too. And you'll find that it's easier to learn how to trust others. Because you've decided already. That you are able to have that. To be conscious of what it is that that means. Or what it is you'd like to create. Affinity is a spiritual ability. It's your spirit. And it's a healing energy too. One you can use to heal yourself. So this is all about love. If you're using the energy of love daily. It shows you become healing to be around. And if you remember to love yourself. You are a magnet attracting good to yourself too. So that is a wonderful thing. Now having affinity for other people. Means that you have. You really like their energy. You love them or you like their energy or who they are. You can have another. You can have a deep affinity for another human being. Whether that person is somebody in your family. Mother, brother, father. Sister, sister, whoever. Your cousin. You know nieces and nephews. Your grandparents, whoever. You see people with different energy. Just tend to naturally have an affinity for each other. It could be that you see you know. For example in my family. I always was aware that my grandmother. That her favorite was my brother. One of my brothers. And that didn't bother me. I was like they just had an affinity for each other. And I always liked both of them. But it was just kind of. You could just see a certain spark. Or a certain kind of. Vibration that they had. In their communication. You can have affinity for people you work with. For you know. Your own special relationships. People you care about in your life every day. For people in general. It actually is really nice to like people. And especially if you're in a position. Where you are having to work with the public. Or work with people. I hope that you like them. That you can have affinity for them. I've actually. You know the people out there. Who are working with the public. Who obviously are over people. They really don't want to work with people. And I know people like that too. I think it's very funny. I remember once years ago. I was at the DMV in Illinois. When I was still living in Chicago. And I was getting my new. My driver's license renewed. And I had to stand in all those lines. And do the thing you have to do. And when I was standing. And everybody was. You know most people there. Were pretty nice. They were you know just. You could say hello to the person. At the window. And they're nice. And you just little chit chat. Except for the woman. Who was actually taking the photos. This is the most hilarious thing. So I hand her my stuff. You know I finally get to go up. And get my photo taken. And I've got a big smile on my face. And I said hi to her. Because I was determined. I was going to have a really good photo. For my driver's license. Because I was tired of having bad ones. And it was very funny. Because I get in. You know I stand in front of the thing. Right in front of the camera. And she goes. Smile if you want to. And it was just like that. And it was hilarious. She had no smile on her face. She was not trying to be funny. And I just laughed. And I had the weirdest photo as a result. But it was. It cracked me up. I'm like this woman is working with the public. All day long. And she obviously hates people. She has no affinity. It was funny. I thought okay. I'm sorry. I'm sorry you have that. But I still have a good story out of it too. Now. Having affinity and expressing love to others. Really does start with you. Having it for yourself. Now I know I've been making that. This whole show about this. Love and affinity. For yourself. For other people. But as you do this. As you practice giving yourself. That kind of beautiful healing for you. Having that ownership. Over your own fourth chakra abilities. Your own heart. Your own heart. Your own heart. Your own heart chakra. That bridge between your body and your spirit. Having an affinity. For those around you. You know just for life. It changes. What you create. And life really does have meaning and beauty. When you do that. Now you could also be. Working the affinity picture. From what you have affinity for. Out in the world. It may be that you really have an affinity for. You know a certain kind of music. Or a certain place on the planet. Or you know just driving in a certain area. Maybe you have an affinity for camping. Or hiking or dancing. Or something like that. This again is your ability. You working with. What it is that you like. That you love. That you care about. And that will change the world. That's the other part of the evolution. Revolution. We're in right now. And the one that actually we've been in for a while. For a number of decades. Really since the end of World War II. The beginning of the 50s and 60s. It really started in the 60s. It became much more about love. You know the age of Aquarius and all that stuff. We're finally in the age of Aquarius. But it really did. It really was a different time in our evolution. As spiritual beings and bodies. Working from the fourth chakra. That level of. Of. Of you know love and affinity. So the older generation. The one that likes to call itself the greatest generation by the way. That was the third. Or the second World War generation. They're wonderful. But they were working more from the third chakra. From a level of duty and rules and obligation. And they're not wrong. That was necessary. That was certainly. That's part of our evolution. That's certainly a spiritual. Place to work from too. Those are abilities. But as we have changed. We have become much more inclusive of other human beings. Not about just the rules or the obligation. Or what you're supposed to do. Or where you belong. Or all of that. But that we all have. We can all love each other. That perhaps the planet. That we live on. Will benefit from each of us working with affinity. You know each of us deciding to embrace. That. To embrace a level of love. It doesn't mean you have to. You know walk around trying really hard to love people who you just can't stand. Maybe you can have a little tolerance for them. It's really difficult to. Love people who are acting like haters. But I just look at them as well. Maybe they just never really had enough love for themselves. And they have to be working from that place. I don't have to heal them. I don't have to fix them. I don't have to. I can solve them. And I don't have to judge them. But you can go back to you. You know working from that place of affinity and love for you. That starts within you. And moves from you out. As you. If you were listening to all the calls tonight. You're seeing different people. Everybody who called in tonight is working from a different place of accessing their affinity and their self-love. And their ability to have that for themselves. And it's a great big growth period. It's a big wonderful place to work. A growth period just means that you're in a time of growth. And there's a there's kind of a transition while you're going through it. We used to have the picture. When we were living in rules and obligations and what you should do. That in order to have love or be loved you had to somehow earn it. It's often a picture people have when they're working from what are the rules. What is everyone else saying? But that's just not really how it how it works. That doesn't cut it. The rules and obligations don't really sometimes give you permission just to decide. Hey no matter what. No matter what I've succeeded at or haven't succeeded at. No matter how my body looks. No matter how how you know other people see me. I'm not going to care. I'm not going to go into that and get sucked into that judgment. I'm going to decide right now. That I can love myself. I'm going to have affinity for me. And that's actually kind of where it happens. And you really do get it too when you see other people out in the world who decide no matter what. They're they're having that like if you you know you could run into somebody who other people might judge because of how they look or what they do or what their position is in life or their station or whatever. You know. They have that other level of abilities. And that person just doesn't really seem to care. It doesn't really stick. They have love and affinity for others. They have a kindness. And that's part of what does come across when you start to really work from a place of self-love from that affinity. That kindness comes across. Other people feel safer around that. It's a nice level to work from. But. First and foremost. You heal yourself. You bring something to you when you do that. So I suggest this week that you work from a place of affinity. Give yourself a try. You know give yourself the permission to do that to have affinity for you. And to give it to people especially the difficult ones who have a you've had a hard time having that for. If somebody is giving you a hard time just work from that place of having your love. You know you have to have that love within you. Try it. We are coming to the end of the show. I have some things I want to tell you about. First and foremost. Thank you every one of you for listening for downloading my podcast. It is free by the way on iTunes. You can subscribe to my podcast Psychic Everyday on iTunes. Thank you for visiting my blog and my website. 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